What you believe is one thing and how you conduct yourself is one thing. They are not two of the same thing.
It is not your specific vocabulary, but your attitude. You should be gentle when correcting someone, not heavy handed. You might not be making any ad homs, but your responses are strong and not tempered. That is what I am talking about. I don't even think you are breaking any rules, but I think this is a bigger issue than simply following the letter of the law and everything else is fair game.
In other words, I am asking you to put your love goggles on and try and view me as a person instead of an argument. Know the people you talk to online have a person behind the screen. I think it is always best to err on the side of caution with respect. Your responses should be tempered with love first and foremost.
And like I said for probably the third time now, I don't hold to a strictly Calvinistic belief, so your argument with me is ill founded given your main gripe is with Calvinism and not with me. But I don't hold exactly a Calvinistic belief so you are arguing the wrong thing to the wrong person.
Let me try and do something and we will see what happens.
Again, Jesus called people snakes, and white washed tombs. Paul told the Galatians that they were foolish. I did not even come close to doing that. So your view here is not biblical. Correcting a wrong belief in a harsh way is not an unbiblical thing to do. If you believe otherwise, then you need to show that with Scripture.
As for your claim that you don't exactly hold to Calvinism:
How does that work? Do you only believe in some points of TULIP?
Do you believe the non-elect have a chance at salvation?
Please explain in depth as much as possible.
You said:
What do you believe about Soteriology? How do you think people get saved?
When I read the Scriptures, I see 4 different aspects of salvation described.
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Provisional Atonement (not "Limited Atonement").
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A 100% Work of God alone that can only be applied personally to an individual's life via by Justification and Sanctification).
This is Jesus paying the price for the sins of the entire world so as to offer mankind the free gift of salvation (if they so choose to accept it); Note: Christ's resurrection (to give us a new body not tainted by sin one day), and the ascension to the Father (after Christ telling Mary not to touch Him), and his entering the holy temple by his blood (to be our Heavenly High Priest) is also included in the Provisional Atonement, too. (For Provisional Atonement verses, see: John 1:29, 1 John 2:2, 1 Timothy 2:6, 2 Corinthians 5:19, Romans 5:6-8.).
#2.
Justification (Initial Salvation, and or Foundational Salvation).
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The 1st synergistic work of GOD done in a believer).
Justification is the entrance gate to salvation, and it is the foundation of our salvation (by faith) upon which we stand. Justification is believing the gospel (Which is the power of God unto salvation to everyone who believes it - Romans 1:16). According to 1 Corinthians 15:1-4: The gospel is you believing that Jesus Christ died for your sins, He was buried, and He had risen again three days later for your salvation (
Note: Do not let anyone sell you on another gospel besides this one). Depending on a person’s access or exposure to the Word: Justification will also generally include receiving Jesus as your Savior (John 1:12), and calling upon the name of the Lord (i.e. confessing with your mouth the words: “Lord Jesus” or similar equivalent - Romans 10:9) as a part of seeking forgiveness of your sins with Him by way of prayer (Romans 10:13) (Luke 15:18-21) (Luke 18:9-14). This process of salvation is without the deeds of the Law or works because it is based upon God’s mercy and grace and His redemptive work. As a result: One is born again spiritually (Note: Born again by the Spirit, and born again by water (i.e. the Scriptures - Romans 10:17, 1 Peter 1:23)). A person is foundationally or ultimately saved by God’s grace because if they happen to sin on rare occasion in their Christian walk, they do not do a good work to absolve that sin, but they confess of their sins to Jesus in order to be forgiven of that sin (1 John 1:9) (1 John 2:1) (Hebrews 4:16) (For Justification verses, see: Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 4:1-6, Titus 3:4-7, 1 Corinthians 15:1-4, Luke 18:9-14, Romans 5:1-2).
#3.
Sanctification (The Next Step or Phase in the Salvation Process).
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The 2nd synergistic work of God done in a believer).
Sanctification is the next step or phase in Salvation for a believer who lives out their faith; This is the work of God moving in a believer's life so as to help them to live holy, and to do good works and to put away the lusts of the flesh. These good works are the works of God done through the believer, and so all boasting or praise is given to the Lord. Therefore, there is no boasting in one's own work because they are ultimately the works of God done through the believer. A believer today who obeys the Lord looks to the commands of Jesus and His followers within the New Testament primarily. For believers today are not under the 613 Laws of Moses as a whole package deal (even though certain laws have carried over into the New Testament). Basically all ceremonial laws and judicial laws in the Old Testament no longer apply. For example: Believers do not have to keep the Saturday Sabbath, circumcision, dietary laws, animal sacrifices, holy days, etc.; However, believers must keep God's Moral Laws like: Do not murder, do not steal, do not covet, do not lie, do commit adultery, etc.; Two of the greatest commands that we should focus on daily is to love God and love our neighbor which is more fully described in Mark 12:29-31. We need to worship or adore the Lord our God, preach the gospel, help the poor, love the brethren, love our enemies, and live holy lives, etc. (For Sanctification verses, see: James 2:24, James 2:17-18, Titus 1:16, Hebrews 5:9, 2 Thessalonians 2:13, Hebrews 12:14, Romans 8:1 (KJV), 1 Corinthians 16:22, Romans 8:13, etc.).
#4.
Glorification (The Future Salvation of the Truly Faithful Believer).
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A 100% Work of God alone that can only be applied personally to an individual's life via by Justification and Sanctification).
Glorification is when God takes the believer home to be with Him in His kingdom and He gives Him a new resurrected body that is not tainted by sin. This process of salvation (in being taken home) is a by product automatically for those believers who properly applied Justification and Sanctification to their lives (For Glorification verses, see: 1 Peter 5:4, 1 Peter 1:4, 1 Corinthians 15:51-57, 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17, Romans 13:11, Philippians 3:20-21, Hebrews 9:28).
Conclusion:
Justification, and then Sanctification is what we as believers need to be focused on. For if we are justified, and sanctified (
which is only made possible by the Provisional Atonement)