- Oct 4, 2016
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How does predestination factor in when dating people? And how does free will factor into dating? I'm sure some of the answers are obvious but I just thought it was a strange thing to bring up when I was talking about what I've learned.
I think your more likely to screw yourself up with the notions of predestination and soul mates. One Coptic priest I know that does lots of self help and advise type sermons etc. has actually preached on that sort of thing. Here is one of his videos on the topic.
I'm not saying it is impossible. I'm starting to begin to appreciate the notion of Divine Providence acting in my life etc. but this is kind of tricky. This is something you can sometimes see if you study a situation and look backward... (Sometimes God prepares things for you before you need them etc.).
But anyway at the age of 53 I'm just starting to get a handle of this in some areas in life. Often in life, especially in my younger years, you are kind of lost in a fog, even as a believer, when it comes to this sort of thing. And I think there are much better ways to frame this especially when it comes to the nature of the Bible and Christian ethics, as well as terms of practicality, who you are attracted to and compatible with etc.
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