'well-known NC pastor' accused of urinating on woman during flight

I've read in some of the other stories about this that she is now having problems with anxiety and having trouble sleeping. She might be looking for a payday.

chunkofcoal said:

I've read in some of the other stories about this that she is now having problems with anxiety and having trouble sleeping. She might be looking for a payday.

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Sound like stereotypical lawyer think. How's her neck?

timothyu said:

New found riches for the industry by bringing in hush money

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Best I can do is $2.50

chunkofcoal said:

I've read in some of the other stories about this that she is now having problems with anxiety and having trouble sleeping. She might be looking for a payday.

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Why can’t she just move on and realize that she will be urinated on by clergy and doesn’t deserve compensation.

chunkofcoal said:

I've read in some of the other stories about this that she is now having problems with anxiety and having trouble sleeping. She might be looking for a payday.

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... or rightly indignant about being urinated on even if the man was not in his right mind.

Aryeh Jay said:

Why can’t she just move on and realize that she will be urinated on by clergy and doesn’t deserve compensation.

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If the story is true, obviously the man was not in his right mind.
Whatever happened to forgiveness?

timothyu said:

People in a stupor (be it sleep or alcohol/drug induced) often mistake things like suitcases, refrigerators or closets for bathrooms. Perhaps he had too much black water like the belly button pastor or thought in a dream she had been the victim of a sea urchin. Either way, she'll have something to tell her grandkids about her holy anointing at 35,000 feet.

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Ambien is known to cause all sorts of - sometimes - scary situations:

The man has a problem, whether intentional which makes no sense as he has a successful career to protect, or the result of a stupor. Where does anyone else have the right to add to his woes by adding their opinion and inflating the issue perhaps beyond what is truth or make it about their own agendas. This is where forgiveness comes in. It keeps damage at a minimum.

chunkofcoal said:

If the story is true, obviously the man was not in his right mind.
Whatever happened to forgiveness?

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Agreed. She should forgive him and beg God’s forgiveness for drawing attention to this embarrassing accident that is reflecting negatively on the good Parson.

Aryeh Jay said:

that is reflecting negatively on the good Parson.

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Should it matter what the guy was?

chunkofcoal said:

If the story is true, obviously the man was not in his right mind.
Whatever happened to forgiveness?

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What happened to being responsible? If he was taking medication that causes these kinds of side effects it’s on him to find out how it effects him prior to being out in public under its influence.

Desk trauma said:

What happened to being responsible? If he was taking medication that causes these kinds of side effects it’s on him to find out how it effects him prior to being out in public under its influence.

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Altitude effects everything

I've seen sleepwalking people do things far more complex than unzip their pants and pee.

It seems more reasonable than to think a coherent, sane man would just randomly decide to pee on a woman in an enclosed place, surrounded by dozens of other people, where there's a 100% chance of being caught and arrested.

Or maybe he's just a nutjob.

But hey, speculation is way more fun than waiting for facts and information.

chunkofcoal said:

I've read in some of the other stories about this that she is now having problems with anxiety and having trouble sleeping. She might be looking for a payday.

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I thought the exact same thing when I saw that. She claims she's like, wracked with anxiety and can't sleep. Which makes no sense to me at all. It's not like the guy followed her off the plane and knows where she lives. Sure, it was gross and shocking, but you weren't harmed, it's over, you're perfectly safe now. Get on with life, lady.

NerdGirl123 said:

She claims she's like, wracked with anxiety and can't sleep.

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No claims of whiplash from rapidly turning her head away. She stayed until the credits finished rolling right down to the last drop according to the article.

Now we've moved to bed wetting. Why not. What a year.

mkgal1 said:

Ambien is known to cause all sorts of - sometimes - scary situations:

"FDA adds Boxed Warning for risk of serious injuries caused by sleepwalking with certain prescription insomnia medicines | FDA" Boxed Warning for risk of serious injuries caused by sleepwalking​

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I'm sure the man in this story. Had issues in the pass. While taking this pill. And he should have not used it in the plane. My aunt takes this pill and laugh about sleep walking. Cooking meat and putting whip cream on it. Then she ate it. She knows it's dangerous. And used to laugh it off. Because she like the high alcohol and Ambien gives.

Desk trauma said:

What happened to being responsible? If he was taking medication that causes these kinds of side effects it’s on him to find out how it effects him prior to being out in public under its influence.

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Doubt anyone could have seen that one coming.

My husband got peed on once by an upstairs neighbor who didn't know he was standing under him---or so he said. My husband wanted to beat him to a pulp for weeks after---the guy finally did move out, the landlady was not happy with him. It is humiliating, and degrading. My husband forbid me to tell anyone what happened. I was trying hard not to laugh as he was furious. Yes, it bothered his sleep also. Why is this so hard to understand her reaction to this?

As a child, my brother was fixing to cut loose in the kitchen trash, until we stopped him...no medication whatsoever.

Since this is often the sole reason we get out of bed, it has become something we are so used to doing in a semi sleep condition anyway, that now that I think about it, this could easily happen anyway, but with medication, how much more?