- Mar 26, 2020
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So I have been talking to a girl for 6 months, actually we got to talking on this forum come to find out she lives really close to me which blew my mind, anyways we met each other for the first time last Saturday and it went really well, she has told me before that she likes me and has feelings for me and thought about me as possibly the one at times, we get along amazing talk easily and just idk all of our views are compatible and she has met all of my standards i had for a girl who I would consider dating, we are both Christians as well obviously. So the day after we met she told me she felt like she needed to make a decision right there if I was the one or not and I told her she didn't need to do that so soon, she calmed down and said i was right i shouldn't worry about it right now. So then the next day it got brought up somehow and I told her I think she is the one, she told me it made her very happy i told her that but for now she wants friendship. Which im completely fine with because we do need to get to knowing each other better.
To me it feels like this is meant to be and God set this up i don't know the chances of us meeting on this forum and being so close if it wasn't God setting it up, her family also likes me alot and ive asked her if she sees any reason we would not work out, she said she does not and she is just not ready to be more than friends for a while. She just isn't sure how long It will take. Also im 18 and she is 18 as well so we are both young, i guess I feel somewhat anxious since she mentions that in time she will know if im the one or not, and im not sure why it does. I've told her im willing to be patient and wait and not to rush things, she had a guy who did rush things and it caused alot of hurt when she had to tell him she never saw him in that way period. And she said she just doesn't want to casue me the same pain, she's also shy and doesn't have the most self confidence at times.
So anyways I know super long message but what do you all think ?
To me it feels like this is meant to be and God set this up i don't know the chances of us meeting on this forum and being so close if it wasn't God setting it up, her family also likes me alot and ive asked her if she sees any reason we would not work out, she said she does not and she is just not ready to be more than friends for a while. She just isn't sure how long It will take. Also im 18 and she is 18 as well so we are both young, i guess I feel somewhat anxious since she mentions that in time she will know if im the one or not, and im not sure why it does. I've told her im willing to be patient and wait and not to rush things, she had a guy who did rush things and it caused alot of hurt when she had to tell him she never saw him in that way period. And she said she just doesn't want to casue me the same pain, she's also shy and doesn't have the most self confidence at times.
So anyways I know super long message but what do you all think ?