Over the years of trying to figure things out, I have come to a few strong conclusions, among which is that the things of this earth are pictures or figures of the things to come. I honestly don't believe there is anything here, but sin and its results, that won't be shown to be vapors compared to the real thing in the next life. One example would be to say that God is not like the fathers on earth, but that the fathers on earth are like God --however poorly they may be so. Another such example is to say that God is not male, like human or animals can be males; rather, he is masculine --super-masculine, actually-- and what is masculine on earth is weakly so by comparison, males being only one example of masculinity.
Many insist that good hermeneutics show that the word "as", in "as a bride" (Rev 21:2) proves the New Jerusalem is not the Bride herself but is only AS a bride in some way, though I have yet to hear some way that would happen. Anyhow, I believe the New Jerusalem, the place Christ went to heaven to prepare for us IS THE ELECT. (I can't prove it, of course, but there are just too many pictures given, too many indicators, and by thinking this is so there are too many things in scripture that finally line up for me, for me to think otherwise. And I admit, I could be wrong.)
My sister says she has no interest in a city, no matter how glorious and beyond imagination, though she admits God can change her mind agout it if he wishes to. I myself, and many other believers I know, hate crowds and some even don't like people, specially unfamiliar people. But THIS --a place for God to be with us, and for us to finally be with him and see him as he is-- the places where each individual has his own name, but everything (everyone) is part of everything (everyone) else, the Bride of Christ, bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh, has the REAL things that we thought we saw on earth --dwelling places, pearls for gates, transparent gold for streets, living water, and so on.
Haha, the biggest reason I can find for not believing I have this right is that I can sort of imagine it, but God says it is beyond imagination.