Hello
@SeekingGloryOnThisJourney
I would like to make my contribution by telling my own experience.
Quick note on my background:
I had a very strong Christian upbringing
I never went to an all-girls school
I went to church every Wednesday & Sunday
No, I wasn’t sheltered/overprotected
From my pre-teen years, I had started to develop unhealthy attractions for girls, which continued into my adolescent years. The 3 counts of encounters I had where with women from Uni who had been bold enough to approach me.
Until my final year in Uni, when my relationship with God became important, I NEVER gave my sexuality a second thought. At this time, I had now acknowledged to myself that on all levels, bisexuality was wrong. I started to become more aware.
This consciousness was made possible by the deliberate effort of a friend to re-introduce me to God: and this had nothing to do with my “secret“ lifestyle. This time, I felt my whole being receptive towards this new change. Surprising (or maybe not), because being an ardent church-goer should have some day done the magic- maybe.
The lessons from my experience are;
• It took a personal encounter for an impact to be made.
**Reach out to your sister, or perhaps, you could have someone else do it, if it is uncomfortable
• My sudden acceptance of the wrongness of my sexuality was weird. It was a miracle. Felt like Apostle Paul’s story.
**You could also just keep praying that your sister encounters God.