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Since Eve was created from Adam's ribs... That technically makes her Adam's side chick.
Dem some finger licking ribs...
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Since Eve was created from Adam's ribs... That technically makes her Adam's side chick.
He didn't want to be alone. Isn't this selfish?
They were already one self, so did he really have a choice?
They were already one.
Adam already was in the same boat with Eve as soon as they became one. When she ate, Adam ate.
Adam died as one.
Love led to sin?
Lillith was his side stronsa.
If Eve died, then Adam would be able to remarry, in this hypothetical scenario where Adam values eternal life over Eve and doesn't sin.
and yeah, love has led to people doing very irrational things, even murder.
Marriage can be much more intimate than friendship, and more about family which would include more people, versus how one-on-one friendship can be very highly about just one other person.Is the church described as a bride because of marriage itself or because God is not on the same level as people and the term friend would be wierd?
Why did Adam need a companion When he was created in God's image and likeness?
God is Father and Son and Holy Spirit . . . not a lone individual Person, but family love; a family of love is one being with more than one person of that love; a human family is human in its being, but more than one individual person.I'm just trying to understand why Adam needed a companion, there's no marriage in heaven and we were made in God's image and likeness, were we created slightly different?
Matthew Henry:
"Eve was not taken out of Adam's head to top him, neither out of his feet to be trampled on by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him.”
Our Father has the Holy Spirit and His own Son Jesus. So, each Person of God has companionship. And none is inferior, but They are family and equal. The positions of rulership and the specializations for loving are different, but They are the same love and character of love with almighty power and creativity.True, but is there any need for this, seeing that God in whose image we are made has no need for a suitable companion or spouse
Adam is not God. He could not be everywhere at the same time. God decided that Adam needed help for the work that he was given. No animal was deemed suitable.
First is the love sharing, not merely things to do. And yes, men can share real love with one another. But a woman is more ready to specialize in having and caring for children. Men are not quite specialized for this.Another man along with Adam would have done much more farm work or don't you think so?
Marriage can be much more intimate than friendship, and more about family which would include more people, versus how one-on-one friendship can be very highly about just one other person.
"if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" Jesus says in Matthew 5:46. So, God wants us to not stop at having some one special friend. Jesus wants us always to be laboring to be truly family with God and our various brothers and sisters in Christ, plus reaching with hope for any enemy to be changed to join us in God our Father's family caring and sharing love.
If anyone wants to get more deep into this > this is in italics > otherwise skip down to what starts in blue below >
"God is love" > in 1 John 4:8&16. And I have learned that love can involve intimacy. Friendship can, of course.
"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him." (1 Corinthians 6:17)
A friend can not be living within you and "one spirit with" you. Of course, also, a spouse can't.
So, the most intimate marriage-and-friendship we can have is with God Himself "one spirit with" each of us in His love. Plus,
"Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us." (Romans 5:5)
So, in Jesus we are so intimate; God is not only loving us from a distance. But by being intimate with God, we are in the best of intimacy to share with one another in marriage and friendship and as brothers and sisters in Christ as His Bride Church. So, "Bride" can feed us about how we are so intimate with Jesus plus with one another > "in one body" Colossians 3:15 does say. Consider how our Father desires to personally rule us in His own peace > in our "hearts" < very intimately indeed, if He does this in the heart of every one of His children; and this makes us also so well-connected and coordinated in companionship with all the rest of the body of Jesus.
So, what does this have to do with what >God is Father and Son and Holy Spirit . . . not a lone individual Person, but family love; a family of love is one being with more than one person of that love; a human family is human in its being, but more than one individual person.
And the names of God's Persons include family names, though "Holy Spirit" is not to my knowledge a family person name But the Holy Spirit takes care of God's children and prepares us the Bride Church for our Groom Jesus > these are family caring and sharing and very intimate activities, I would say.
And, lo and behold, Adam did not continue to be just one person
And, about this, we have what >
Our Father has the Holy Spirit and His own Son Jesus. So, each Person of God has companionship. And none is inferior, but They are family and equal. The positions of rulership and the specializations for loving are different, but They are the same love and character of love with almighty power and creativity.
So, God is family love, and so we see family showing in His creation. So, may be we could say there is not a need, but this shows because of our Creator being the Supreme family caring and sharing love Being.
The love is the same family love, for our Father and Jesus and the Holy Spirit. But positions and functions can be different. So, about functions >
First is the love sharing, not merely things to do. And yes, men can share real love with one another. But a woman is more ready to specialize in having and caring for children. Men are not quite specialized for this.
So, yes Eve was made for companionship, but also specialized for things Adam could not do.
And our Father is specialized for what He does, while Jesus does what He does, and the Holy Spirit is specialized but also a Person of family caring and sharing love.
So, this is how it is, with God Himself. So, if God is the best of all, of family love and ways . . . . . . then I can see that having family ways in His creation is best, too.
Marriage is irrelevant in the next life.One thing about love though, is that love for family, and love for brothers and sisters in Christ, can both be deep and shallow at the same time. You love them in a way where you won't stop loving them because they change, like the bond is permanent and doesn't break, in that way it's deep.
But at the same time, it's shallow because it's a love based on 1 singular fact in each case. A love for your biological family in many cases only exists because you are related to them, in fact many people are very frustrated, annoyed, and angry with their blood relatives, and if they were not blood related, they would not fellowship with each other at all.. and in laws are an even more tenuous love. If whatever covenant that is including them in your family dissolves, divorce, and sometimes even death, they cut off the inlaws asap, because the only thing holding them together was an obligation. In the same way, love that brothers and sisters in Christ have for one another is based on one singular fact: that all involved love the Lord, they may have virtually nothing else in common with each other and be people who would not stand to be around each other if it was not for that obligation to love the brethren in Christ. People always say it's going to be this deep intimate love, but what I see is while its an eternal love that does not break, it endures, because Christ endures, it is also a shallow love. A love that is expressed by side hugs and hand shakes.. gestures that are intentionally designed to LIMIT intimacy, because they don't truly want this person intimate with them and in their personal space, but there is an obligation to love them because they love Jesus and you love Jesus which connects you.
Meanwhile love for friends is both deeper and more shallow than love for family, it's deeper in the sense that you choose to love those friends of your own free will, if someone asks you why you spend time with those friends, it's not like family where people's excuse is "you can't choose who you're related to", you can name reasons why you love being around that person. However it can be shallow in the sense that situations can change, a friendship can go bad, you can move away from that friend and that distance can dissipate that love you had for your friends. You might not even call them for years, even decades, or just lose contact with them entirely.
A spouse, is a relationship that is chosen, so it is deep in that you have reasons you chose them, it is not an obligation to initiate that love with them, but a choice. After marrying them, now there is a union that ideally, lasts until death, and does not break because people change over time, it can be strained, but if the love is properly agape, it does not break. However, it is still, a temporary love.
Both of these loves, are expressed differently, usually more intimately, and more affectionately, because it's not one single thing that obligates you to love that person, but you have a laundry list of things you love about that person, and want to be around them in particular.
Relationship with God is the only love that is deep in both it being chosen freely, not obligated, and everyone has reasons why they love God, without it feeling obligatory like a relative or brother/sister in Christ, and it is also deep in the sense that it is permanent.
I question the idea that love for brothers and sisters in Christ in the resurrection is going to be deeper and more intimate than love between spouses, when the ways we express that love are designed to limit intimacy and that love is based on one singular fact.
Some brothers and sisters in Christ may choose to fellowship with each other based on more than an obligation because both parties love Christ.. but not everyone.
A friend can not be living within you and "one spirit with" you. Of course, also, a spouse can't.
Marriage is irrelevant in the next life.
Christians already have all the spiritual unity they will ever have. That does not change in the next life.I would say the union of the flesh is irrelevant, but spiritual unity (marriage) supreme.
Christians already have all the spiritual unity they will ever have. That does not change in the next life.
I do not think Jesus loved us out of obligation, and Jesus living in us has us loving not merely because of obligation. But do we like everything about each other? No, and rightly so, for a number of things.In the same way, love that brothers and sisters in Christ have for one another is based on one singular fact: that all involved love the Lord, they may have virtually nothing else in common with each other and be people who would not stand to be around each other if it was not for that obligation to love the brethren in Christ.
Yes, there is superficial "agape" love for everyone. But, even so, I need to be practically guided by God so I do not get overly involved and included in too many people's personal lives.A love that is expressed by side hugs and hand shakes.. gestures that are intentionally designed to LIMIT intimacy, because they don't truly want this person intimate with them and in their personal space, but there is an obligation to love them because they love Jesus and you love Jesus which connects you.
"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him." (1 Corinthians 6:17)
A friend can not be living within you and "one spirit with" you. Of course, also, a spouse can't.
I would say God had them connected to each other and He had them in favor of each other, but they were not joined together by being actually inside each other.What do you believe is being said here:
1 Samuel 18:1
"And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul."
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Well, he could have love with someone, by having someone beside his own self. And they could discover how to love, even in spite of how they fell.Why did Adam need a companion
First, Jamdoc, thank you for your explanation. I would say what you say is correct, but God can have us loving better than because of feeling obligation to Jesus.I do not think Jesus loved us out of obligation, and Jesus living in us has us loving not merely because of obligation. But do we like everything about each other? No, and rightly so, for a number of things.
But as we grow in Jesus, we become how Jesus is pleasing to our Father. And this can have us also more and more pleased with one another . . . no matter how else we can be different. So, more and more we both love but also appreciate one another.
But we keep "longsuffering" ready > Ephesians 4:2.
And I myself keep discovering more and more people who are desirable for close sharing, because of how they relate in love the way God's word says, and this feeds me how I need correction and maturing.
But there is a practical element . . . how we do not have time to be involved in every person thing of one another's lives, and Jesus has us reaching out to minister for enemies to become adopted.
So, indeed we need to not merely love out of obligation, but be able to submit to how God has us practically loving our growing number of people who are becoming like Jesus and who therefore can be so desirable to share with. There are seniors in the "faith working through love" (Galatians 5:6) who have become mature and so sweet and kind and beautiful in God's love, so they are more enjoyable even than ones we are married to and in close friendship with, but who are not as mature in Christ like our seniors are. So, God wants us to stay with one another who are less mature and help one another to become more like our senior examples and how God's word says He corrects and matures us to become.
Yes, there is superficial "agape" love for everyone. But, even so, I need to be practically guided by God so I do not get overly involved and included in too many people's personal lives.
I suppose ministers who burn out can be giving in to pressure of what they suppose is obligation, without prayerfully sensing God's guiding about how to invest their time and attention. Meanwhile others can play social favorites, then trick them into feeling obligated to them, so they can use them! So, a truly all-loving person needs to know how to submit to God's guiding according to all He knows and wants.
There are leaders you can never really get to know so you can feed on their example. But look at how Paul and Silvanus and Timothy . . . our examples . . . cared for the Thessalonians >
"just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children." (in 1 Thessalonians 2:7)
"we exhorted, and comforted, and charged every one of you, as a father does his own children." (in 1 Thessalonians 2:11)
This is our example, and this is how our Father's family love grace still has people relating. This love has us glad to love, glad to forgive and desire to do so generously with adoptive affection > the Holy Spirit is "the Spirit of adoption" > in Romans 8:15. God loves a cheerful giver and forgiver, I would say and can experience though I need to get much more real in how God has us loving.
So, thank you for making it so well clear, how we need to not love merely out of grudging obligation. But discover how God is able to have us loving.
and yet I still think it's going to be a love most expressed by sidehugs and handshakes, very limited in its intimacy. I especially say that when there's people like Aussiepete who claim that it's already fulfilled, and that's what I see in church, sidehugs and handshakes, superficial gestures, distancing gestures.
You believe Ephesians 4:13 is already accomplished:
"Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:"
Marriage is irrelevant in the next life.
Well, I think it could be (here and now) if mere fleshly marriage is our primary concern.
Anything carnal that we look at too long becomes irrelevant. This is especially grievious if it is another person, because we have made irrelevant what He saw worth laying down His life for.
So, if we are not looking at others with spiritual eyes first and foremost, we will only end up wasting our talents and time.
*And more importantly, theirs.
I don't even think the physical is totally irrelevant. Jesus was resurrected in flesh, we will have a physical resurrection like His, the new earth will be a physical place, and physical touch can have a lot of meaning to it. It's one thing to send companionship "in spirit" but it is another thing,and I think, a better thing, to be able to physically embrace someone AND be with them in spirit.
Physical without spirit is empty, spirit without physical is distant, it's physical WITH spirit that really expresses love.