How would you know? You have no idea what God has had me forgive. You talk without knowledge.
And that is worse. You can kill people with kindness. There are some things where only a hard truth works. Jesús called the Pharisees hypocrites, white washed walls---not kind. But it was truth. There is a difference between love, and mush. They needed to hear the harsh truth. It was no lack of love on the part of Jesus to call them what they were, it was love, what nowadays is called---tough love. You don't mollycoddle, sometimes you have to speak the harsh truth in order to help.
My parents did no favor to my drug addicted brother---years of buying him clothes that he sold for drugs, paying his rent that he used for drugs, buying him cars that he sold for drugs--they kept him in the gutter. He tried that with me and his 2 other brothers---he thought we were cruel for not giving him money and whatever he wanted. All they did was kill him with love. He died at 50, OD on heroin. While he was attempting to take all their money for himself. There are indications he helped the old man to his death, for the money. He would let him scream in pain---and take the pain meds himself. If they had done as we did, he'd still be here. You get no pat on the back from me. You do not state what your experience is with this. I have first hand experience. I have an abortion at 12, my first rape at 5, 3 more abortions, non of this did I want. I had no choice. Don't tell me that I have no kindness. I had to hold my brothers back from killing their father when they found out. I did not want to loose 3 brothers over him.
You have no insight at all and I still wonder why your interest in this is so high? They need psychiatric help. Not foolish pity.
