Your post was unrelated to marriage:
"Just a practical question.
If you borrow a million dollars and you do not want to pay it back.
If you repent of your past life and become a new person in Jesus, does God want you to forget your past promises and debts or does He want you to live in a different way and care about what is right and wrong? For example to pay your debts even if it means you must live a poor life till your death?"
Both, actually. Being in debt is the same thing today as it was 2,000 years ago: Slavery. You owe some or all of your labor to another person. Nothing in the New Testament automatically releases anyone from slavery in the secular world upon accepting Christ.
So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. -- Matthew 5
To continue in the righteousness given us in salvation by the Lord, our horizontal relationships with other people, including pagans, must be as straight as our vertical relationship with the Lord. The Lord will not accept our offerings to Him given with hands dirtied by our affairs with other people.
How we do that is going to vary. Don't make promises or agreements we don't intend to keep, and keep them if we make them. Attempt honest reconciliation to the greatest extent possible, doing so with a clean heart. Don't try to beat the system, but accept the consequences if necessary. Pray to soften the heart of a froward master (that is, the bank). Pray for legal relief if it's possible.
Of course, this would be much easier if we could all be members of congregations that behaved according to the model we see in Acts and the epistles.
To bring this back to divorce, if a congregation insists that a young mother who has been abandoned by her husband should not remarry, then that congregation should be ready to meet the needs of that young mother, as the 1st century congregations would have done (God is consistent over the centuries in His demand that fatherless children be cared for by His people).
If the congregation lays legalistic burdens on their people and does not lift a finger to help them with those burdens, Christ has already condemned those religious panderers of law.
Jesus replied, "And you experts in the law, woe to you, because you load people down with burdens they can hardly carry, and you yourselves will not lift one finger to help them." -- Luke 11
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