mmksparbud
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\Hi there,
My question is, do all men eventually cheat on their wives? A life time is a very long time and I often wonder if my husband will be able to be faithful to me for our entire marriage. Do all men eventually cheat whether its physically or emotionally? Is it possible for husbands to be fully committed a whole life time?
It's one of my greatest fears and I feel I need a guarantee but I know that's not possible.
Will God ever allow cheating? If I pray for my husband to be faithful for the rest of his life, will God allow that?
Thank you
No. There are those who have medical problems that prevent them from having sex at all, and those who are truly to old and nothing works anymore, and there are those that have no sexual urge at all or very low.
Seriously, though, there are a few men who are like Joseph and will not cheat. They are few. @ of my 3 brothers were like that. The 3rd did cheat once (wife doesn't know), and he had so much guilt, he never did it again. My oldest was always very handsome, women after him from the time he was 12--He married 3 times, never cheated on any if them. Has been married to the 3rd for over 50 years. How do I know? I listen very closely when men get together! The one that cheated doesn't know I know, I was pretending to be asleep when him and his best friend were talking! I was on another line when my oldest brother was yakking to his buddy, who was trying to talk him into going out with him and some chicks---he said no way, I will never cheat on my wife. I also overheard my own husband on the phone with a buddy refusing to join him on his trysts. He told him if you're going to cheat, then don't get married. I was a dialysis tech for 20 years, you're stuck with a patient for 3-4 hours (in the hospitals) and they can do a lot of talking sometimes. Several said they never cheated, a few said once or twice, more of them said several times. But I was actually impressed with the numbers who said they never did, though they did say they were sorely tempted a few times. A nd I don't think they were lying. And now that they were sick and dying, they are so very glad they did not. At least that was one sin they did not have to confess to God about!
I always loved the Paul Newman remark, "I have steak at home, why go out for hamburger?"
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