GirdYourLoins
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- Nov 27, 2016
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Even in the OP I got the impression your focus is not on him and some of the other comments makes me think you might not give him attention and affection but still expect it from him. You said you will say Hi while on the phone to your mom. I read talking to your mom is more important. You say you will not sleep in the same bed and may leave for a while to teach him a lesson. I read your love is conditional and has to be earned. You have a boyfriend on Facebook. I read you have turned to others for emotional connections and not your husband which can only be a very bad thing for your marriage. And if you are turning to others are you even honest withyour husband?
Have you even considered that your husbands behaviour is a reaction to your behavour? Are you an emotional vacuum that just takes and doesnt give? Do you really show him love and affection or just expect him to show it to you?
Having said that, sometimes marriage just doesnt work. It can be that people may just be incompatible. If you really are not able to stay together it is not sin and does not make you an emeny of God to separate. Where sin comes in is if you commit adultery. The way i see it is if you do separate and get with someone else you have committed adultery, so your choice is your husband or no one.
Have you even considered that your husbands behaviour is a reaction to your behavour? Are you an emotional vacuum that just takes and doesnt give? Do you really show him love and affection or just expect him to show it to you?
Having said that, sometimes marriage just doesnt work. It can be that people may just be incompatible. If you really are not able to stay together it is not sin and does not make you an emeny of God to separate. Where sin comes in is if you commit adultery. The way i see it is if you do separate and get with someone else you have committed adultery, so your choice is your husband or no one.
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