- Jun 23, 2020
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Hi all! I'm new to this forum
So basically my dilemma started out when a classmate introduced me to a boy band 5 years ago and I really liked them, but I didn't tell my parents about them for a whole year, just because they had a handful of songs sprinkled throughout their discography containing foul language. Also, the leader of the group is an atheist and he supports sins that God doesn't condone and he even broke the company computer by downloading inappropriate content (lol). In fact I speculate the reason he's opted for atheism could be because he got into inappropriate content when he was only 8 and lied to his mother in order to pursue his passion so he doesn't want to be held accountable to God but I don't know him personally so I may be way off.
Now I just thought I could just enjoy the group performances and steer clear of this guy (knowing my tendencies to become like people I like), but it's kind of difficult as he writes most of the lyrics and has a prominent spokesperson role in the group. It also doesn't help that I'm attracted to intelligence, height, confidence and a deep, raspy voice; all which he conveniently happens to posses.
Even so, I was actually fine a couple of years ago, until a friend of mine pointed out our similarities such as clumsiness and an affinity for languages. Day after day she would incessantly send photos of him to me and now I can positively say that I'm besotted with him. Now, every time I try to write a song or draw a picture or study, my mind drifts to thoughts of him, painting him through rose-colored glasses as a hero, even though in actual fact, he's never directly impacted my life .
Don't get me wrong, he seems like a polite, likable, charming guy and I wish him no harm。 I just want him to get saved desperately and thus pray for him everyday, so I don't want to forget about him entirely, however I do fear my obsession with him is distracting me from God's calling on my life.
Any help appreciated, thanks
So basically my dilemma started out when a classmate introduced me to a boy band 5 years ago and I really liked them, but I didn't tell my parents about them for a whole year, just because they had a handful of songs sprinkled throughout their discography containing foul language. Also, the leader of the group is an atheist and he supports sins that God doesn't condone and he even broke the company computer by downloading inappropriate content (lol). In fact I speculate the reason he's opted for atheism could be because he got into inappropriate content when he was only 8 and lied to his mother in order to pursue his passion so he doesn't want to be held accountable to God but I don't know him personally so I may be way off.
Now I just thought I could just enjoy the group performances and steer clear of this guy (knowing my tendencies to become like people I like), but it's kind of difficult as he writes most of the lyrics and has a prominent spokesperson role in the group. It also doesn't help that I'm attracted to intelligence, height, confidence and a deep, raspy voice; all which he conveniently happens to posses.
Even so, I was actually fine a couple of years ago, until a friend of mine pointed out our similarities such as clumsiness and an affinity for languages. Day after day she would incessantly send photos of him to me and now I can positively say that I'm besotted with him. Now, every time I try to write a song or draw a picture or study, my mind drifts to thoughts of him, painting him through rose-colored glasses as a hero, even though in actual fact, he's never directly impacted my life .
Don't get me wrong, he seems like a polite, likable, charming guy and I wish him no harm。 I just want him to get saved desperately and thus pray for him everyday, so I don't want to forget about him entirely, however I do fear my obsession with him is distracting me from God's calling on my life.
Any help appreciated, thanks