- May 17, 2020
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Wow, not a big deal?? I happen to disagree with that counselor.... I don't see you that way at all. What you experienced was very damaging. Goodness, a father is supposed to love and protect his children, not threaten and inflict pain.
i dont know, my curent therapist takes your view more. he also says it sounded like as a child i maybe fdidnt get enough attention and this created a black hole inside me....so either i push love away (too frightening) or i demand more and more of it... he says he is pretty sure there was some neglect i have forgotten. he did say difuclt ot be sure because i can remebr so littl eof my earlier years (thank God) but he says it seems like there was some attachment disorder there. he says i act out like th eway he has seen children who have been in foster care act..... it scares me...i had two christian parents living together, middle class home, nice school.....yet such a sense of inner deprivation
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