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We don't obey him to prove our love, or earn his love.

The point is, a lot of professing Christians aren't obeying him at all. The way to discern who is a real Christian and who is a fake Christian is to test their response to his teachings. When people argue against his teachings, it is evidence that their motivation for calling themselves Christian is not good.
 
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The point is, a lot of professing Christians aren't obeying him at all. The way to discern who is a real Christian and who is a fake Christian is to test their response to his teachings. When people argue against his teachings, it is evidence that their motivation for calling themselves Christian is not good.

I understand your point. Even with his teachings there is disagreement with true followers of Christ what different teachings mean. This is why Paul tells us that every man has to be persuaded in his own heart. We are, from what we understand in our heart, to obey Jesus, for whatsoever is not faith is sin.
 
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Even with his teachings there is disagreement with true followers of Christ what different teachings mean.

Fair enough. However, my experience has been that most professing Christians don't just have a disagreement as to what his teachings mean, but rather their various interpretations usually end up promoting the opposite of what Jesus taught.

For example, two groups of Christians may have a difference of opinion on who really is "the poor". One group may say the poor most in need are in India, while the other group may believe the most needy are in Africa. One group may say the best way to help is to initiate a food assistance program while the other group may believe the best way is to initiate an education program. Despite these differing interpretations of what it means to help the poor, neither of them is contrary to what Jesus taught.

On the other hand, there are many professing Christians who interpret Jesus' teachings about helping the poor as going to work 40 hours per week to help themselves, and then, on Sunday (or Saturday) giving a small percentage to the church, which is then further subdivided between pay for the church staff, building renovations, and various church functions. By the time the money gets around to helping the poor, it's a very small fraction and even then, whatever is given to the missionaries or functionaries who do actually help the poor, the funds are further subdivided to pay for their various overhead costs.

This is not the way Jesus said to do it, nor the way he and his followers did it in the recorded testimony we have.
 
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I’d like to request that the thread be kept on-topic: specifically, about engagement with people.

Hi DoS. Fair enough. I'm guessing you're referring to the exchange between Alex and me. If you're willing to hear it, I'd like to explain why I think the exchange is on topic.

In your OP you raised the issue of what it means to be luke-warm and how to respond when such a thing happens. You suggested that while it is important to recognize when luke-warmness is happening, that people should try not to be harsh about it. I don't necessarily disagree with this assessment, but if someone is luke-warm (or otherwise behaving in a way contrary to goodness) any attempt to address the issue will almost certainly be seen as harsh. I mean, Peter was only trying to express his strong feelings for Jesus' safety, and yet Jesus rebuked him pretty strongly, to the point that he equated his motivations with Satan's.

Anyway, I suggested the best way to address luke-warmness was a head-on comparison to the teachings of Jesus; that his teachings should be the standard. If a person claims to be Christian, but his behavior is not consistent with what Jesus taught then it makes sense that there is a problem there to be addressed. I think both AlexDTX and I agree on that in principle (and probably you would, too), but then he raised the issue of how one interprets Jesus' teachings and therein lies the crux of lukewarmness. It is practically the essence of luke-warmness that the person interprets Jesus' teachings in such a way which never make any real demands on life or requires any genuine change.

I suggested an example to demonstrate this principle by referring to Jesus' teachings about helping the poor, and how a luke-warm church, while giving lip service to the concept generally behaves in such a way that very little help actually happens. The average church-goer can say, "I help the poor by tithing to my church" but very few of them have any clue as to how their donations are actually used. They believe they're doing what Jesus said without any accountability on their part to confirm it; they've paid someone else to help the poor on their behalf and that's as far as it goes.

So, I'm trying a real-time experiment of the principle you opened with; I'm relating a situation where luke-warmness happens in a way which I think is calm and uses Jesus' teachings as the standard, to see what happens.
 
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Hi DoS. Fair enough. I'm guessing you're referring to the exchange between Alex and me. If you're willing to hear it, I'd like to explain why I think the exchange is on topic.

In your OP you raised the issue of what it means to be luke-warm and how to respond when such a thing happens. You suggested that while it is important to recognize when luke-warmness is happening, that people should try not to be harsh about it. I don't necessarily disagree with this assessment, but if someone is luke-warm (or otherwise behaving in a way contrary to goodness) any attempt to address the issue will almost certainly be seen as harsh. I mean, Peter was only trying to express his strong feelings for Jesus' safety, and yet Jesus rebuked him pretty strongly, to the point that he equated his motivations with Satan's.

Anyway, I suggested the best way to address luke-warmness was a head-on comparison to the teachings of Jesus; that his teachings should be the standard. If a person claims to be Christian, but his behavior is not consistent with what Jesus taught then it makes sense that there is a problem there to be addressed. I think both AlexDTX and I agree on that in principle (and probably you would, too), but then he raised the issue of how one interprets Jesus' teachings and therein lies the crux of lukewarmness. It is practically the essence of luke-warmness that the person interprets Jesus' teachings in such a way which never make any real demands on life or requires any genuine change.

I suggested an example to demonstrate this principle by referring to Jesus' teachings about helping the poor, and how a luke-warm church, while giving lip service to the concept generally behaves in such a way that very little help actually happens. The average church-goer can say, "I help the poor by tithing to my church" but very few of them have any clue as to how their donations are actually used. They believe they're doing what Jesus said without any accountability on their part to confirm it; they've paid someone else to help the poor on their behalf and that's as far as it goes.

So, I'm trying a real-time experiment of the principle you opened with; I'm relating a situation where luke-warmness happens in a way which I think is calm and uses Jesus' teachings as the standard, to see what happens.
Hi, John. I do understand that--thank you for explaining! I was operating under the thought that the discussion of what qualifies lukewarm Christianity is a pretty loaded topic in and of itself and thus best suited to another thread. I've seen LOTS of discussions about that topic, and there are a surprisingly large number of interpretations.

I do like the idea of your experiment, so let's bring it around full-circle! (A quick warning: this is a little long.)

I agree we should use Christ's teachings as the standard for judging others and discerning where people need correction; the difficulty often comes with the interpretation of His teachings. Of course, if we are never challenged by His teaching, that's a definite red flag. But we also have cases where one person may see a problem and others don't, and then it's best to have a discussion about it--see where the other person is coming from.

For the example you gave about giving, I'd be somewhat inclined to agree. Even if someone gives primarily by tithing to a church, they should at least be informed about the church's ministry and programs. They shouldn't give just to give to the church, but because they support the church's mission and believe they're doing good. If possible, giving in other ways (like serving) would also be beneficial. If they are tithing just to tithe, Christ's teachings should challenge them and show them that giving isn't about obligation, but about a spirit of generosity. If we know someone doing that, we should show them what Jesus said about giving and work form there. Maybe talk with them about ways to give more effectively. That sort of thing!

If it helps, I also noticed there was an exchange about fasting earlier in the thread; I think this can be another good example. It's possible to have two different readings about Jesus' teachings about fasting in Matthew:
  1. We should never talk about our own fasting.
  2. We should never talk about our own fasting when it could lead to bragging or boasting.
Both interpretations can be supported by examining Jesus' words and the surrounding context. Based on what I read, you maintain the former to be true. I'm more of the latter interpretation. So the question is: if we were to correct one another, how would we engage in doing so?

Say we were on a different thread discussing this particular topic (I'm not intending to get into a theological debate about this passage, just using it as an example). My point in this thread's OP is that, if you were to correct me, that simply saying "You're wrong and you're a bad Christian" wouldn't be showing grace. Even if the theology was sound, there are better ways to engage. The Sermon on the Mount (where this teaching is found) contained a lot of blunt, harsh truth, but Jesus took care to explain what He was saying. The Sermon is both difficult and gentle. A tricky balance for those of us who aren't Christ, but a great example!

Likewise, it would be improper for me to look at your interpretation of the passage and say, "You're a legalist and a Pharisee!" because that wouldn't be showing you grace, either. Again, even if my theology was sound, simply lobbing a correction at you wouldn't be Christlike. So, yeah, in this situation, even though we may have different interpretations of a passage, we each have the ability to exercise grace and truth in our engagement with one another.

And, in this specific instance, since it's a matter of interpretation of a passage, we should both take the time and care to understand why each of us is saying what the other is saying--how we came to that interpretation, etc., even if we disagree. That's how I'd apply the grace and truth principle to things like theological debates, interpretation of Biblical text, etc.

So, yeah. I hope that makes sense! Not trying to get into a serious theological debate here--just trying to use the examples you've given to apply the principle here on the Forums. :)
 
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My point in this thread's OP is that, if you were to correct me, that simply saying "You're wrong and you're a bad Christian" wouldn't be showing grace.

I agree that comments should not become personal, though it's probably impossible to talk about right and wrong without at least implying that some particular behavior is right or wrong and of course that would necessarily transfer to the people engaging in those behaviors. This is similar to the pharisees recognizing when a parable was about them without Jesus ever mentioning them by name in the parable.

Regarding interpretation, one of the most oft cited gripes of Atheists is that the Bible can be interpreted in any way an individual wants to interpret it (while they themselves often do that very thing); their point is that if this is the case then what good is it for instruction or guidance? They are not wrong in that it can be twisted to mean anything. The Bible was used by pastors to justify slavery. The Old Testament is often cited to justify going to war. David and Solomon are cited to justify accumulating material wealth.

But, the Bible can't really be interpreted in any way and still be consistent with what the text actually says. There really is a point to the teachings of Jesus; the trick is to get the spirit of the teaching. In those examples I just listed, there's a motivation behind each of those skewed interpretations; money, power, etc. There will be a motive behind any interpretation. In the case of the fasting issue, what would be the motive behind not keeping it secret as Jesus instructed? It would be the reward he referenced. He said people who talk about these secret disciplines to others will not get a Heavenly reward because they've already received their reward here on Earth. What is that reward? It's the respectability that comes from other people thinking we're good people. When I talk about the money I gave to a poor man, I do so because I believe the person I'm saying it to will get a positive image of me, that I'm a good person. Sure, we often believe the best about ourselves, that when we make such comments it's not because we're boasting, but Jesus knew better. There is no reason to talk about our personal disciplines other than because we want people to think well of us no matter how much we believe we only have the best intentions. His solution was to simply make a rule across the board; don't do it, because if you do, then you've just lost your eternal reward.

It's not just a rule; it's a principle which will lead to greater personal integrity. When someone argues that they should be allowed to talk about their own personal fasting, what I hear is a person struggling with insecurity; that they need to tell others about their goodness; that they want their reward now, from anyone willing to listen.

I realize that may sound harsh, but it's what Jesus said and what if he really did mean it? What if, every time you well-intentionally mention one of these secret disciplines that you personally have done, that you really are losing any eternal reward for doing so?
 
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I agree that comments should not become personal, though it's probably impossible to talk about right and wrong without at least implying that some particular behavior is right or wrong and of course that would necessarily transfer to the people engaging in those behaviors. This is similar to the pharisees recognizing when a parable was about them without Jesus ever mentioning them by name in the parable.

Regarding interpretation, one of the most oft cited gripes of Atheists is that the Bible can be interpreted in any way an individual wants to interpret it (while they themselves often do that very thing); their point is that if this is the case then what good is it for instruction or guidance? They are not wrong in that it can be twisted to mean anything. The Bible was used by pastors to justify slavery. The Old Testament is often cited to justify going to war. David and Solomon are cited to justify accumulating material wealth.

But, the Bible can't really be interpreted in any way and still be consistent with what the text actually says. There really is a point to the teachings of Jesus; the trick is to get the spirit of the teaching. In those examples I just listed, there's a motivation behind each of those skewed interpretations; money, power, etc. There will be a motive behind any interpretation. In the case of the fasting issue, what would be the motive behind not keeping it secret as Jesus instructed? It would be the reward he referenced. He said people who talk about these secret disciplines to others will not get a Heavenly reward because they've already received their reward here on Earth. What is that reward? It's the respectability that comes from other people thinking we're good people. When I talk about the money I gave to a poor man, I do so because I believe the person I'm saying it to will get a positive image of me, that I'm a good person. Sure, we often believe the best about ourselves, that when we make such comments it's not because we're boasting, but Jesus knew better. There is no reason to talk about our personal disciplines other than because we want people to think well of us no matter how much we believe we only have the best intentions. His solution was to simply make a rule across the board; don't do it, because if you do, then you've just lost your eternal reward.

It's not just a rule; it's a principle which will lead to greater personal integrity. When someone argues that they should be allowed to talk about their own personal fasting, what I hear is a person struggling with insecurity; that they need to tell others about their goodness; that they want their reward now, from anyone willing to listen.

I realize that may sound harsh, but it's what Jesus said and what if he really did mean it? What if, every time you well-intentionally mention one of these secret disciplines that you personally have done, that you really are losing any eternal reward for doing so?
I do understand that. I agree with the fact that there is always a right and a wrong. It’s easy to twist Scripture, and we need to be very careful. You do need to check for textual consistency when engaging in Biblical interpretation. Still, even in doing so, disagreements happen, and there are right and wrong ways to handle them.

I am not going to respond to the theology discussed here because that was not the intention of this thread or my reply: I was simply using it as an example. I am not saying that you are incorrect in the way you were discussing these theological ideas or responding to them (in fact, I truly respect the way you actually explain your point and don’t just leave it at “don’t do this” or “do that”). I just don’t want to completely derail the thread from the intended topic. Hope that makes sense.
 
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Fair enough. However, my experience has been that most professing Christians don't just have a disagreement as to what his teachings mean, but rather their various interpretations usually end up promoting the opposite of what Jesus taught.

For example, two groups of Christians may have a difference of opinion on who really is "the poor". One group may say the poor most in need are in India, while the other group may believe the most needy are in Africa. One group may say the best way to help is to initiate a food assistance program while the other group may believe the best way is to initiate an education program. Despite these differing interpretations of what it means to help the poor, neither of them is contrary to what Jesus taught.

On the other hand, there are many professing Christians who interpret Jesus' teachings about helping the poor as going to work 40 hours per week to help themselves, and then, on Sunday (or Saturday) giving a small percentage to the church, which is then further subdivided between pay for the church staff, building renovations, and various church functions. By the time the money gets around to helping the poor, it's a very small fraction and even then, whatever is given to the missionaries or functionaries who do actually help the poor, the funds are further subdivided to pay for their various overhead costs.

This is not the way Jesus said to do it, nor the way he and his followers did it in the recorded testimony we have.
Jesus said we will know them by their fruits. His context was wolves in sheep's clothing, but it goes the other way, too. So, I agree with you to an extent.

However there are many people who call themselves Christians, but have never had the new birth and are trying to earn their salvation. The witness of the Holy Spirit is a more sure way to know who walks with Christ and who does not. Consider what John says,

1Jn 2:18 Little children, it is the last time: and as ye have heard that antichrist shall come, even now are there many antichrists; whereby we know that it is the last time.
1Jn 2:19 They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.
1Jn 2:20 But ye have an unction from the Holy One, and ye know all things.​

The unction from the Holy One, in verse 20 that enables us to know all things, in context means discerning who is a Christian and who is anti-christ, since those anti-christs called themselves Christians (v19 they went out from us).
 
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I just don’t want to completely derail the thread from the intended topic. Hope that makes sense.

Hey DoS. Yes, I take your meaning and I appreciate you hearing me out. I had a look at the links you pasted in the OP. In the first one entitled, "Yelling “Lukewarm” Doesn’t Help Anyone — Especially The Lukewarm" I noticed that he tends to consistently describe the issue of being luke-warm in terms of yelling at people, which kinda gives the impression that he equates the two, meaning that even if you accuse someone of being luke warm without yelling, the accusation itself still amounts to yelling.

Certainly people do tend to use Jesus' teachings in an angry way. I had a friend tell me once that, when arguing with Atheists or other Christians who resisted the teachings of Jesus, she'd end the argument by reciting Jesus' command not to cast her pearls before swine. However, she later realized that she was only doing that because she was angry, that the teaching not to cast pearls before swine is in itself a pearl, and that if she believed an argument should end, she should just end it without any parting shots. I hadn't thought of this teaching about pearls in that way (i.e. that it also is a pearl, which means casting it at those we're angry with defeats the purpose of the teaching) but it made sense to me.

The caption under the title of his blog reads, "A Blog For Busted-Up, Beat-Down People (Like Me)." I wonder if maybe he's going too far in the opposite direction because of his bad interactions with others; that views a hard line as a beat-down even if though the hardness may be necessary.

It kinda feels like he's preaching a message of settling for mediocrity for the sake of sparing feelings. I mean, he even says, "The goal of our faith-journey is NOT to avoid being lukewarm. That’s just standing on anti-ground." and that Jesus only mentioned luke-warmness once to a particularly wealthy church, as though luke-warmness is a rather minor issue afflicting the wealthy.

Maybe I'm missing his point. I agree that we should not (under normal circumstances) be yelling at one another and that we should not encourage one another to condemnation. But then again, Jesus was pretty clear about the consequences of taking him lightly. He compared those of his followers who don't obey him to a dead wood tree that would be cut down and tossed into fire. I can imagine this pastor you linked to, in Jesus' day, folding his arms and arguing that he's already been beat down enough in his life and doesn't need any more of this cut-down-tree-into-the-fire stuff.

Maybe the opposite is true; maybe we need more people who can look at their flabby bits and recognize that they need to do something about it without breaking down in tears.
 
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The witness of the Holy Spirit is a more sure way to know who walks with Christ and who does not.

Hi AlexDTX. DoS has already said that she's wary of this thread being derailed so I'd like to respect her concern. I only want to note one teeny, tiny caveat here; the purpose of the Holy Spirit is to remind us of Jesus' teachings (John 14:26). Jesus said that his teachings are the Holy Spirit (John 6:63). It is not a competition between the teachings of Jesus and the Holy Spirit; they work together in unity.
 
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Hey DoS. Yes, I take your meaning and I appreciate you hearing me out. I had a look at the links you pasted in the OP. In the first one entitled, "Yelling “Lukewarm” Doesn’t Help Anyone — Especially The Lukewarm" I noticed that he tends to consistently describe the issue of being luke-warm in terms of yelling at people, which kinda gives the impression that he equates the two, meaning that even if you accuse someone of being luke warm without yelling, the accusation itself still amounts to yelling.

Certainly people do tend to use Jesus' teachings in an angry way. I had a friend tell me once that, when arguing with Atheists or other Christians who resisted the teachings of Jesus, she'd end the argument by reciting Jesus' command not to cast her pearls before swine. However, she later realized that she was only doing that because she was angry, that the teaching not to cast pearls before swine is in itself a pearl, and that if she believed an argument should end, she should just end it without any parting shots. I hadn't thought of this teaching about pearls in that way (i.e. that it also is a pearl, which means casting it at those we're angry with defeats the purpose of the teaching) but it made sense to me.

The caption under the title of his blog reads, "A Blog For Busted-Up, Beat-Down People (Like Me)." I wonder if maybe he's going too far in the opposite direction because of his bad interactions with others; that views a hard line as a beat-down even if though the hardness may be necessary.

It kinda feels like he's preaching a message of settling for mediocrity for the sake of sparing feelings. I mean, he even says, "The goal of our faith-journey is NOT to avoid being lukewarm. That’s just standing on anti-ground." and that Jesus only mentioned luke-warmness once to a particularly wealthy church, as though luke-warmness is a rather minor issue afflicting the wealthy.

Maybe I'm missing his point. I agree that we should not (under normal circumstances) be yelling at one another and that we should not encourage one another to condemnation. But then again, Jesus was pretty clear about the consequences of taking him lightly. He compared those of his followers who don't obey him to a dead wood tree that would be cut down and tossed into fire. I can imagine this pastor you linked to, in Jesus' day, folding his arms and arguing that he's already been beat down enough in his life and doesn't need any more of this cut-down-tree-into-the-fire stuff.

Maybe the opposite is true; maybe we need more people who can look at their flabby bits and recognize that they need to do something about it without breaking down in tears.
That “pearls before swine” story is a really good one—a very important message I do believe we should all consider. Thank you for sharing it!

I can see how you’d get that from those two articles. I’ve read a lot more from this pastor, so I know that that’s not really what he means; he has other posts that are all about how struggles aren’t excuses to stop trying, how effort isn’t the same thing as legalism, etc. Those two posts are simply addressing the specific issue of a lack of grace, even when pushing for the truth. It’s a context thing for sure.

I think “The goal of our faith-journey is NOT to avoid being lukewarm. That’s just standing on anti-ground“ means that our drive shouldn’t be “I don’t want to be lukewarm” because it should be “I want to love God and love other people.” Not being lukewarm is part of that, but it isn’t the main point. I believe it means that instead of avoiding something bad (though avoiding sin is important), faith is more about striving toward the goal of Christlike love and righteousness. For people like me, who tend to feel VERY guilty and anxious about things, that’s an important message to keep in mind because we will get legalistic with ourselves.
 
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There's this interesting dichotomy about the state of the church today. A lot of us are (rightly) concerned about the "fake Christians," the lukewarm, the "easy-believeism" folks. And it's a good thing; we need to teach truth alongside grace. That can be a really hard balance. There are movements going on that are seeking to combat the idea of complacency and prosperity gospel that are going on today, and it's a good thing that they exist.

But I think there's a problem there, too.

These responsive movements can be a little harsh. I understand the thought process: if people are being complacent and abusing grace and settling for a feel-good faith with no sense of discipline, then discipline is what they need. Discipline, rebuke, reality, tough love, red pill. But that often turns to dismissal, nastiness, and a sense of superiority masked as humility. It's very easy, in our correction of people, to view them as the enemy instead of our brothers and sisters. We end up being judgmental in a non-constructive way. "Are you one of those fake Christians?" And we guilt-trip people and make them feel bad instead of winning them back with love. Sometimes, in our efforts to balance truth and grace, we go too far and stop showing grace.

I've seen this bleed into how we deal with people who are struggling and doubting. We too easily can end up like Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar: accusing our brothers and sisters, urging them to seek correction instead of giving them a hand when they need it. Sometimes we do need to repent of sin when we're struggling. We often do. But we also need to let people know that it's okay to be honest about their feelings and struggles because God shows us time and time again that He has grace for those seasons.

All of this is meant well. And, again, I in no way mean to imply we shouldn't exercise rebuke or hard truth when it's needed. But I think we need to figure out how to engage with people and figure out what that specific person needs to hear. That's what Jesus did; there were times when He rebuked and times that He healed. What helps you grow in Christ may not be what your brother needs.

One of my favorite pastors puts it very well here and here.

Grace and truth means truth and grace. It's a tricky balance, and I don't expect people to do it perfectly because we're all learning and growing in Christ. But we should do the best we can to help our brothers and sisters. People are all projects, works in progress, but they're also people.
The moral high ground is a hard place to be, but once we discard the pride we're hiding from ourselves - we become better servants of God.

I agree, we're all a work in progress.

Remembering that and letting God do His job in others is part of ours - As Jesus said, your only job is to believe in him.
 
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Hi AlexDTX. DoS has already said that she's wary of this thread being derailed so I'd like to respect her concern. I only want to note one teeny, tiny caveat here; the purpose of the Holy Spirit is to remind us of Jesus' teachings (John 14:26). Jesus said that his teachings are the Holy Spirit (John 6:63). It is not a competition between the teachings of Jesus and the Holy Spirit; they work together in unity.
I have no problem with ending this conversation. However, your caveat is no contradiction. I put the teaching of the HS in context of what the apostle John had to say about recognizing anti-christ in people once claiming to be Christians. This is the same thing as saying the HS lets us see Jesus in people. Nor is this off topic since the topic is knowing who are fake Christians. The rest of the topic is speaking to them in kindness and love, of course. But good day.
 
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However, your caveat is no contradiction.

You said, "The witness of the Holy Spirit is a more sure way to know who walks with Christ..."

A more sure way than what? I was suggesting the teachings of Jesus are the best way to discern lukewarmness. Your reply is that the witness of the Holy Spirit is a more sure way. This pits the teachings of Jesus against the Holy Spirit, as though one is more reliable than the other.

I'm saying, apart from your comment essentially equating to arguing against the teachings of Jesus as the standard by which we measure, the job of the Holy Spirit is to point us back to the teachings of Jesus.

I dare say, when someone argues there is a "more sure way" than the teachings of Jesus, that person is probably struggling with luke-warmess.
 
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I think “The goal of our faith-journey is NOT to avoid being lukewarm. That’s just standing on anti-ground“ means that our drive shouldn’t be “I don’t want to be lukewarm” because it should be “I want to love God and love other people.”

But they are the same. I don't want to be luke-warm about what? The teachings of Jesus. The teachings of Jesus show us how to love God and our neighbor. If we're luke-warm about the teachings of Jesus, then we will necessarily be luke-warm about loving God and our neighbor.

That he's making this distinction, where there really should be none, sounds strange. I mean, I'm not just trying to pick holes here but rather to seriously consider, "from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks". Why is he arguing that people shouldn't seriously consider whether they are luke-warm? Okay, he says this other stuff about how effort isn't legalism, but still, he's encouraging people not to ask themselves if they are luke-warm. One doesn't cancel out the other.
 
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But they are the same. I don't want to be luke-warm about what? The teachings of Jesus. The teachings of Jesus show us how to love God and our neighbor. If we're luke-warm about the teachings of Jesus, then we will necessarily be luke-warm about loving God and our neighbor.

That he's making this distinction, where there really should be none, sounds strange. I mean, I'm not just trying to pick holes here but rather to seriously consider, "from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks". Why is he arguing that people shouldn't seriously consider whether they are luke-warm? Okay, he says this other stuff about how effort isn't legalism, but still, he's encouraging people not to ask themselves if they are luke-warm. One doesn't cancel out the other.
I don’t believe that’s what he’s saying at all. We absolutely should not be lukewarm about Jesus teachings, and that is what the blog post is saying. The point of that post is that we shouldn’t judge ourselves on trying to reach an impossible standard of performance, measuring by what we’re doing instead of turning to Jesus. Jesus is the solution, and the blog post emphasizes that. It’s not about avoiding self-examination, but rather about the lens through which we examine ourselves. The post is a response to the culture that says The post is a response to the culture that says, “You’re lukewarm, so do more things so you can claw your way out of lukewarmness.” Yes, we strive to obey Christ’s teachings and keep out of lukewarmness, but we don’t help other people do that by yelling at them and putting more standards upon them and they could be struggling. That’s what the article is trying to say.

To summarize, the post isn’t about being OK with being lukewarm. It’s a response to the sort of church culture that tends to react to legitimate spiritual concerns with legalism, which will only create more problems.
 
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Hi DoS. My reply may get a little wordy, and some of my comments may be a little crunchy so hang in there. :) I'll be quoting fairly extensively from J.S. Park's article (the one you posted a link to in your OP) but first, a bit of preamble...

What's most important when interpreting what someone says (or what they've written) is the spirit behind their words. Another way of saying this is to discern the motivation. Why are they saying what they say? When I read posts here (or when I read anything) that's what I'm trying to discern. This can be tricky because people often use words which convey subtle meaning beyond the actual words themselves. For example, woman A says to woman B, "My, you're looking, ummm, very healthy". Woman B knows that she's put on a few pounds and recognizes that woman A is hiding a subtle dig behind the fairly benign use of healthy. In other words, she's using healthy as a euphemism for fat.

Jesus also commented on this kind of subtle speech when he quoted Isiah saying, "This people draw near to me with their lips, but their heart is far from me". He recognized that people know how to say the right things, but their motivation, deep down inside their heart, did not match their words. He repeated this concept another way when he asked some would-be followers, "Why do you call me Lord, but do not obey me"? He referred to this concept again when he told the people, "Your religious leaders have authority over you, so do what they tell you to do, but don't imitate their works". The religious leaders were saying the right things, but their motivation, the practical output of their heart was wrong.

In all these examples Jesus was looking beyond the surface words and examining the spirit, or motivation, behind why these people spoke and behaved the way they did. The spirit behind these rebukes is the same as his comment in the Revelation when he rebuked a church for being luke-warm, even though, in these examples, he did not use those exact words. Why do you call me Lord, but do not obey me? The unspoken answer is that they were luke-warm. They made a show, a pretense of being his follower, but they did not obey him. Clearly, this was an issue that was intensely important to Jesus; he covered this over and over and over again. In Matthew 7, when finished the sermon on the mount, he used a parable about a wise man and a foolish man. Both heard his teachings, but only the wise man obeyed. His obedience is what made him wise. The foolish man did not obey and as a result he was destroyed. Yes, this issue of luke-warmness was very much on Jesus' mind.

This is important because J.S. Park makes it sound like luke-warmness was a relatively minor part of Jesus' teachings, something mentioned only once, to one specific church, for one specific reason (i.e. their wealth). Here's what he said:

Jesus told the Laodiceans that they were lukewarm (a word only used once here in the Bible) — but he’s actually rebuking these rich, complacent, luxury-dependent elitists who were doing things routine, checking off a list, maintaining a dead religion, which is exactly what will happen to people if you yell at them.

He's making a strong case for the luke-warm concept just being a technicality. He's downplaying the significance of the concept itself. Jesus talked about people being destroyed by a mighty storm, and J.S. Park is concerned about being yelled at for what really is a legitimate problem.

It's easy to say that luke-warmness is a real problem. We know that's the right thing to say. But in practice J.S. Park makes it sound like, even if the person is being luke-warm, it's still wrong to tell them so because it might hurt their feelings. Yes, he presents it as "yelling" but the spirit behind this emphasis is that any reference to a person actually being luke-warm equates to yelling at them, even if you say it in a calm, yet firm, manner.

I went through the article and counted; he refers to yelling 5 times (including the title of the article), but nowhere does he suggest that people should be told they are luke-warm if it is true that they really are. Instead, he suggests that people who are luke-warm don't need to be told because they struggle with the burden of already knowing it.

I already know what’s wrong with my gym-life and my emotional-life and my spiritual-life, and knowing this doesn’t really motivate me. Does it work for you?

I mean, there could be some truth to refraining from beating a dead horse, on in this case dead wood. If a professing Christians has already decided that he's a fatty and sees this truth as no reason to change, but rather is complacent with his fattiness, then perhaps it is true that convincing him otherwise would be useless.

But this is certainly not a message consistent with Jesus' teachings. He warned people over and over again not to become complacent with their sins. That's what the parable of the talent was all about; the last servant hid his talent because he was afraid of failure. He even elaborates that he believed the master might yell at him, so instead of getting busy with the job he decided to do nothing.

Big, bad master doesn't apologize for being austere. He doesn't pat the servant on the back and coddle him with whispers about how it's okay that the servant allowed his fear of failure prevent him from any kind of success at all. No, the master yells at him. He even calls him a wicked servant.

This idea that what God is most concerned about is that people's feelings won't be hurt when they're flaws are pointed out to them just is not consistent with what Jesus taught.

We absolutely should not be lukewarm about Jesus teachings, and that is what the blog post is saying.

Nope. I went through the article. Nowhere does J.S. Park mentioned anything about a need to obey Jesus, or his teachings, or anything about consequences for not changing. He does mention obedience, but it's to put down those who obey by comparison to those who are tired of getting their feelings hurt by comparison. He says...

I understand the desire to be totally passionate about God. We look at other Super-Christians who highlight their Bibles and go to Guatemala and think they get it, and we feel like we’re wasting away as second-class citizens who haven’t yet been inflamed with the Gospel.

This is probably the most disgusting part of the whole article, because Jesus really did say go into all the world preaching the gospel. But, J.S. Park makes it sound like these people are just self-righteous "super-Christians" whose only goal is to make him feel bad about his lack of willingness to obey Jesus. "How dare these obedient Christians who study their bibles and practice the great commission show up our unwillingness to obey Jesus! Their testimony amounts to yelling at me that I am indeed lazy and fearful and I do not like it!"

No, obedience to Jesus does not make anyone super. It just makes them faithful. Luke-warm people who hide in the shadows of a pretense at faith, will understandably gnash their teeth at those who shine genuine light.

He goes on to further belittle obedience by suggesting that any attempt to obey Jesus is little more than a "boldness contest" and that instead of trying harder for Jesus, we should "simply know Jesus for who he is" as though "who Jesus is" is quite separate from obedience to his teachings.

He hammers this point even further by suggesting calls to stop being luke-wark and to obey Jesus equates to "coercion of guilt".

The more I read of this article the more certain I am that this person is pushing a convenient doctrine to pacify the already luke-warm. No, you don't need to obey Jesus, because obedience it a competitive, coercive, guilt-tripping exercise in people yelling at and accusing one another.

Remember what I said about getting the spirit of what a person says, which means going deeper than just the surface words they use? This person is making a case against obedience to Jesus. Yes, he makes some good points about the need to be patient and not to yell at people, but he could have made that point in one or two sentences. Instead, nearly the whole article is framed in the context that any attempt to identify luke-warmness or promote obedience equates to angry yelling. In that sense, the spirit behind his references to yelling, the meaning deeper than just the words themselves, is a shield against obedience. He's not really concerned about bad attitudes; he's simply using the convenience of bad attitudes as an argument against obedience.

My goodness, Dos, but you've been taken in by a con-artist.
 
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Hi DoS. My reply may get a little wordy, and some of my comments may be a little crunchy so hang in there. :) I'll be quoting fairly extensively from J.S. Park's article (the one you posted a link to in your OP) but first, a bit of preamble...

What's most important when interpreting what someone says (or what they've written) is the spirit behind their words. Another way of saying this is to discern the motivation. Why are they saying what they say? When I read posts here (or when I read anything) that's what I'm trying to discern. This can be tricky because people often use words which convey subtle meaning beyond the actual words themselves. For example, woman A says to woman B, "My, you're looking, ummm, very healthy". Woman B knows that she's put on a few pounds and recognizes that woman A is hiding a subtle dig behind the fairly benign use of healthy. In other words, she's using healthy as a euphemism for fat.

Jesus also commented on this kind of subtle speech when he quoted Isiah saying, "This people draw near to me with their lips, but their heart is far from me". He recognized that people know how to say the right things, but their motivation, deep down inside their heart, did not match their words. He repeated this concept another way when he asked some would-be followers, "Why do you call me Lord, but do not obey me"? He referred to this concept again when he told the people, "Your religious leaders have authority over you, so do what they tell you to do, but don't imitate their works". The religious leaders were saying the right things, but their motivation, the practical output of their heart was wrong.

In all these examples Jesus was looking beyond the surface words and examining the spirit, or motivation, behind why these people spoke and behaved the way they did. The spirit behind these rebukes is the same as his comment in the Revelation when he rebuked a church for being luke-warm, even though, in these examples, he did not use those exact words. Why do you call me Lord, but do not obey me? The unspoken answer is that they were luke-warm. They made a show, a pretense of being his follower, but they did not obey him. Clearly, this was an issue that was intensely important to Jesus; he covered this over and over and over again. In Matthew 7, when finished the sermon on the mount, he used a parable about a wise man and a foolish man. Both heard his teachings, but only the wise man obeyed. His obedience is what made him wise. The foolish man did not obey and as a result he was destroyed. Yes, this issue of luke-warmness was very much on Jesus' mind.

This is important because J.S. Park makes it sound like luke-warmness was a relatively minor part of Jesus' teachings, something mentioned only once, to one specific church, for one specific reason (i.e. their wealth). Here's what he said:



He's making a strong case for the luke-warm concept just being a technicality. He's downplaying the significance of the concept itself. Jesus talked about people being destroyed by a mighty storm, and J.S. Park is concerned about being yelled at for what really is a legitimate problem.

It's easy to say that luke-warmness is a real problem. We know that's the right thing to say. But in practice J.S. Park makes it sound like, even if the person is being luke-warm, it's still wrong to tell them so because it might hurt their feelings. Yes, he presents it as "yelling" but the spirit behind this emphasis is that any reference to a person actually being luke-warm equates to yelling at them, even if you say it in a calm, yet firm, manner.

I went through the article and counted; he refers to yelling 5 times (including the title of the article), but nowhere does he suggest that people should be told they are luke-warm if it is true that they really are. Instead, he suggests that people who are luke-warm don't need to be told because they struggle with the burden of already knowing it.



I mean, there could be some truth to refraining from beating a dead horse, on in this case dead wood. If a professing Christians has already decided that he's a fatty and sees this truth as no reason to change, but rather is complacent with his fattiness, then perhaps it is true that convincing him otherwise would be useless.

But this is certainly not a message consistent with Jesus' teachings. He warned people over and over again not to become complacent with their sins. That's what the parable of the talent was all about; the last servant hid his talent because he was afraid of failure. He even elaborates that he believed the master might yell at him, so instead of getting busy with the job he decided to do nothing.

Big, bad master doesn't apologize for being austere. He doesn't pat the servant on the back and coddle him with whispers about how it's okay that the servant allowed his fear of failure prevent him from any kind of success at all. No, the master yells at him. He even calls him a wicked servant.

This idea that what God is most concerned about is that people's feelings won't be hurt when they're flaws are pointed out to them just is not consistent with what Jesus taught.



Nope. I went through the article. Nowhere does J.S. Park mentioned anything about a need to obey Jesus, or his teachings, or anything about consequences for not changing. He does mention obedience, but it's to put down those who obey by comparison to those who are tired of getting their feelings hurt by comparison. He says...



This is probably the most disgusting part of the whole article, because Jesus really did say go into all the world preaching the gospel. But, J.S. Park makes it sound like these people are just self-righteous "super-Christians" whose only goal is to make him feel bad about his lack of willingness to obey Jesus. "How dare these obedient Christians who study their bibles and practice the great commission show up our unwillingness to obey Jesus! Their testimony amounts to yelling at me that I am indeed lazy and fearful and I do not like it!"

No, obedience to Jesus does not make anyone super. It just makes them faithful. Luke-warm people who hide in the shadows of a pretense at faith, will understandably gnash their teeth at those who shine genuine light.

He goes on to further belittle obedience by suggesting that any attempt to obey Jesus is little more than a "boldness contest" and that instead of trying harder for Jesus, we should "simply know Jesus for who he is" as though "who Jesus is" is quite separate from obedience to his teachings.

He hammers this point even further by suggesting calls to stop being luke-wark and to obey Jesus equates to "coercion of guilt".

The more I read of this article the more certain I am that this person is pushing a convenient doctrine to pacify the already luke-warm. No, you don't need to obey Jesus, because obedience it a competitive, coercive, guilt-tripping exercise in people yelling at and accusing one another.

Remember what I said about getting the spirit of what a person says, which means going deeper than just the surface words they use? This person is making a case against obedience to Jesus. Yes, he makes some good points about the need to be patient and not to yell at people, but he could have made that point in one or two sentences. Instead, nearly the whole article is framed in the context that any attempt to identify luke-warmness or promote obedience equates to angry yelling. In that sense, the spirit behind his references to yelling, the meaning deeper than just the words themselves, is a shield against obedience. He's not really concerned about bad attitudes; he's simply using the convenience of bad attitudes as an argument against obedience.

My goodness, Dos, but you've been taken in by a con-artist.

I do agree Jesus said go into all the world and preach the Gospel. but whether we it in Guatamala or our own city the end result is the same. as long as we are sharing the gospel with others, that is the main thing. we can all evangelise somehow. like helping the poor, evangelism i s a global issue. poverty is everywhere, a need for salvation is everywhere
 
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Hi DoS. My reply may get a little wordy, and some of my comments may be a little crunchy so hang in there. :) I'll be quoting fairly extensively from J.S. Park's article (the one you posted a link to in your OP) but first, a bit of preamble...

What's most important when interpreting what someone says (or what they've written) is the spirit behind their words. Another way of saying this is to discern the motivation. Why are they saying what they say? When I read posts here (or when I read anything) that's what I'm trying to discern. This can be tricky because people often use words which convey subtle meaning beyond the actual words themselves. For example, woman A says to woman B, "My, you're looking, ummm, very healthy". Woman B knows that she's put on a few pounds and recognizes that woman A is hiding a subtle dig behind the fairly benign use of healthy. In other words, she's using healthy as a euphemism for fat.

Jesus also commented on this kind of subtle speech when he quoted Isiah saying, "This people draw near to me with their lips, but their heart is far from me". He recognized that people know how to say the right things, but their motivation, deep down inside their heart, did not match their words. He repeated this concept another way when he asked some would-be followers, "Why do you call me Lord, but do not obey me"? He referred to this concept again when he told the people, "Your religious leaders have authority over you, so do what they tell you to do, but don't imitate their works". The religious leaders were saying the right things, but their motivation, the practical output of their heart was wrong.

In all these examples Jesus was looking beyond the surface words and examining the spirit, or motivation, behind why these people spoke and behaved the way they did. The spirit behind these rebukes is the same as his comment in the Revelation when he rebuked a church for being luke-warm, even though, in these examples, he did not use those exact words. Why do you call me Lord, but do not obey me? The unspoken answer is that they were luke-warm. They made a show, a pretense of being his follower, but they did not obey him. Clearly, this was an issue that was intensely important to Jesus; he covered this over and over and over again. In Matthew 7, when finished the sermon on the mount, he used a parable about a wise man and a foolish man. Both heard his teachings, but only the wise man obeyed. His obedience is what made him wise. The foolish man did not obey and as a result he was destroyed. Yes, this issue of luke-warmness was very much on Jesus' mind.

This is important because J.S. Park makes it sound like luke-warmness was a relatively minor part of Jesus' teachings, something mentioned only once, to one specific church, for one specific reason (i.e. their wealth). Here's what he said:



He's making a strong case for the luke-warm concept just being a technicality. He's downplaying the significance of the concept itself. Jesus talked about people being destroyed by a mighty storm, and J.S. Park is concerned about being yelled at for what really is a legitimate problem.

It's easy to say that luke-warmness is a real problem. We know that's the right thing to say. But in practice J.S. Park makes it sound like, even if the person is being luke-warm, it's still wrong to tell them so because it might hurt their feelings. Yes, he presents it as "yelling" but the spirit behind this emphasis is that any reference to a person actually being luke-warm equates to yelling at them, even if you say it in a calm, yet firm, manner.

I went through the article and counted; he refers to yelling 5 times (including the title of the article), but nowhere does he suggest that people should be told they are luke-warm if it is true that they really are. Instead, he suggests that people who are luke-warm don't need to be told because they struggle with the burden of already knowing it.



I mean, there could be some truth to refraining from beating a dead horse, on in this case dead wood. If a professing Christians has already decided that he's a fatty and sees this truth as no reason to change, but rather is complacent with his fattiness, then perhaps it is true that convincing him otherwise would be useless.

But this is certainly not a message consistent with Jesus' teachings. He warned people over and over again not to become complacent with their sins. That's what the parable of the talent was all about; the last servant hid his talent because he was afraid of failure. He even elaborates that he believed the master might yell at him, so instead of getting busy with the job he decided to do nothing.

Big, bad master doesn't apologize for being austere. He doesn't pat the servant on the back and coddle him with whispers about how it's okay that the servant allowed his fear of failure prevent him from any kind of success at all. No, the master yells at him. He even calls him a wicked servant.

This idea that what God is most concerned about is that people's feelings won't be hurt when they're flaws are pointed out to them just is not consistent with what Jesus taught.



Nope. I went through the article. Nowhere does J.S. Park mentioned anything about a need to obey Jesus, or his teachings, or anything about consequences for not changing. He does mention obedience, but it's to put down those who obey by comparison to those who are tired of getting their feelings hurt by comparison. He says...



This is probably the most disgusting part of the whole article, because Jesus really did say go into all the world preaching the gospel. But, J.S. Park makes it sound like these people are just self-righteous "super-Christians" whose only goal is to make him feel bad about his lack of willingness to obey Jesus. "How dare these obedient Christians who study their bibles and practice the great commission show up our unwillingness to obey Jesus! Their testimony amounts to yelling at me that I am indeed lazy and fearful and I do not like it!"

No, obedience to Jesus does not make anyone super. It just makes them faithful. Luke-warm people who hide in the shadows of a pretense at faith, will understandably gnash their teeth at those who shine genuine light.

He goes on to further belittle obedience by suggesting that any attempt to obey Jesus is little more than a "boldness contest" and that instead of trying harder for Jesus, we should "simply know Jesus for who he is" as though "who Jesus is" is quite separate from obedience to his teachings.

He hammers this point even further by suggesting calls to stop being luke-wark and to obey Jesus equates to "coercion of guilt".

The more I read of this article the more certain I am that this person is pushing a convenient doctrine to pacify the already luke-warm. No, you don't need to obey Jesus, because obedience it a competitive, coercive, guilt-tripping exercise in people yelling at and accusing one another.

Remember what I said about getting the spirit of what a person says, which means going deeper than just the surface words they use? This person is making a case against obedience to Jesus. Yes, he makes some good points about the need to be patient and not to yell at people, but he could have made that point in one or two sentences. Instead, nearly the whole article is framed in the context that any attempt to identify luke-warmness or promote obedience equates to angry yelling. In that sense, the spirit behind his references to yelling, the meaning deeper than just the words themselves, is a shield against obedience. He's not really concerned about bad attitudes; he's simply using the convenience of bad attitudes as an argument against obedience.

My goodness, Dos, but you've been taken in by a con-artist.

you wont get me going on a plane to Guatamala because i dont have the physical ability or the means to go abroad. But i can obey Jesus' callings to speak to someone living in the same street as me, or on Facebook about Jesus and the share the good news that way. helping the poor is the same for me- i live in a place where there is much of it. think that is what is so amazing about Jesus' commandments- there are so many ways we can obey them. no one has any excuse not to!
 
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