This is not why I left. My only point here, is that many assert and argue, using Biblical verse, that hell is eternal. The point here is that you assert it is not, and they assert that it is. If such realm(s) do actually exist, my point is that there exists confusion, as both of your Christian sides assert they have the evidence to support their position. God apparently cares not to clarify. He sits back, and watches, as centuries of infighting take place. His best example, was to allow humans to write stuff thousands of years ago, while knowing language will change drastically.
I never argued that hell is not eternal. I am arguing that hell (once thrown into the Lake of Fire) is not a separate realm from heaven, otherwise God cannot be "all in all".
I didn't. I turned to a rather large website, run by Christians. My point, again, is that confusion exists apparently. You assert one thing, many other Christians assert another. How do we resolve this? Can we ask God? Will He answer?
I understand your point and I concur. Yes there is confusion, we will never resolve it as long as we live. We can only attempt to but even our best efforts will only allow us to see
in part (1 Corinthians 13:12). This is not God playing hide-and-seek, it is His command for us to
live by faith (2 Corinthians 5:7, Hebrews 11:1). You will not find evidence or perfect answers in faith, only hope and trust.
Seems as though He provided instructions. Can you pray to Him for guidance/clarification, and have Him relay this answer to me?
Take any answers from me or others with a grain of salt. The Bible is designed to contain an infinite amount of answers, so that no man can arrogantly say they have all the answers. At some point, we all choose which scriptures we fully embrace, and which scriptures need re-interpreting. This is what I mean by choosing what you believe. God instructs us to have faith, which is the openness to seek and follow Him.
Then I guess He will not take it personal when many don't bother to listen; for lack in clarity or evidence. Or will He?
God holds nothing against you (2 Corinthians 5:19), but rather whoever does not believe condemns them self already (John 3:18).
God is love (1 John 4:7, 4:8, 4:16) and God is Spirit (and John 4:24). The fruits of the spirit are love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control according to Galatians 5:22-23. If you believe these things then in all conscience you are not really a nonbeliever. No doubt there are those who condemn themselves by refusing to believe love, choose joy, practice kindness, exercise hope, etc etc etc. So again I ask, why is the existence of God so rejectable for you?
If this is the case, then maybe you are judged merely by how much you help others?
Judgment is about what rewards we will receive in the next life.
This is how God tells us we can store up treasures in Heaven:
Giving to the needy (Luke 12:32-33)
Give to those who cannot repay (Luke 14:13-14)
Endure persecution (Matthew 5:11-12)
Loving your enemies (Matthew 5:43-48)
Praying (Matthew 6:5-6)
Serving God and others (Matthew 10:41-42)
It's not about being 'opposed'. I asked because I wanted to know [your] position on the matter? Hence, it looks to me, that your stance is as follows... When we die, we either go directly to heaven. Or, some are tortured/cleansed/purified for a bit, and then go to heaven a bit later?
My stance is that God will accomplish his eternal purpose in the end.
My point being, is that I truly doubt you could, even if you tried. This is why you cannot control what you believe.
Sure, you can protect an existing belief, or be in denial. But what you believe, whatever that may be, will not change without some sort of catalyst.
But for some strange reason, God asks that you believe in Him, just for starters. Thus, I ask again, doesn't God already know that we cannot truly control what we believe?
You do understand that this could hardly be done under practically any circumstances, right? I could not force you to love someone, on command.
There are many things people choose to believe. Aliens, parallel universes, ghosts, free will, luck, karma, astrology, morality, consciousness. There is as much proof as there is none for these things. You decide what is worth believing, and then you go from there. God included! Faith is how you choose to see the world, which affects how you live in the world and this is a continual process. When you say "I do" in a marriage you can't be certain that it will not end badly for you, but you choose to work hard, be faithful and love your partner until the very end.
Sure you can. Just like I can testify to the contrary that I feel I prayed to myself, and not instead to an existing and listening agent, for >3 decades. Now what? We now have two bonafide anecdotal claims, yours and mine
I can shield myself from evidence, sure. But if the evidence was presented to me, and I understood it, I either accept the evidence and change my position, (or) not find the evidence compelling enough, (or) maybe it makes me think about it for a bit but ultimately still do not change my initial positions, (or) maybe it instantly changes my mind and I either tell others about it or keep it hidden.
I'm sorry you feel that you wasted your time for 3 decades. Are you certain that God didn't answer your prayers, or is it simply because you didn't get the response you wanted?