- May 19, 2020
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years and I plan on proposing in the near future. We are waiting for marriage to have sex but we do kiss but never leave first base.
My concern is that she struggles to communicate any interest in being intimate once we are married. Verbal communication about anything intimate is extremely hard for her since she is a bit shy. This makes it hard for me to feel confident that we will be intimate when we are married.
For those who are married and waited. Did a whole new world of intimacy just explode open or was it a longer journey to navigate from exercising restraint to being completely open to one another.
If you or your loved one was really shy or didn't like talking about intimacy how did that change once you were married.
I’m worried I have this expectation that everything will suddenly change when we are married but it could also just be her personality. Either way I love her and just want to hear what other couples have experienced and get a sense of what’s to come.
My concern is that she struggles to communicate any interest in being intimate once we are married. Verbal communication about anything intimate is extremely hard for her since she is a bit shy. This makes it hard for me to feel confident that we will be intimate when we are married.
For those who are married and waited. Did a whole new world of intimacy just explode open or was it a longer journey to navigate from exercising restraint to being completely open to one another.
If you or your loved one was really shy or didn't like talking about intimacy how did that change once you were married.
I’m worried I have this expectation that everything will suddenly change when we are married but it could also just be her personality. Either way I love her and just want to hear what other couples have experienced and get a sense of what’s to come.
