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I am guessing they were stunned regarding the way His life was unfolding and totally devastated seeing this leading to a hideous crucifixion.

Well we know his brothers were very conflicted as to what Jesus was doing. At one point they came and said, " Leave Galilee and go to Judea, so that your disciples there may see the works you do. No one who wants to become a public figure acts in secret. Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world.” John 7: 6 That does show us that they sure didn't have much faith in Jesus prayer life....it seemed they were motivated by their natural minds as to what seemed like a reasonable thing to do.

And here's one of the greatest mysteries to me about his brothers. When Jesus was dying on the cross he called out to John, When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.

So the question is why didn't he have it stated to his real brothers to make sure they took care of his mother? Did Jesus realize Mary was a believer but she needed strengthened by those disciples who were closest with him?
 
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So the question is why didn't he have it stated to his real brothers to make sure they took care of his mother?

Perhaps because John was also a close relative (the son of Mary's sister -- we know this from comparing the women at the cross)?

Whereas, if the "brothers" were sons of Joseph by a previous marriage, they were no relation to Mary at all?

Perhaps because Jesus knew that John would live to a ripe old age, but others would not?

Well we know his brothers were very conflicted as to what Jesus was doing.

It's quite possible that some brothers felt one way, and others another.

As I said before, the brothers James and Jude may have been the disciples James and Jude.
 
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The Scriptures regarding Christ's family are consistent with His brothers and sisters being older than him. If Jesus was indeed the eldest, it would mean that His siblings grew up in the shadow of the perfect eldest brother. His influence on them growing up would have been greater than that of their father Joseph, yet their attitude towards Him does not reflect any such influence.
Eastern Orthodox tradition states that Salome, the wife of Zebedee and mother of James and John, was in fact one of Joseph's daughters, so it is likely that Joseph's children were adults with families of their own when Jesus was growing up, the exception being James. Salome's boldness in asking Jesus to have her sons sit at His left and right hand is consistent with her being His older sister.
If Jesus was the eldest then He would have had authority among His brethren, yet they multiple times try to assert authority over Him, and I suspect that His mother Mary was an unwilling participant who they had brought along in an effort to exert influence over Him.
 
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The Scriptures regarding Christ's family are consistent with His brothers and sisters being older than him. If Jesus was indeed the eldest, it would mean that His siblings grew up in the shadow of the perfect eldest brother. His influence on them growing up would have been greater than that of their father Joseph, yet their attitude towards Him does not reflect any such influence.

That's what I was trying to say, but you express it much better.

Eastern Orthodox tradition states that Salome, the wife of Zebedee and mother of James and John, was in fact one of Joseph's daughters

That's news to me. I had understood that she was Mary's sister.
 
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That's news to me. I had understood that she was Mary's sister.
It's also Eastern Orthodox tradition that Mary is the only child born to Joachim and Anna. It is likely that Mary and Salome became very close though. Jesus had obviously been a strong influence on her own children growing up, since Jesus only had to say "follow me", and they dropped everything and became His most devoted disciples.
 
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It's also Eastern Orthodox tradition that Mary is the only child born to Joachim and Anna.

I was referring to the lists of women at the cross, and the identification of Salome (Mark 15:40), the mother of the sons of Zebedee (Matthew 27:56), and Jesus's mother's sister (John 19:25).

Would you deny that connection, or would you interpret "mother's sister" as "mother's close relative"?

And isn't there an Orthodox view that Salome was Mary's cousin? Or have I got that wrong?

Jesus had obviously been a strong influence on her own children growing up, since Jesus only had to say "follow me", and they dropped everything and became His most devoted disciples.

I agree, and I think that that's very significant in relation to the O.P.
 
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I was referring to the lists of women at the cross, and the identification of Salome (Mark 15:40), the mother of the sons of Zebedee (Matthew 27:56), and Jesus's mother's sister (John 19:25).

Would you deny that connection, or would you interpret "mother's sister" as "mother's close relative"?
If I remember correctly, I believe Clopas was Joseph's brother. The comma inserted after "and His mother's sister" does not exist in the Greek. It's placement in the text was probably because the translators could not fathom how two sisters could have the same name, so they placed the comma to make it sound like "Mary's sister" and "Mary of Clopas" were two different people. If they are the wives of two brothers, however, they would naturally be considered as sisters.
And isn't there an Orthodox view that Salome was Mary's cousin? Or have I got that wrong?
I haven't ever come across this view.
 
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46While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. 47Someone said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You.” 48But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?” 49And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! 50“For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.”

It puzzles me that with all the first hand knowledge of Jesus wisdom and divine powers, that His own family seemed to relate from a distance. This includes Mary who had deep revelation about who He really was.

I assume He had the lifestyle of an itinerant rabbi and was always on the move - staying in homes of his followers.

Verse 50 even implies that His family were out of God's will.

This is a puzzle to me - there is little mention of them being among His followers.

Had unbelief crept in among His family members?

Your thoughts very much appreciated.
Jesus Christ is spiritual. Anyone who worships the Lord in spirit and in truth and obey his commandments, is related to Jesus Christ in spirit
Galatians 2:20 says "I am crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me"
From what i have heard, Simon the zealot was the brother of Jesus Christ

May God Bless You
 
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The comma inserted after "and His mother's sister" does not exist in the Greek. It's placement in the text was probably because the translators could not fathom how two sisters could have the same name, so they placed the comma to make it sound like "Mary's sister" and "Mary of Clopas" were two different people.

I see your point, and I note that ἡ ἀδελφὴ τῆς μητρὸς αὐτοῦ Μαρίαμ ἡ τοῦ Κλωπᾶ contains no καὶ. I am still not convinced, however. It just seems odd if you read it without a comma -- shouldn't it be Μαρίαμ ἡ ἀδελφὴ τῆς μητρὸς αὐτοῦ ἡ τοῦ Κλωπᾶ in that case?
 
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Verse five below is revealing.
"... even his own brothers did not believe in him." - vs 5
The "brothers" were "his own" and were not believers.

John 7:1-13
After this, Jesus went around in Galilee. He did not want to go about in Judea because the Jewish leaders there were looking for a way to kill him. 2 But when the Jewish Festival of Tabernacles was near, 3 Jesus’ brothers said to him, “Leave Galilee and go to Judea, so that your disciples there may see the works you do. 4 No one who wants to become a public figure acts in secret. Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world.” 5 For even his own brothers did not believe in him.
6 Therefore Jesus told them, “My time is not yet here; for you any time will do. 7 The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that its works are evil. 8 You go to the festival. I am not going up to this festival, because my time has not yet fully come.” 9 After he had said this, he stayed in Galilee.
10 However, after his brothers had left for the festival, he went also, not publicly, but in secret. 11 Now at the festival the Jewish leaders were watching for Jesus and asking, “Where is he?”
12 Among the crowds there was widespread whispering about him. Some said, “He is a good man.”
Others replied, “No, he deceives the people.” 13 But no one would say anything publicly about him for fear of the leaders.
 
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46While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. 47Someone said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You.” 48But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?” 49And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! 50“For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.”

It puzzles me that with all the first hand knowledge of Jesus wisdom and divine powers, that His own family seemed to relate from a distance. This includes Mary who had deep revelation about who He really was.

I assume He had the lifestyle of an itinerant rabbi and was always on the move - staying in homes of his followers.

Verse 50 even implies that His family were out of God's will.

This is a puzzle to me - there is little mention of them being among His followers.

Had unbelief crept in among His family members?

Your thoughts very much appreciated.
No puzzle about it, human nature is constantly trying to raise it's ugly head.
 
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