I'm looking for some direction. I was born in the church, ran from God for 20 years, and during that time developed a whole lot of secular, non-believing friends. Some are even anti-God. I've returned to God and have actually moved cities since then, but I still have old friends that want into my life. I now attend a great church and have new church friends. But with the old friends, I'd frankly like to just drop them all together and really feel like I'm starting over, but I'm not even sure how to go about this. I haven't directly told them "I'm saved again" but I've let them know in somewhat indirect ways that I'm not going down their path anymore. How do I handle these people? I'm not sure if it's rude to just cut them off and move forward in my life or to try and witness to them or to just not go out of my way to contact them, and if they want to contact me, I can answer as to why I haven't responded. Any suggestions?
Our close freinds at one point become like family. However, we do change and grow and sometimes even drift apart as life pulls us in different directions, but I do think that it's important as a Christian to be a positive influence in the lives of others, especially those others who are lost.
My son isn't saved, but that doesn't mean I love him less, it means I want to be able to share the gospel with him anytime the opportunity arises. Often conversations drift into the religious, and it's good to bring up Christ and what salvation really means when it's appropriate to the conversation. (I'm not a pushy type, although I do regularly pray for him privately).
So while some of your freinds may take offense to your newfound faith (PS, you can't be saved twice.. you
can become like the prodigal son and later find your way home, however) and if they do, then so be it so long as your not trying to cause offense and sharing the gospel in appropriate manner.
But those who are happy staying in contact, however distant, keep that contact so you can be the right influence they need.
Angels are messengers of God, and when we share the gospel of Christ with the lost, calling them to salvation, then we are acting agents, messengers of God. It is as if we are one of the angels in the Book of Revelation calling people out of Babylon before her destruction, and this is our one job, our sole purpose if you will, to give our account and the word of our testimony in sharing the gospel of salvation in Christ.
This defeats death itself, this defeats Satan, against this Satan has no power. Our Lord Reigns.
So if you find it in your heart, then keep contact with those few in some small way, and thereby keep the door open to sharing this message of hope with them. But don't let it affect you also moving forward in your own life, and your own calling. But it's better to keep doors and avenues of communication open, than to shut them altogether.