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Hi all. Yesterday I read about how, when Jesus finished speaking, the people were amazed that he did not speak like the other religious leaders, but rather they recognized some kind of special authority in his words. After participating in a few controversial threads, it occurred to me that in all these disagreements there's a whole lot of Bible verses being quoted, a whole lot of comments about the Holy spirit this, the Law that, and lots of frustration that the issues aren't as clear to others as they are to those making the argument. It makes me feel like, even when I believe I am right, presenting an argument which demonstrates the other person is wrong just comes across as petty arguing and I wonder how I can change that about myself.
However, this video suggests that there really is a time for bluntly stating when we believe we're right and others wrong, though it makes the point that we really do need to be right when doing so. It still seems a little confusing to me so I'd like to hear what others think about the concept. I look forward to some edifying discussion.
Is it good to say "I'm right, you're wrong" in a truly serious, combative way (as is normally done)?
--> No, not ever, not even once.
But we aren't always perfect. We should just confess/repent when we stumble into such personal fighting with people. And later (soon!) reconcile to them! This is very important. Christ instructed it to us.
And Paul, and Peter said also to be at peace and harmony with others. So, we must say what is right without trying to belittle or put down the person we are talking with.
We could though try to do as Paul did with Peter if such a situation arose -- something truly important, crucial enough.
Notice Paul did not say anything in the text at all like or similar to "you're wrong" -- it's not there:
Paul Opposes Peter
11 But when Cephas [Peter] came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face, because he stood condemned. 12 For before certain men came from James, he was eating with the Gentiles; but when they came he drew back and separated himself, fearing the circumcision party. 13 And the rest of the Jews acted hypocritically along with him, so that even Barnabas was led astray by their hypocrisy. 14 But when I saw that their conduct was not in step with the truth of the gospel, I said to Cephas before them all, “If you, though a Jew, live like a Gentile and not like a Jew, how can you force the Gentiles to live like Jews?”
Galatians 2 ESV
Notice how nicely Paul says what is right! It does not have a personal put down!
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