So, in His eyes, we are all valuable, all equally loved by Him.
That truism, however, does not mean that we are all called to the same roles in His church. The New Testament is explicit in saying this, but I notice that the folks who think that "In Christ there is neither male nor female" settles everything somehow neglect to ever mention that we in the church are also described as being like parts of a body--head, arms, etc.--which are different yet work together for the overall successful functioning of the body (of Christ).
Romans 12:4-8:
"For just as we have many members in one body and all the members do not have the same function, so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith; if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching; or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.