I am obsessed over this virus because I am afraid

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I put on gloves to go in store
any money back, have clerk put in bag & not touching for days

if you need to get something, go out in evening as fewer people out OR if you can order online

I use spare pillow cases as over grown mittens for public door handles, rails, and money before I go out.

Then I had the shop lady pick my money out of my bag (which I hadn't been using).

I only listened to 5 mins. news in a week (yesterday) and no papers.

I repeat the Lord's Prayer near continuous.

I think of all the marvels I have ever known, and known of, of all kinds.
 
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I am terrified. All I can think about is this virus that's going around. It is in my town right now and so far two people have found to be positive with this virus. I am afraid to go shopping. I won't even spend time with my family. My mom has invited me to go and spend time with her, and she is a widow. But I won't do it. I won't let anyone touch me. I am obsessed with washing my hands every second of the day. My hands are starting to crack.

I am healthy physically right now. But mentally I think I'm going to have a breakdown. I keep getting news about so many people dying and how the death toll is increasing. I took the trash out and some stuff flew in my face. That freaks me out. I washed my face but I know that if I end up with a virus, washing it won't stop it.

I don't know what advice you can give me. But any encouraging or advice will be helpful. Thank you very much.

God has planned every minute of your life already.

The virus is more contagious than the normal flue. But it is not more deadly. The best case scenario is that you get to see God soon and it might happen any minute of any day. This has always been the case.

Psalm 147:5
Great is our Lord, and abundant in power; his understanding is beyond measure.

1 John 3:20
For whenever our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and he knows everything.

Hebrews 4:13
And no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give account.

Jeremiah 1:5
“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.”

Proverbs 15:3
The eyes of the Lord are in every place, keeping watch on the evil and the good.

Isaiah 40:28
Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable.

1 Chronicles 28:9
“And you, Solomon my son, know the God of your father and serve him with a whole heart and with a willing mind, for the Lord searches all hearts and understands every plan and thought. If you seek him, he will be found by you, but if you forsake him, he will cast you off forever.

Acts 1:24
And they prayed and said, “You, Lord, who know the hearts of all, show which one of these two you have chosen

Matthew 10:30
But even the hairs of your head are all numbered.
 
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I've recently learned that I somehow really enjoy touching stuff and then immediately touching my face. I didn't know I had this habit until now when everything is potentially harboring the tiny tiny enemy.
Just put on winter gloves and this will help.
 
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I am terrified. All I can think about is this virus that's going around. It is in my town right now and so far two people have found to be positive with this virus. I am afraid to go shopping. I won't even spend time with my family. My mom has invited me to go and spend time with her, and she is a widow. But I won't do it. I won't let anyone touch me. I am obsessed with washing my hands every second of the day. My hands are starting to crack.

I am healthy physically right now. But mentally I think I'm going to have a breakdown. I keep getting news about so many people dying and how the death toll is increasing. I took the trash out and some stuff flew in my face. That freaks me out. I washed my face but I know that if I end up with a virus, washing it won't stop it.

I don't know what advice you can give me. But any encouraging or advice will be helpful. Thank you very much.
I worry that I am not fearful enough. I continued to shop for more food than I need. I risk infection even though I wore gloves. I wore a facemask. A lady called me crazy. There have been three reported cases of the coronavirus in my county.

My governor closed restaurants except for delivery and takeout window. Millions are losing their jobs in the US. The crime rate is expected to spike.

I read a report that 5% of people tested positive for coronavirus in some areas died of it. South Korea has a lower death rate and lower spread of infection, what are they doing right? China has reopened for business. The US is yet setting up mobile testing sites.

Mild cases of the virus lasted two weeks. Severe cases lasted three to six weeks. Hospitals are filling up. Brazil has a plan to turn soccer stadiums into field hospitals.

My dad’s assisted living is locked down. I visited by phone. Many nursing homes have reported cases of the coronavirus and some have died.

There are Psalms about seeking God for refuge, protection and salvation.
 
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Hi Brother.
Sorry to hear of your struggles. I do hope you can learn through this, but by all means you should continue to share your burdens with others. Here is a youtube video you might consider on the subject of joy.
It helped me when I thought I was in crisis mode a couple of years back. It might be a bit strange to some, but the word is true. There are lots of ways to get to victory in Christ, but mainly it will come when you gain personal revelation from God.
On a practical level, if you are self-isolating, and there is no one else touching things around your house, then you do not have to be so careful in washing. Just shower when coming in from anywhere that you might be exposed and leave those clothes in the laundry, and your shoes outside. Groceries and other things I bring in I wash if they go into the fridge, and canned goods and pop, I leave in the car for a couple of days. I wear a mask when I go out and pick places and times where there are no crowds. Some might say I am fearful, but to me this is not my fight at least not at the moment. I work at home and am quite comfortable. With the weather turning, I will shoot hoops and go to a local park that is never crowded.
 
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As long as we keep a safe distance from people we should be ok.

Christians should not be fearful because,
we have our sights set on heaven.

Regarding the flesh
I'm not afraid of dieing
but, I would prefer not to
be there when it happens.

M-Bob
 
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... South Korea has a lower death rate and lower spread of infection, what are they doing right? ...

There are Psalms about seeking God for refuge, protection and salvation.

SK may have mainly had a different variant so far.
 
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No matter what religious views you hold, being considerate and maintain good hygiene are important for slowing down the epidermis.
- Wash your hands and use disinfections if you're outside
- Clean the surfaces regularly including your gadgets, they're the hidden danger since we're using them often
- Help your neighbours when they're in need, like buying groceries and sending prayer or blessing cards especially for the most vulnerable groups. Recently there's already a transpartisan (from the left to the Christian democrats)cooperation network supporting the residents in a central German town, and young people are helping their elderly neighbours doing their daily grocery shoppings. Even a small blessing card means a lot to them.
- Don't go out in a crowd or only go outside solo if necessary
- Greet your neighbours (ofc in a safe distance of 1.5 metres) so that they'll feel loved and supported
- Get properly informed and there're lots of mythbusters made by experts, since there're fake news and quack remedies flying around.
 
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I am terrified. All I can think about is this virus that's going around. It is in my town right now and so far two people have found to be positive with this virus. I am afraid to go shopping. I won't even spend time with my family. My mom has invited me to go and spend time with her, and she is a widow. But I won't do it. I won't let anyone touch me. I am obsessed with washing my hands every second of the day. My hands are starting to crack.

I am healthy physically right now. But mentally I think I'm going to have a breakdown. I keep getting news about so many people dying and how the death toll is increasing. I took the trash out and some stuff flew in my face. That freaks me out. I washed my face but I know that if I end up with a virus, washing it won't stop it.

I don't know what advice you can give me. But any encouraging or advice will be helpful. Thank you very much.
Father God I come to you in the name of Jesus. I asked Father God that you would give Jesse rest. Give him peace of mind Lord. Do not allow the Enemy to distort his fear into anything more. Help him to be cautious Lord but not obsessed. Help him to be wise but not fearful. Let your peace engulf him.
I pray this also for anyone else who might read this post and need the same assurance from you.
In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
 
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"Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me."

I would watch the news less and meditate on scripture more..
 
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Except this has barely even started. You should reply to your own post 6 months from now and tell us the same thing.
Time will tell, but I think in 6 months we're going to see that it was totally overblown.
 
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"You will keep him in perfect peace,
Whose mind is stayed on You,
Because he trusts in You." Isaiah 26:3 NKJV


People's emotions will follow what they focus on, and even a dedicated child of God will have fear if they set their focus on fearful things. That's why Isaiah 41:10 says that the person who continually focuses on the Lord will be in peace. It even goes further and says that God Himself will keep that person in peace who continually focuses on Him.

Check out Psalm 91 for encouragement.

Praying for you :praying:.
 
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I am terrified. All I can think about is this virus that's going around. It is in my town right now and so far two people have found to be positive with this virus. I am afraid to go shopping. I won't even spend time with my family. My mom has invited me to go and spend time with her, and she is a widow. But I won't do it. I won't let anyone touch me. I am obsessed with washing my hands every second of the day. My hands are starting to crack.

I am healthy physically right now. But mentally I think I'm going to have a breakdown. I keep getting news about so many people dying and how the death toll is increasing. I took the trash out and some stuff flew in my face. That freaks me out. I washed my face but I know that if I end up with a virus, washing it won't stop it.

I don't know what advice you can give me. But any encouraging or advice will be helpful. Thank you very much.
Hello Introverted! You may be displaying a bit of obsessiveness which is good at this time but can be debilitating in its extreme form. It is good you are not visiting your mother as she is at risk. It is not so good that you wash your hands to the point of cracking, so wear gloves and cut down. As far as shopping, get things delivered to your home.
If you think you are mentally breaking down, there is help! Read this and call.

https://www.nami.org/getattachment/...-the-Coronavirus/COVID-19-Updated-Guide-1.pdf

I will pray for you. :crossrc:May the Lord give you strength during this time of uncertainty and fear.

Here is scripture for you to meditate on when in fear.

Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’

Be blessed



 
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In a world of 7.8 billion, there have been 18,044 deaths. That's 0.00023% of the population. This whole fear-mongering thing is grossly overblown.

So far, and I'm guessing none of those deaths were people you knew or close to you. You might think it's overblown, but to be sure someone cares that those people died from what really is a preventable disease when the appropriate caution is exercised.
 
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I am terrified. All I can think about is this virus that's going around. It is in my town right now and so far two people have found to be positive with this virus. I am afraid to go shopping. I won't even spend time with my family. My mom has invited me to go and spend time with her, and she is a widow. But I won't do it. I won't let anyone touch me. I am obsessed with washing my hands every second of the day. My hands are starting to crack.

I am healthy physically right now. But mentally I think I'm going to have a breakdown. I keep getting news about so many people dying and how the death toll is increasing. I took the trash out and some stuff flew in my face. That freaks me out. I washed my face but I know that if I end up with a virus, washing it won't stop it.

I don't know what advice you can give me. But any encouraging or advice will be helpful. Thank you very much.

Here's a perspective you might find useful: Fear of Covid-19 is a mental contagion – and that's something we can fight
 
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