Have your friend or family batrayed you? how and why?

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Lanae

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heres my story:

i sent my high school mate Minho this letter


To Minho: hey when i first met you in 2003, i didnt know that i was cing at you in Korean. i didnt know what shirr baa was i thought it was a funny word to make u laugh. You didn't care if I found out or not. WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME THAT?!?! you shouldve just told me! you said nothing and you just didnt want to tell me, LIAR!!!!!!!!!!! Why are you telling other people what i said to u?! They're not me! if you get mad at me over something, just tell me next time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you acted like i knew what shir baa was. you just think im stupid. thx for not telling mute mouth. you were just waiting for me to find out. I cant believe you didnt tell me that!!!!!! That was so ridiculous when you didnt tell me that!!!!!!! Thats problably the reason you u kept telling me to stop bothering you and kept saying "deleted quote you" IM NOT STUPID!!!!!! YOU SHOULD'VE TOLD ME RIGHT AWAY!!!! DONT JUST IGNORE ME AND WAIT FOR ME TO FIND OUT AND FIGURE IT OUT!!!!!!


To Minho: Lets how u would like it if I do that to you and see how long you would find out, leave you hanging like that and see if you figure it out why did I get angry with you over something I didnt tell you about. lets see how long to be left hanging for a long time.*** *Slams door on Minho with a very loud bang and walks away*


i just found out on March 5th that morning and he left me hanging all confused for 17 years. I hate it when people get mad at me out of nowhere and not tell me about and leave me hanging and confused for a long time. they don't care if I found out or not. They just wait for me figure it out myself. they should come up to me and tell me about it instead of telling everyone what i said or did to them. I thought Minho was acting crazy or somethin. He though i was cussing at him in Korean. sshi bbal=씨빨=deleted quoted you. i cant believe he didnt tell me that! so rude!


Proverbs 10:18 says hiding hatred makes you a liar and slandering others makes you a fool.


he doesnt sound like a real Christian to me. He sounds like a hypocrite


idk if I ever want to see his face ever again because he shouldve told me and explained it to me. not go around telling everyone what I said to him or did to him. he's such a liar!!!!!


hiding hatred for long time. pretending to be nice to me. im turning 34 in May i was 17 when i met him.
 
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Try to take it easy Lanae. Let the spirit of peace & forgiveness flow through your heart. Why don't you try to reach out to them and make peace?
idk thats why people need to be careful not to cuss when theyre angry. If person A gets angry and starts cussing at people then they would never want to talk Person A ever again
 
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I'm sorry that you have experienced this.

It seems you have confronted him, which is what we are told to do. Unless you have a church to turn to help resolve this issue with him, then there is nothing left for you to do except turn to God for healing and to help you forgive.

Sometimes it's best to let people and relationships go. Forgive them and care about their wellbeing from a distance. Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to trust them again or try to patch things up. It just means not holding it against them anymore, don't try to hold them accountable for it.

When I have been betrayed by my ex-husband and by my own family, I have found peace and comfort in knowing that God knows what they did. He will deal with it in Him time and His way. It is not something that I have to be concerned about. My only concern is recovering and behaving and reacting in the way God would want me to.
 
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