Maybe you need to edit your original post so it is more clear. This is much better, and I agree. I'm celibate also.
Well, I'm sort of celibate by accident
really. As I say, I found Him (Jesus) and uncovered all of these new talents and ways of thinking, so I've just kind of kept myself busy for all of these years. My previous life looked incredibly dull, grey and banal by comparison after 2012 hit. I found my faith - and then all of a sudden I was awake and seeing the world in colour. And you know how THAT is, once you've experienced that feeling of being awake, you always want it. I didn't care for anything else. So then it wasn't that hard for me to carrying on living life without sex.
Naturally - in living in this awakened state, I wanted to go on a mission of self discovery. I just so happen to still be here nearly a decade later, enjoying it just as much as I was back then.
Miles hit on a great point about the emotional ramifications of sleeping around - because it
does cause a lot of damage to a person's psyche (I was only happy in the moment; everything else in life sucked at the time). I'm just lucky that since my last girlfriend, I've manged to develop an almost universal love across the human race. It feels a bit like an international brotherhood and sisterhood - I feel a sense of responsibility in society. Yeah, I guess travelling helped with that.
See a theme? Give yourself a purpose and everything 'tempting' seems a lot easier to avoid - to the point that you're actually a reformed character. I was probably at one time a sex addict (with girls who were also addicts) and now, it's been ten/eleven years, and I don't really care for it.
My earlier point is that it's possibly better to sin, admit you're not perfect and repent, than it is to let something dominate your life. Good advice? Possibly not. But then I'm a believer in trail and error, mistakes are good but ONLY if they serve as an important lesson. If not, then, well...
Sorry if I startled you earlier, I think there's just been a fundamental misunderstanding (I'm not a fan of forcing information, I think it's important people find out for themselves.) I shouldn't have been so impassioned about it.