I can speak in tongues.. I do not have the gift of tongues. Seen heard those praying in tongues where someone says "did you know what you were saying?" No.. " you were praising God in my language." A language they never learned. And people get saved. HAHA praise GOD.. me? I just BELIEVE! I asked He gave.. I received.
I believe that every converted believer can pray in tongues, because they have the Holy Spirit dwelling in their spirit. They have the potential to manifest any of the gifts of the Spirit as the Spirit wills. The gifts don't belong to us, they belong to the Holy Spirit and He has given them to the body of Christ. Because we all have different roles in the body of Christ, the Holy Spirit distributes the gifts according to the role He has set for us. This idea of some that they can have all the gifts operating through them is just nonsense. No one member of the body of Christ is a one-man-band, in the same way that one person cannot be all of the five fold ministries at once. It is just self-ambition to be superior to the common flock.
When I have fellowshiped with those who accept the prophetic in their meetings, I have been used in prophecy and the gift of tongues, as well as interpretation. These gifts were bestowed on me according to the accept role and ministry that I had in that group. But I never manifested any of the other gifts because they were not consistent with my God-appointed role at that time.
But when I joined a church that did not have the gifts operating, I no longer was functioning in that role, so my gifting changed to administration and helps consistent with my new role. I had a more pastoral and treasurer role as an elder of that church.
I was asked on two occasions to conduct a whole-day conference on divine healing where we examined how Jesus went about healing people with a view to following His example. One or two people actually got healed but it was as the result of sitting the person on the 'hot' seat, and having as many as 30 people coming forward, laying hands on the person and saying, "Jesus heals you." So, although I gave teaching, I did not manifest any gift of healing. This was because it was not my role to be the healing ministry in those conferences, but as a ministry of helps and teaching to encourage every person there that they could lay hands on a sick person and trust the Lord to heal them.
I can remember only once in all my time (50 years) that I had a definite word of knowledge. It was remarkable and amazing because the word I had for the person was totally consistent with counselling that she had received earlier in the day by another person at the camp where I was a leader. The word hit the nail right on the head, and the person receiving it knew without doubt that it was from the Lord and not just from me.
I also believe that the gifts of the Spirit that involve ministry to others are not given to novices. One has to have gained a level of maturity and experience and to be recognised in the body of Christ as someone competent in ministry to others. One does not have to go to Bible College or get a degree in Divinity to be able to work in the gifts, but someone who is still spiritually wet behind the ears having just received Christ trying to manifest the gifts would just get puffed up in pride and be inclined to boast how many of the gifts they have. In fact, they would be dreaming if they thought they would be manifesting any of the gifts, but rather spouting stuff out of the own heads. It takes time for a person to be a person of prayer and of the Word in order to be fully prepared to manifest the gifts of the Spirit in ministry to others.
It is the reason why I always encourage those seeking the Baptism with the Spirit to pray in tongues, because this is available to young and old; because it is not for ministry to others, but personal prayer to God. In fact, praying in tongues is the perfect preparation for growing in the things of the Spirit, gaining sensitivity to know the difference between the prompting of the Spirit and the prompting of one's own desire.
This is why we so so much misuse of the gifts in our Pentecostal and Charismatic churches. We have people doing it who don't know what they are doing; or they are doing it out of pride and envy; or they cannot yet distinguish between the flesh and the Spirit in the manifestation. That's why we have silly people babbling away publicly in tongues, prophesying all sorts of nonsense, bringing both of the valuable gifts into disrepute, taking the Lord's Name in vain by purporting to be doing these things in the Name of the Lord, when the Holy Spirit is not inspiring them at all.
Pride, envy and jealousy can be very subtle. Someone can speak loudly in tongues in a meeting, or give thrilling sounding dramatic prophecies out of pride, giving the impression that he is more spiritual than the common "herd". A person hearing a good prophecy, can stand up and add his 2 cents worth because he is jealous of the other person and he wants to occupy the role of effective prophet as well. Another person can desire to prophecy or use other gifts in the church because he is envious of others who operate in the Spirit effectively and he can't see why he can't do the same. These three actions of the flesh are the main causes of the misuse of the gifts, tongues used contrary to Paul's teaching in 1 Corinthians 14, and false prophecy.
So, if we are going to be used in the gifts of the Spirit we must carefully examine ourselves to ensure that we are wanting to be used for the right reason, to glorify Christ and to build up the body of Christ. We must also determine whether the gift we desire is consistent with our role in the body of Christ and whether the ministry we desire is validated and supported by the leadership of the church.