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Hey, everyone--
First time posting, and I'm a bit nervous.
I was raised in a Christian household and have gone to church most of my life. Now that I'm a young adult, I've become more evaluative of my place in the faith. Lifelong struggles with anxiety and insecurity have made this somewhat difficult--lots of doubt, insecurity, and feelings of condemnation. With advice from family, pastors, and friends, I've realized that I struggle with legalism. I'm trying to accept that sanctification is a lifelong process and that I should focus on conviction, not condemnation. Easier said than done.
I want to walk in the faith without legalism, but I know that I struggle to love God wholeheartedly. I acknowledge that we all have trouble with this; after all, we all sin. But I'm often scared to spend time with Him because I struggle so much with feeling condemned, which makes me afraid that I might not really have faith at all. I struggle to love the Word, I struggle to worship, I struggle to WANT to live for His glory above my own. I pray that He'll change my heart and give me the right picture of His character, but I always worry I have mixed motives when I ask. Basically, it's just this spiral of feeling terrible about my relationship with God that I can't seem to break free of.
Is learning to love God more part of sanctification? I just keep worrying that I'll never get out of this place of fear and selfishness.
Thanks for listening, and I'd really appreciate some prayers.
First time posting, and I'm a bit nervous.
I was raised in a Christian household and have gone to church most of my life. Now that I'm a young adult, I've become more evaluative of my place in the faith. Lifelong struggles with anxiety and insecurity have made this somewhat difficult--lots of doubt, insecurity, and feelings of condemnation. With advice from family, pastors, and friends, I've realized that I struggle with legalism. I'm trying to accept that sanctification is a lifelong process and that I should focus on conviction, not condemnation. Easier said than done.
I want to walk in the faith without legalism, but I know that I struggle to love God wholeheartedly. I acknowledge that we all have trouble with this; after all, we all sin. But I'm often scared to spend time with Him because I struggle so much with feeling condemned, which makes me afraid that I might not really have faith at all. I struggle to love the Word, I struggle to worship, I struggle to WANT to live for His glory above my own. I pray that He'll change my heart and give me the right picture of His character, but I always worry I have mixed motives when I ask. Basically, it's just this spiral of feeling terrible about my relationship with God that I can't seem to break free of.
Is learning to love God more part of sanctification? I just keep worrying that I'll never get out of this place of fear and selfishness.
Thanks for listening, and I'd really appreciate some prayers.