How to break up with my girlfriend?

John55107 · Feb 15, 2020

I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia, and I know this is not God's path, or will for me. She supports marriage equality, lgbtq, and she's sent me intimate pictures,and she smokes weed. How can I be polite and break up with her? I want God's will for my life not my own way. Something I've been really struggling with. I will pray about it. I feel like her soul desires God. Shes gone to a Catholic church, and she says that everytime she walks in, she feels like a new person.

eleos1954 · Feb 15, 2020

John55107 said:
I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia, and I know this is not God's path, or will for me. She supports marriage equality, lgbtq, and she's sent me intimate pictures,and she smokes weed. How can I be polite and break up with her? I want God's will for my life not my own way. Something I've been really struggling with. I will pray about it. I feel like her soul desires God. Shes gone to a Catholic church, and she says that everytime she walks in, she feels like a new person.

Go through scripture with her. Talk about scripture ... she'll either be open to it ... or not.

HARK! · Feb 15, 2020

Tell her that the Father calls you to be evenly yoked; and that she and you are not evenly yoked. If she says that she will change for you; then she is still not evenly yoked with you; as she should do all for YHWH.

splish- splash · Feb 15, 2020

Why don't you open up about how you really feel concerning the intimate pics and weed smoking 1st? In fact, try to address everything that is putting you off in this relationship. See what she says then decide from there. Maybe she's trying to get help through fellowshipping but hasn't quite worked out what's what.

Daniel Marsh · Feb 15, 2020

John55107 said:
I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia, and I know this is not God's path, or will for me. She supports marriage equality, lgbtq, and she's sent me intimate pictures,and she smokes weed. How can I be polite and break up with her? I want God's will for my life not my own way. Something I've been really struggling with. I will pray about it. I feel like her soul desires God. Shes gone to a Catholic church, and she says that everytime she walks in, she feels like a new person.

Tell her practicing an alternative lifestyle is a sin, she will break up with you.

Daniel Marsh · Feb 15, 2020

John55107 said:
I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia, and I know this is not God's path, or will for me. She supports marriage equality, lgbtq, and she's sent me intimate pictures,and she smokes weed. How can I be polite and break up with her? I want God's will for my life not my own way. Something I've been really struggling with. I will pray about it. I feel like her soul desires God. Shes gone to a Catholic church, and she says that everytime she walks in, she feels like a new person.

Write a long letter. Ask if she wants to become a missionary

Lost4words · Feb 15, 2020

Has she asked you for money yet? If not, it probably wont be long before she does

HARK! · Feb 15, 2020

Daniel Marsh said:
Tell her practicing an alternative lifestyle is a sin, she will break up with you.

Good point; and if she argues that point; she will reveal that she is not willing to submit to neither her future husband, nor Yahshua, nor YHWH.
There are more spiritual women than there are spiritual men; just go to a congregation and take a look around the room at the singles. There's no need for a spiritual man to settle for a woman who will bring torment to his walk with Yahshua.

SoldierOfTheKing · Feb 15, 2020

"Sorry, I don't think it's going to work out between us."

Simple does it.

blackribbon · Feb 15, 2020

Be honest however you do it. Being "nice" just leaves the other person with unanswered questions. It leaves them feeling inadequate but unable to pinpoint where they were inadequate. Be kind while being honest. Something simple such as "I like you as a person but we have differences in lifestyles and beliefs that make continuing this relationship impossible."

timothyu · Feb 15, 2020

John55107 said:
I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia,

Does she want you to move there?

SkyWriting · Feb 15, 2020

John55107 said:
I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia, and I know this is not God's path, or will for me. She supports marriage equality, lgbtq, and she's sent me intimate pictures,and she smokes weed. How can I be polite and break up with her? I want God's will for my life not my own way. Something I've been really struggling with. I will pray about it. I feel like her soul desires God. Shes gone to a Catholic church, and she says that everytime she walks in, she feels like a new person.

You can stop being where she is. Where ever that is you meet.

Aussie Pete · Feb 15, 2020

John55107 said:
I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl from Cambodia, and I know this is not God's path, or will for me. She supports marriage equality, lgbtq, and she's sent me intimate pictures,and she smokes weed. How can I be polite and break up with her? I want God's will for my life not my own way. Something I've been really struggling with. I will pray about it. I feel like her soul desires God. Shes gone to a Catholic church, and she says that everytime she walks in, she feels like a new person.

Be honest. Tell her the truth. "How can we walk together unless we are agreed?" You and she are not in agreement.

Elliewaves · Feb 15, 2020

1. Have you ever met her in person?

2. " I think we should stop 'seeing' each other. We differ on several issues and beliefs and we each deserve to be walking in agreement with a significant other on those issues."

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