How do I kill my idolisation of white women?

J Daniel · Feb 5, 2020

Short and sweet.

I have been battling this for long enough.

Every time I see a white woman that is cute or above I think she is the cream of the crop.

I want to exercise this demonic spirit from out of me because this is dangerous to keep fishing in another system's world of women.

In this world where European beauty standards are pushed in our faces that has certainly messed with me in wanted that image and that sucks.

I love all women!

But this fascination over the Caucasian women needs to end.

What are the PRACTICAL steps to killing this?

MehGuy · Feb 5, 2020

You like what you like, no need to be ashamed about it.

Some men like east Asian women, some men like black women.. who cares.. just date who you like.

Going_Nowhere · Feb 5, 2020

These days, black men and white women hook up all the time. So what's the problem? And like the above poster said, you like who you like. We all have our own preferences.

Kenny'sID · Feb 5, 2020

Don't idolize anything/anyone, but if you are looking for a mate, I don't think God minds what color, but it could be I don't quite understand what you are saying.

Curtis.Hilliker · Feb 5, 2020

I don’t see a reason why you can’t like white women. If you really want that to change though then keep offering it up in prayer to God.

Sketcher · Feb 5, 2020

The problem is idolizing any woman. She's a human, therefore she's a fallen creature. She's a fallen creature, therefore she's going to make you pay dearly for idolizing her, every time.

That's how you like someone, not what type of woman you like.

As far as changing what type of woman you are the most physically attracted to, I have neither found a way to do that, nor have I been especially motivated to do that. What I have learned is that God can surprise you with some of the women he created outside of your preferred type. You might not ordinarily like women of that hair color or that skin color that much, but then you meet someone with that hair color or skin color who's a knockout. It's happened to me more than once.

ReesePiece23 · Feb 5, 2020

One race: the human race.

The longer you're with someone the less you notice it anyway - my Hindi girlfriend just sort of blended in once we'd reached a certain point in our relationship. I didn't think "oh, she's Indian" - she was just my girlfriend.

Then there was a Chinese girl, whose features interestingly became more western and Caucasian until I actually forgot she was Chinese (make up probably did that to be fair.)

Never been with White British girl though, despite being White British. No rhyme or reason to it. Just hasn't happened.

ImAllLikeOkWaitWat · Feb 6, 2020

I think you need to first make sure it has reached the point of idolatry and isn't just a preference or harmless infatuation. Have you ever been in a relationship with a white woman? Doing so may scratch whatever itch that is triggered when you see white women. They are just regular people like everyone else. It's good you say you love all women though because at least this hasn't gotten to the point where it's go white or die trying type of desperation which could be sad if you have elevated one race higher than others.

timewerx · Feb 8, 2020

MehGuy said:
You like what you like, no need to be ashamed about it.

Some men like east Asian women, some men like black women.. who cares.. just date who you like.

When I was younger, I also thought that Whites are the prettiest, just like @J Daniel said about our society and mass media ramming the idea down our throats that is true.

It's what I (we) been conditioned to think growing up. It's even more ironic since I grew up in an Asian country. But our entertainment industry keeps assigning women with White genes to any assignment that represents prestige, wealth, and beauty.

Ever since I've been set free from that mind conditioning, I've suddenly found all races equally beautiful....Well not exactly as now I've been finding Latinas, Native Americans, and Blacks the prettiest. Native Americans in particular as they combine all racial aspects - Black, Asian, Latino, etc.

The FACT is you can't be certain what you really want until you have broken free from the mind conditioning of this world.

And that is just one level of the conditioning we all received. The truth begs answers and you can't find all of them if you settle for anything. Don't settle for any truth until you have found all them.

MehGuy · Feb 8, 2020

timewerx said:
When I was younger, I also thought that Whites are the prettiest, just like @J Daniel said about our society and mass media ramming the idea down our throats that is true.

It's what I (we) been conditioned to think growing up. It's even more ironic since I grew up in an Asian country. But our entertainment industry keeps assigning women with White genes to any assignment that represents prestige, wealth, and beauty.

Ever since I've been set free from that mind conditioning, I've suddenly found all races equally beautiful....Well not exactly as now I've been finding Latinas, Native Americans, and Blacks the prettiest. Native Americans in particular as they combine all racial aspects - Black, Asian, Latino, etc.

The FACT is you can't be certain what you really want until you have broken free from the mind conditioning of this world.

And that is just one level of the conditioning we all received. The truth begs answers and you can't find all of them if you settle for anything. Don't settle for any truth until you have found all them.

I'm not sure about that, I've read scientific literature that men tend to find lighter skin on women more "feminine". In fact within many races women tend to be a few shades lighter. It might be more of a natural attraction than some think. For men it's the opposite we've all heard the phrase "tall dark and handsome". You can blame racism and whatnot, but black men are often found attractive with many women and they do better than their female counterparts on dating sites.

timewerx · Feb 8, 2020

MehGuy said:
I'm not sure about that, I've read scientific literature that men tend to find lighter skin on women more "feminine". In fact within many races women tend to be a few shades lighter. It might be more of a natural attraction than some think. For men it's the opposite we've all heard the phrase "tall dark and handsome". You can blame racism and whatnot, but black men are often found attractive with many women and they do better than their female counterparts on dating sites.

I agree with you. This works for me regardless of race, but somehow, not too fair for me, due to UV risk.

The problem with OP is he wants fair-skin only with white women. It's a bit different and I do think this one is strongly influenced by entertainment media.

S.O.J.I.A. · Feb 8, 2020

J Daniel said:
Short and sweet.

I have been battling this for long enough.

Every time I see a white woman that is cute or above I think she is the cream of the crop.

I want to exercise this demonic spirit from out of me because this is dangerous to keep fishing in another system's world of women.

In this world where European beauty standards are pushed in our faces that has certainly messed with me in wanted that image and that sucks.

I love all women!

But this fascination over the Caucasian women needs to end.

What are the PRACTICAL steps to killing this?

what is your ethnicity by way of your father?

MehGuy · Feb 8, 2020

timewerx said:
I agree with you. This works for me regardless of race, but somehow, not too fair for me, due to UV risk.

The problem with OP is he wants fair-skin only with white women. It's a bit different and I do think this one is strongly influenced by entertainment media.

Well white women tend to naturally have the fairest skin. I suspect it is not just skin color, but eye and hair color too.

J Daniel · Feb 8, 2020

MehGuy said:
You like what you like, no need to be ashamed about it.

Some men like east Asian women, some men like black women.. who cares.. just date who you like.

Nope that is a problem for me - must love your own the most.

J Daniel · Feb 8, 2020

Going_Nowhere said:
These days, black men and white women hook up all the time. So what's the problem?

Yeah cos it is all fetish.

J Daniel · Feb 8, 2020

Kenny'sID said:
don't quite understand what you are saying.

Liking white women more than your own is a sickness.

J Daniel · Feb 8, 2020

Sketcher said:
The problem is idolizing any woman. She's a human, therefore she's a fallen creature. She's a fallen creature, therefore she's going to make you pay dearly for idolizing her, every time.

Better of idolising your own women!

J Daniel · Feb 8, 2020

S.O.J.I.A. said:
what is your ethnicity by way of your father?

Black British (Caribbean ancestry)

MehGuy · Feb 8, 2020

J Daniel said:
Nope that is a problem for me - must love your own the most.

Maybe we should look at people as individuals? Some white men prefer black women, why should they change just because they're white?

You're just talking tribalism at this point.

Kenny'sID · Feb 8, 2020

J Daniel said:
Liking white women more than your own is a sickness.

OK, I understand....I think

Since I don't see that as a sin at all, I have to ask, what do you mean by liking them more? Are there any actions involved?

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