My oldest son is getting to an age (soon 12) where school-sanctioned/mandated "education" about sex, relationships and the like will be coming. He's thankfully (to God!) grown up in a home where his parents are married, there's no abuse, no addictions, no affairs, and no cable TV -- both sets of grandparents are also still married. So, again thankfully, our kids' ideas of what constitutes "normal" is at least well-adjusted.
When I was 12 my parents gave me an anatomy textbook and told me to read it. So the physical act of reproduction was taught alongside the heart and lungs, from a purely clinical perspective -- which definitely dispelled much of the junk I heard other adolescents spreading around school.
Anyways I've been trying to look for a book that explains sex, in the context of marriage and healthy relationships, preferably from a Christian perspective -- but one that hopefully isn't cheesy. And unfortunately, many of the Christian-branded books of this nature are pretty hokey, even the photography on the covers is bad. And it's all from an Evangelical slant.
He's the sort who really internalizes things he's read, hence the book approach.
So, does anyone have any recommendations?
I'm certain that whatever he starts getting through school is going to be half-baked at best, destructive at worst, and I want him to know the truth so he can filter out the nonsense he'll be surrounded with.
When I was 12 my parents gave me an anatomy textbook and told me to read it. So the physical act of reproduction was taught alongside the heart and lungs, from a purely clinical perspective -- which definitely dispelled much of the junk I heard other adolescents spreading around school.
Anyways I've been trying to look for a book that explains sex, in the context of marriage and healthy relationships, preferably from a Christian perspective -- but one that hopefully isn't cheesy. And unfortunately, many of the Christian-branded books of this nature are pretty hokey, even the photography on the covers is bad. And it's all from an Evangelical slant.
He's the sort who really internalizes things he's read, hence the book approach.
So, does anyone have any recommendations?
I'm certain that whatever he starts getting through school is going to be half-baked at best, destructive at worst, and I want him to know the truth so he can filter out the nonsense he'll be surrounded with.