what do you do when a pagan says you ,"you are ugly"?

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«¿Y quién es aquel que os podrá hacer daño, si vosotros seguís el?» (1 Pedro 3:13)

There are people who do not know how to love. Care about them, in prayer, and grow to be their example so you can help them find out how to love.
 
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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you respond nothing
Or just agree. Then tell them you are happy, saved and loved. Remember that Lord Jesus was extremely ordinary to look at. God sees the heart, not outward appearance.
 
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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you respond nothing
Be sure that you are doing all you can do with your personality.
That would be one area where you can set a better example
for that person they will admire.
 
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"My wife thinks I'm good looking. So did a lot of girls back in my college days..."

If my temper got the better of me, at the end I might add "... and I'm pretty sure one of them was your sister, cha-cha-cha!"

As a defense, I offer the fact that I come from a long line of smart mouths.
 
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Or just agree. Then tell them you are happy, saved and loved. Remember that Lord Jesus was extremely ordinary to look at. God sees the heart, not outward appearance.
my theory is that jesus is the most handsome man alive eternaly
 
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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you respond nothing

I would smile warmly and thank them whole heartedly. I mean, if there is anyone you'd want to perceive you negatively, wouldn't it be someone who perceives God negatively? Like math; a negative + a negative = a positive!
It would be on my list of ultimate compliments.
 
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my theory is that jesus is the most handsome man alive eternaly
Sacred Scripture literally says the opposite.

For he shall grow up before him as a tender plant, and as a root out of a dry ground: he hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see him, there is no beauty that we should desire him.
-- Isaiah 53:2
 
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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you respond nothing
I would agree with them. Physically, I am quite ordinary, and my soul is darkened by sin...but slowly, through God’s grace, I am becoming better, and I pray that one day I will be pure and spotless and beautiful before Him.
 
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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I am fearfully and wonderfully made
Psalm 139:14
14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
 
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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you respond nothing

You could say: "I'm sorry that you are having a bad day."

Then walk away.
 
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My response would depend on whether they’re addressing my appearance or behavior.

Appearance: Excuse me? Unless the person is belligerent this ends the discussion.

Behavior: I’d ask them to explain why they feel that way. Oftentimes people just want to be heard.

If it’s a random person on the street hurling insults I keep walking.

~Bella
 
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my theory is that jesus is the most handsome man alive eternally
It was his personality that made his appearance irrelevant to every person who ever wrote about Him.
 
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my theory is that jesus is the most handsome man alive eternaly
Nice theory, and we will find out one day. When the Lord Jesus was risen, He walked for a couple of hours with two disciples. They did not recognise Him. In His time on earth Lord Jesus did not stand out from the crowd. A friend of mine saw the risen Lord Jesus. He was amazed at how normal He looked.
 
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My wife thinks I'm good looking...
You look a lot like David Hasselhoff... :wave:

(There is even a guy on these forums who looks like Taylor Swift...!?
full
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you respond: i am beautiful because i have god jesus holy spirit into me
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you respond nothing

Confirm or deny I guess , most people look ugly so what . Just because you look better than others does not mean you aren't ugly you are simply looking better than others.

If you get bothered by it then you really don't have much to do atm , some persecuted Christians on earth are digging their graves while having somebody poiting gun at them I don't think they care that they are covered in dirt and ugly you know.
 
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