I spoke to the pastor regarding Calvinism and Arminianism. He said everyone has to take a side on this issue, nobody can sit on the fence.
Did your pastor tell you that there are more than 2 sides? I have found biblical errors on both sides of that fence.
He also said that, those who reject salvation by predestination are rejecting God's Word so they are not saved.
Salvation isn't determined on whether one believes in "salvation by predestination" and that's not the gospel. Does your pastor understand the issue of predestination?
Rom 8:29 - For those God foreknew he also
predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.
Predestination isn't even about salvation. It's about God predestining believers "to be conformed to the image of His Son".
Have you heard the phrase "be Christ-like"? Does your pastor know what that means? It means for the believer to become like Christ in their walk. That can only happen when the believer is in fellowship with the Lord (1 Jn 1:9), and filled with the Spirit (Eph 5:18). When filled with the Spirit, the believer will evidence the fruit of the Spirit (Gal 5:22-23). Jesus, in His humanity, was filled with the Spirit. Everyting He did was by the power of the Spirit.
So, predestination is about believers growing up spiritually, being filled with the Spirit, and evidencing the fruit of the Spirit.
He said that there are many scriptures, throughout the whole Bible which teach that God chooses to save some and leave others in their sin.
This is true. However, don't fall for the claim that "chooses to save some" means He chooses who will believe. That's false.
1 Cor 1:21 tells us exactly WHO God chooses to save: believers.
For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not know him,
God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached
to save those who believe.
There is no Scripture that teaches that God chooses who will believe, nor is there any Scripture that says that regeneration is necessary so the "chosen ones" will believe.
He said, to deny this truth is to deny God's sovereignty over all creation.
As long as he is clear about the fact that God does not choose who will believe, and that regeneration does NOT precede salvation, he is correct.
The Bible teaches that God predestined the whole of human history from the beginning to the end.
No it doesn't. But can you ask him for any such verse or verses that actually teach this?
God choose those He would save before He created the world, so it leaves no room for mans choice in salvation.
God DID "choose those He would save before He created the world", a reference to Eph 1:4, so let's examine what it says.
For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.
The first thing we MUST understand is just who the "us" refers to. Well, Paul specifically defined the "us" later on in chapter 1.
1:19 - and his incomparably great power for
us who believe. That power is the same as the mighty strength
There it is; us who believe. Now, back to v.4-
"For He (God) chose us (believers) in Him (who ARE in Him, as all believers are in union with Christ-v.13,14) before the creation of the world (His plans obviously were in play way before He created the universe)
to be holy and blameless in His sight."
The red words indicate the PURPOSE of God's choice, or election of believers here.
iow, believers are chosen "to be holy and blameless" in His sight. A reference to spiritual growth and Christ-likeness.
I know Calvinists take "to be holy and blameless" to be a refererence for salvation, but not so.
Eph 5-
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
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to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,
27 and
to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish,
but holy and blameless.
The red words again speak to spiritual growth (to make her {the church} holy). The fact that Paul was referring to the "church" means he was writing about saved people. Not how people get saved.
I can list around 50 Bible verses, which support Calvinism so anything that seems to contradict these scriptures has obviously been taken out of context.
No they don't. And I'll prove it here.
Please choose the very best verse that man is unable to believe apart from regeneration, which is basically the T in TULIP. Total depravity. I know that man cannot save himself, which is the true biblical doctrine of total depravity. But the Bible says that man "believes from the heart" in Rom 10. There are no verses that God is the cause of man's belief.
Please choose the very best verse that election is to salvation, the U in TULIP. I can provide way more than 50 verses that election is to service. And there are NO verses that say or indicate that election is to salvation.
Please choose the very best verse that Christ died only for the so-called elect, which is the L in TULIP, limited atonement. There are a handful of verses that specifically state that Christ died for all, or everyone.
Please choose the very best verse that teaches that grace is irresistible, which is the I in TULIP. Don't forget that Acts 7:51 says that men 'resist the Holy Spirit'.
Please choose the very best verse that teaches that all believers will persevere in the faith, which seems to be the P in TULIP. It used to mean "preservation" which is the same as eternal security, but these days, it seems the shift is toward perseverance.
1 Tim 4:1 tells us directly that some will "abandon the faith" in later times. The Greek word is where we get the word apostasy.
I've discussed apostasy with some Calvinists and they believe that anyone who apostatizes wasn't really saved in the first place. That is just dodging the reality of the verse.
And don't forget what Jesus taught in the parable of the soils.
Luke 8:13 - Those on the rocky ground are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in the time of testing they fall away.
He was very clear that some who believe will cease to believe when "times of testing/temptation" comes.