Have they ever tried to look at the ‘evidence’ from an unbiased perspective?
So, right now I can be still and quiet and trust God to do whatsoever He pleases with me.
"unbiased", you say? Then I need to not be biased by what you dictate to be evidence and reasonable!
Jesus says I need to deny myself . . . and take up my cross daily and follow Jesus.
"'Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'" (in Matthew 11:28-30)
What if there really is God, and He is not interested in us learning how to argue for the Bible? If we try to do what is not God's commitment, we will get into trouble. God's word says to submit to Him. To me, this means to personally submit to howsoever at any moment God pleases to change me and guide me . . . and all of us, of course > I must not try to be with God, all by myself!!! It is not only about me. If we personally submit to God, really, in us, we are personally sharing with God in His own love with His own guiding creative and all-loving, so we do exactly what He has us do to love each and every . . . any . . . person. And this love of our Father has us sharing as family with one another children of God while also we reach to any and all people . . . in prayer and personal sharing or our example, included. There is example that communicates better and deeper than words.
So, word fighting with you is not going to work.
Your father told you he is your father, possibly. What if you spent time trying to get evidence that he is your father . . . and this got your attention away from him? What if you have a child and he or she decides you have to prove you are your child's father? Can you prove the people doing the genetic testing are honest and not only in it for the money? The only way you can get your child to believe you is if you give your child what your child dictates to be evidence and then the child accepts it. But have fun proving it really is reliable evidence!!
God knows what is true. But we humans have our tendency to accept what our character and our motives make us able to accept. Only God is able to change our character so we can live in His love and see the way love has us seeing.
One thing that helps me a lot is now I understand a main point of early scripture is to show how nothing can work, without Jesus. God proved Himself in various ways, to people, during the Old Testament time. God perfectly blessed and perfectly punished, but none of that worked in people who did not have Jesus. Adam and Eve are perfectly created; yet, they failed because they were not like Jesus.
So, God could perfectly prove Himself to you, but your own character could invent ways to get out of it.
Jesus proved Himself to evil people, and they crucified Him. And His own disciples ran out on Him.
And the New Testament includes how things work, how we become and love . . . because of Jesus living in us. This is the best way for God to prove Himself . . . in us . . . by changing our character so we can share with Him and stay submissive all the time with Him in His own peace > this is a basic, by the way, of our Christian calling >
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
But we can not do this as long as we are dictating what we have to have for ourselves. People want to use other people; so their loving is selfish. Others have failed to use God and people for what they want; so they isolate themselves and depend on their own selves.
But our God is our Father > about family. First, we need to trust Him, trust in Jesus and fully depend on God. But God has us able to help each other; and so with God we find how He has us helping each other, trusting each other, and even depending on one another . . . to help us get real character correction, by means of God's grace which favors Jesus in us and favors that we love any and all people in sharing with God who is all-loving and personally sharing in family love.
If we are not personally caring in sharing with God and one another, we are elsewhere, and without Jesus we can do nothing > John 15:5 < and so we can be evidence of how things work without Jesus.