It's always ironic that the losers of salvation preach "love your brother" or "forgive your brother" for your salvation and to maintain salvation.
What is the epitome of not loving your brother and not forgiving your brother?...loss of salvation.
This is walking in the light and it seems you don't know how.
Do not grieve the Spirit.
Do not quench the Spirit.
If we do.....name and site it to God.
In doing this we fulfill ALL that God desires from us.
"In this the children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whosoever doeth not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loveth not his brother." (1 John 3:10).
"Whoever hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him." (1 John 3:15) (NKJV).
25 "And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted him, saying, Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?
26 He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou?
27 And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.
28 And he said unto him, Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live.
28 But he, willing to justify himself, said unto Jesus, And who is my neighbour?" (Luke 10:25-29).
Jesus then gives us the parable of the good Samaritan to show us who are neighbor that we are to love is. Jesus did not correct the lawyer and said that he was wrong in that we should love God, and love our neighbor as a part of inheriting eternal life. Jesus said, "Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live." (Luke 10:28).