Probably not; that's why I asked.
We are all, prior to coming to faith in Christ, enemies of God. No man is more or less sinful than the next, and all man are enemies of God.
We ALL deserve, quite justly, damnation.. every single human being.
Agree.
God chooses some, of His own accord and not our righteousness or deserving behavior - to show His great love, and mercy toward mankind.
Disagree.
That would be showing selective love and mercy to those he created - based on nothing but a whim.
That would be doing what Jesus told us not to do; loving only those who would love him back, Matthew 5:44-48. Instead, Jesus tells us to love our enemies and be perfect as God is perfect.
Saving all could not prove mercy and grace,
Of course it could.
God chose to have mercy on mankind. We sinned against a Holy God and deserve death; he sent his Son to give us life. God could have destroyed ALL in the flood; he could have killed Adam and Eve and created two more people who would/could not disobey him. He did not destroy Adam and Eve. He drove them out of the Garden, yes, but he clothed them because they were ashamed of their nakedness and they lived for many years.
Grace is giving to us what we don't deserve. As you said, we all deserve death; God gives life. We deserve punishment, God saves us, reconciles us to himself and gives forgiveness, hope and peace.
but plucking some out of the fire and appointing us as children... now that's mercy we can see, mercy we can experience in every sense of the word.
That's select mercy - even favouritism.
God has made it possible for ALL to be forgiven and plucked from the fire. He didn't tell his Son to die for just a few; Jesus died for everyone.
because we know - we know who we are, we know there's no way we deserve this, there's no way we should have escaped our just punishment..
No, but that applies to all mankind. God created humans in his image, Genesis 1:26-27, all have sinned and fallen short of God's glory, Romans 3:23, and Christ died for sinners, Romans 5:8.
He was just merciful, and loving.. to me. to you.
And has been to ALL of his creation.
That's why we are told to preach the Good News to the ends of the earth - there are people who haven't heard, and don't know, of his love, mercy and salvation.
Jesus never told his disciples, "I want you to go and preach the Good News. God has decided not to save everyone, so I will show you which people will be sent to hell so that you don't waste time preaching to those who haven't been chosen."
Jesus never told the rich young man, "I'm not going to tell you how to get eternal life because you haven't been chosen, and you are going to walk away from me."
If it was a "doesn't matter what you do you'll go to heaven regardless" type scenario, we couldn't experience the fullness of this gift..
I never said it was.
Going to heaven/receiving eternal life is possible because of what HE has done, not on anything we could do.
If my daughter isn't in heaven when I go to my final rest, I cannot say God is unjust.
God has provided salvation for all. If your daughter is not in heaven it will be because she KNEW the Gospel and how much God loved her but chose to reject it - deliberately and consistently.
But for me? I can say God is merciful in all His ways, Just in everything He does...
Yes, he is.
And in his great love he has extended that mercy to ALL. Whether or not everyone receives his gift, Romans 6:23, is another matter.
I didn't deserve salvation,
Neither does anyone.
ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Romans 3:23. ALL deserve death, Romans 6:23a - yet Christ died for sinners, Romans 5:8.
And right here, right now, I know and experience the full measure of what has occured - God loved me, for God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that I may have life everlasting.
Yes - he died so that ALL may have everlasting life.
Not everyone WILL; I'm not a universalist. Jesus made it clear that some would reject him and be punished. But ALL have that opportunity.
How would that otherwise be just; God punishing people for rejecting the Gospel and his Son when he knew that he had not chosen them to believe and receive salvation? The people in hell would therefore be there because God, who is love and loves his enemies, had chosen them to be there.
I don't believe that.