What should be done?

Hi Oceanmoon,

I'm not sure I understood your post correctly, but I think you are asking what should you do now you are starting to believe?

If so, my advice is to read the Bible in chronological order so that you can understand the whole message of the Bible from start to finish. This will help you understand Yahweh, His Word and the purpose of Messiah in much more depth - and is a joy to study. Check out this page for a good reading plan to skip the parts unnecessary for a first read through.

Besides that, pray to Yahweh each day for Wisdom, in the name of the Messiah and He will guise you in all things.

Oceanmoon said:

What can a person who live under very loving care of family, what should be done, ideally?

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I'm not sure I understand what ypu meant by this. However, if it helps, we are advised to stay in the position we were in when we were called. Don't make any rash decisions but take your time to learn His Word. And, when the time comes to take action or change, you will know. It won't be a fuzzy of soft feeling but a clear distinct direction to take. When that time comes, and you will know, then follow.

Until then, read the Word, consume it and rest in it. The Word is alive! Don't be fooled by the seemingly unchanging letters on the surface. The Word is alive, dynamic and full of wisdom. The more you read and reread it, the more it reveals to you.

May Yahweh bless you with wisdom and welcome to the family!

Love & Shalom

Hi Oceanmoon ~
I'm so glad for you that you're discovering more about Christianity (and that you're experiencing the joy from the Holy Spirit through what you're learning). Maybe the main thing to hold onto is "in all things love". That's the way to approach all the questions about "what should I do?", really.

I was hesitant to respond to you, because I know very little about what you're going through, but I wanted to encourage you to keep seeking.....keep learning....and maybe finding common ground with your family members. I only know a bit about Islam, but I do know that the Prophet Mohammed had formed a society in Medina where there was freedom of faith - and Jews and Muslims lived together as family peacefully. Each of us have our own journey - I believe - and I also believe that respecting our loved one's own journey is a big part of loving them well.

Oceanmoon said:

hi,
I don't know what should I do. I have come tthis far into the understanding of Christianity, furthermore I did not expect to be understanding of it this much, or in this way, I think it is only been a few days since only curiosity. It's all very new to me.. I am not sure how to take all of this.. What can a person who live under very loving care of family, what should be done, ideally? It seems I want to believe, but what kind of consequences will there be, i cant think so far.

edit: I hope i placed this in the right section, it's not necesserily a struggle, in fact it's just a lot of joy that can't be fathomed into reality.. ? I run out of words.

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Hello, O'.
Welcome to the site.
You self identify as Muslim, so I guess your parents and family are also Muslim.
Are they OK with your researching of Christianity?
Do you know any Christians to learn more from?
Are you allowed to have a bible at home?
As you do have access to a computer, it would seem as though you are not being hindered in your research, so that is a good sign.

This is Christianity "in a nut shell"...Love God above all else and love your neighbor as you love yourself.
This includes not hiding that love of God from those in your family...which may be difficult for you.
I pray in Jesus' name that you will continue to grow in grace and knowledge, and be safe in your ventures.

Hi @Oceanmoon. It's great that you are interested in learning about the Lord, and have felt joy at what you've learned. I would say to keep reading the Bible. The Gospels will teach you about Jesus, the person - what He did and said, what He values. The Epistles (letters) will tell you more about salvation and the Christian life. The Old Testament, through history, wisdom, and prophecy, deepens our understanding of all that, and of God. It also contains some of the greatest poems (actually they were songs) of God ever written - the Psalms. Read prayerfully, with a heart open to the truth, wherever it might lie.

The obvious goal, from my perspective, is for everyone to accept Jesus as Lord and Savior - to become "Born Again", as John 3 says. But take your time. Continue to ask questions. That helps all of us.

As to your personal situation, I don't know what exactly you are up against. I know that many in Muslim cultures suffer when they accept Christ, and some are in danger. This is why Jesus tells us to count the cost. It's not always going to be easy. In difficult situations it is necessary to employ wisdom, so ask for wisdom (see the book of James, chapters 1 and 3) to know how best to deal with family and those in your culture. It's probably wise not to seek confrontation. I would do some reading from others who have gone through it. I Dared to Call Him Father is a really great book. I'm told Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus is also. One free source of online books by Muslim converts is The Good Way. There also are a lot of youtube videos about Muslims who found Christ.

Take it at your own pace - or more accurately, at the pace the Holy Spirit leads you. And we're always here to help.

Oceanmoon said:

hi,
I don't know what should I do. I have come tthis far into the understanding of Christianity, furthermore I did not expect to be understanding of it this much, or in this way, I think it is only been a few days since only curiosity. It's all very new to me.. I am not sure how to take all of this.. What can a person who live under very loving care of family, what should be done, ideally? It seems I want to believe, but what kind of consequences will there be, i cant think so far.

edit: I hope i placed this in the right section, it's not necesserily a struggle, in fact it's just a lot of joy that can't be fathomed into reality.. ? I run out of words.

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I grew up in another religion (Mormonism) it was all I new. When I became a believer, and told my family I left the religion, it hurt my family, but there was no going back. At some point your new faith will become known, it's how it works, but I would advise you to be careful, and go slowly...not everyone will be happy for you, but as I said "there is no going back.

I don't know what Christian materials you have, so let me suggest one resource. If you have others that you like, please feel free to ignore my suggestion and use the ones you have.

Bible.is has many translations, in both audio and text form. Let me suggest that if you study the same passage in English and your native language, you may get a deeper understanding from it as well as improving your English skills.

They also have the "Jesus" film available in several formats -- children's version, women's version, and the original.

I would suggest spending your time initially reading the gospels. If you haven't read it yet, Mark is fairly short and straightforward. You can let us know what you are studying and ask us any questions you have. If you're having trouble finding anything you need, please feel free to ask. Someone here probably is aware of what is available in your language.

May God bless you and help you to understand His word. We all depend on the power of the Holy Spirit to make our reading come to life and change our hearts.

Hi Oceanmoon, welcome and glad we are on the same journey. Do you understand why Christ had to die to save us? I would begin with the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. Then the other passage I would read until it is part of my heart and mind is Romans 8 this speaks to us of the love of God for us and how nothing except unbelief can separate us from Him.

The four Gospels some will try and convince are one of the things that shows Scripture is not to be trusted. This is wrong and only shows their lack of knowledge. The four Gospels show the Lord from four different angles. Matthew shows the Lord as King. Parables written in Matthew have a king as the main character. While Mark shows the Lord as the suffering Servant. Never gets a moments rest always being called upon. Luke is the Book that shows the Lord was Man the parables speak of a certain man going or doing. The Book of John shows the Lord as fully God.Hope this helps and that your journey will be a fruitful one and the love our God has for us is manifested to you everyday all day.

Any books by Phil Yancy would ease your way into understanding Christianity.

According to Wikipedia there are some dangers.

Danger, however, should not prevent you from committing yourself to Christ. This may affect your family life, and it may not. Prayerfully consider how to go about this transition because it will not be hidden. You will want to join a Christian church there where the love of Christ can be seen and felt. In fact I think it might be best to visit one of these churches in private and talk to them about how to safely convert to Christianity, what the rules are of your nation, and how to speak to your family about your belief.

Oceanmoon said:

hi,
I don't know what should I do. I have come tthis far into the understanding of Christianity, furthermore I did not expect to be understanding of it this much, or in this way, I think it is only been a few days since only curiosity. It's all very new to me.. I am not sure how to take all of this.. What can a person who live under very loving care of family, what should be done, ideally? It seems I want to believe, but what kind of consequences will there be, i cant think so far.

edit: I hope i placed this in the right section, it's not necesserily a struggle, in fact it's just a lot of joy that can't be fathomed into reality.. ? I run out of words.

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To be blunt...as a new Christian I would seek out a strong fellowship and a pastor while steering clear of Forums. You will get all types of advice on a forum that will only lead to confusion. Remember to check out what others say through Scripture. (Acts 17:11)

Oceanmoon said:

Why of all Muslims in the world why me?

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You're not alone in this. Muslims are coming to Christ in record numbers, even in such brutally repressive nations such as Iran. Modern communications are a large part of it, but the Lord has given many dreams and visions to Muslims as well, confirming the direction they're going in, or more basically, indicating that they have to start seeking outside of their normal worldview.

I mentioned testimonies on youtube, but I forgot to post my favorite one. Perhaps you would enjoy it.

Oceanmoon said:

hi, I have not thought this through at all.. Why of all Muslims in the world why me? I find it odd since I am from a conservative,, loving family too. Researching into Christianity is not okay, I have been raised well-disciplined and loving care within the religion so I still don't understand, why am holding on to this belief.

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You are holding on to it because "it" is true.
What is "it"?
That man can love God above all else and their neighbors as themselves.
That kind of love isn't easy to ignore.
In real Christianity there is no hate or covetousness.
There is no theft or adultery.
There is no murder or abuses of others.
There is no respect of persons...all folks are to be treated equally.

I said "real" Christianity because there are a lot of false churches who don't live as Jesus lived, so be careful of who you may join up with while seeking to grow in grace and knowledge.

BTW, you aren't the first Muslim to turn to Christ, and you won't be the last.

Oceanmoon said:

I think you misunderstand, I have no problem to hold onto that which is true and full of Love.

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It is wise, when seeking truth, to confirm it by study and prayer before acting upon it. It is a delicate matter to commit to a substantial change of belief. Please be cautious in deciding when and how to share your new thoughts. We are ready to study and learn with you, whatever faith symbol is in your profile.

Matt 7:7 “Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you.
Matt 7:8 For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened. (WEB)

Oceanmoon said:

hi, I have not thought this through at all.. Why of all Muslims in the world why me? I find it odd since I am from a conservative,, loving family too. Researching into Christianity is not okay, I have been raised well-disciplined and loving care within the religion so I still don't understand, why am holding on to this belief.

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I don't see anything strange about being introduced to new information about our world. That's what you are doing; and it's admirable, regardless of whether you accept or reject what you have discovered.

Personally, and although I agree with much of what the other people here have written in reply to you, I would resolve to take all of this, all of the conflicted feelings and thoughts...slowly. Do not commit one way or the other in haste. Resist the pressure you feel inside to reach a conclusion right now.

There is a thought among Christians who have dealt with the matter of conversions. It applies whether we are speaking of formerly non-religious people or people who belonged to other religions. It is that God often works on us slowly. He virtually nags us, off and on. He persists and we gradually "see the light." My advice is not to worry yourself unnecessarily about this matter, but keep praying on it and continue your study. In time, your path forward will be made clear.

Oceanmoon said:

I think you misunderstand, I have no problem to hold onto that which is true and full of Love. I know I'm not the first to turn to Christ, or the last to either. I have to consider the reality and consequences of course, as I do not have it in my heart to keep grudges or be a difficult person to anybody at all. I will have to come to terms with this, even still I do not know whether I'm considered a Muslim or Christian, at this point? It really matters to me..

my dear family will be in heartbreak, there will be a lot of emotions or drastic measures, I feel sorry for everyone and eveything.

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All I can do from here is pray for you, but God's ears are open to my prayers.
Are you ready to get kicked out of your home?
Do you have a job, and will being a Christian threaten that?
Do you know anyone who you can talk to about Christ?

Oceanmoon said:

my dear family will be in heartbreak, there will be a lot of emotions or drastic measures, I feel sorry for everyone and eveything.

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I can only advise you not to rush things. If you can, try your best not to shock your family. Try to be as considerate of their feelings as possible. But be resolute. Your desires are important, too. You cannot let your family decide everything for you.