1. From what I understand, sanctification is a life-long journey, but do different people progress at different rates?
2. Whose "effort?" Ours, God's, or God's + ours?
3. How/when/where does the Holy Spirit come into play?
4. Is there a difference between a bad habit and a sin?
Thanks in advance!
I am going to tell you a few things I wish someone would've told me when I became a Christian, because I started with a fire in me that people wrapped in religion put down until I was able to go back. They lost the fire and they thought that was being Holy, but if you understand His love rivers will flow from you towards others because you are drinking from the same Spirit.
1. Adam and Eve sinned but the consequences of the fall was separation from God, not anger from Him. We lost God's nature (Love) and we received the devils nature (the opposite of the gifts of the Spirit). When you understand you need your Fathers nature back in you, you learn why you need Jesus, He is the demonstration of His love. When you accept your need for Jesus and declare Him Lord and Ruler of your life, you become saved.
2. God is looking for relationship, not for you to just do something because he ordered. Your sanctification will come from that relationship. Sanctification is you learning the heart the Father, learning your identity in Him and then manifesting it. He says in His word that He will be our God and we will be His people. When you learn who He is, you will understand your identity in Him. Learned the reason behind his commandments. Not just follow them. God is about honor, respect and integrity. Once you become a son/daughter there is no condemnation. Be as honest as you can be with Him. Come as you are. When I struggle with something I invite Him to take a look at what is happening for Him to give me His perspective. I used to pray what I thought He wanted me to, but then He taught me to learn His heart for people so I can pray from a right heart. He appreciates honesty.
3. Since we are born our souls are looking for our Creator, it is an innate sense we have. When you sin, look at the sin and examine why you are drawn to it. In some cases it could be something in the family (generational iniquities) that you need to break, but in many cases its your soul trying to get something from God but doesn't know how to process it. We are supposed to get what we need from God from our parents until we have a relationship with God ourselves, but unfortunately the families nowadays are broken. It takes one generation to start the process, to bless the next one.
4. Once you become a son/daughter all of the promises to the Israelites are yours now. Don't pay attention to how God treated the Israelites, they were in a different covenant, we are treated differently. Do read the Old Testament to understand why Jesus needed to come and die for us, but God's anger was placed on the cross. He wants His creation back. He wants you to know Him and He wants to know you. The thing is that you must believe God's promises, but the devil uses even science to make you stop believing in God's reality, which is yours as well. Even if you are not experiencing them, declare them and make them yours. I never ask God for them, I thank Him for them because they are mine. I believe I have them. We must live by faith.
5. The Bible says we will do bigger things than Jesus. Believe it. If you see someone sick, be bold and declare His truth over them. We are to be a reflection of Jesus. Theres a difference between fear and respect, lear to respect Him, but don't live in fear of Him.
6. Study and camp on the Cross. If you understand what Jesus accomplished on the Cross, you will receive the revelation of His love for you. God didn't start loving you when you accepted Christ, He loved you since He had you in His mind, before He made creation. Jesus made all things new.
7. God is a super personal God. If you pay attention, you will discern all the ways He speaks and you will be able to sense Him, hear Him and rest that what He says is real.
8. God doesn't temp nor lie. When He tests its to check how real you are. Don't accept everything as coming from God. He is a good Father. You will know Him by studying Jesus because He was the reflection of God's will.
Hope this helps!