I’m not saved

Lifelong_sinner said:

I'm Not Saved

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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Do you understand that inappropriate contentography is not sex?

Where did you get the idea saved people lose their desire to sin?

What do you think is entailed in being saved?

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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The eye's are the gateway to the heart and mind. Satan continues to try and lead you astray ... even more so when you have accepted Jesus.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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Sin, evil desires still plague us all as long as we live on planet Earth, Mr. Lifelong_sinner. I, too, struggle with the darkness of lust, among other things, and it shames me as one who not only claims to believe in Jesus Christ, but also a knight at heart who wishes to follow His ways. But even St. Paul in the Epistles admitted he still must struggle with darkness, and cries out to God for release from the still-carnal part of his heart. It will never be perfect until the day we are resurrected and given eternal life that we seek in Christ at all, whenever that shall be. Keep praying and calling for God's forgiveness through Christ; I doubt you would care at all about your shortcomings and struggles with particular evils if you truly were at heart an unbeliever who shuns the free mercy and forgiveness that Christ's blood offers us. It sounds an awful lot to me like you do believe. Keep on. That is all I know to say right now.

I have prayed for you, sir, that in whatever way you need to change or be helped, that God will do so and never shun you or turn you away no matter what.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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Ray Comfort, Todd Friel and John MacArthur are great men mightily used by God, I'm very joyful you encountered the word through them!

When you become a Christian, you don't completely lose all desire for sin. You still have the corrupt flesh that wages war with your new desires in Christ, in the spirit. Part of being a Christian is this constant battle and struggle against fulfilling the desires of the flesh. The good news is that you now have the power to actually overcome them, you must lean upon God in it. In the process which we call "sanctification" you will gradually, by the Holy Spirit, become more holy and grow in your desires for righteousness, while you lose your taste for this world and the pleasures that come with it. It doesn't all happen overnight, and there may never be a time in your life where you will be entirely free of it. You must mortify it!

If you like these men, R.C. Sproul is an excellent help for someone new to the Christian faith who wants to better understand the theological and practical teachings of the Scriptures. He helped me tremendously when I was starting off.

Here is a clip about a topic such as this.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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John MacArthur teaches a performance based salvation.

If a person understands what they must do to receive eternal life. Then when they trust in the Messiah for His gift of His eternal life "they become as people like to say" saved.

Do you believe that Jesus is the promised Messiah from Old Testament prophecies. If you do the have you trusted in the Messiah for eternal life. If you have then you have eternal life that you will never loose.

“Most assuredly, I say to you, he who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life.

Now for your sin of the sexual kind that is a believers discipleship area concerning your eventual inheritance or rewards and your judgment at the judgment seat of Christ. Not to see if you are saved but judging your works actions for your gain or loss of rewards or inheritance given by God.

Go here for really fine teaching
Grace Evangelical Society | P.O. Box 1308, Denton, TX 76202

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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You've got to die to self and submit to God. Trying is vain unless and until you do that. We have to die to self in repentance, take up our cross, and follow Jesus in being obedient to the Word of God. Then and only then can we brought out of darkness, partake of Christ's redemption, and live in His strength to overcome our moral enemies the world, the flesh, and the devil. God is working on us and it is our responsibility to thus respond to His grace. Beware of Calvinists like the men you mentioned who put the onus on God to make this happen; the truth is God has worked, and is working, to make us His own and to deliver us from our sins. We must cooperate with the Lord and submit to Him in order to partake of His grace and actualize it in our lives. Don't think you can stay as you are and don't think God will change you and free you from your desire to sin. You must change your mind about sin and submit to Him and take up your cross daily from there in spite of your desire to sin! Otherwise you will be condemned as an unclean rebel against Christ's righteous government when He returns. The good news is that doesn't have to happen if you are only willing to take Christ's yoke here and suffer for the sake of obeying His Word. Considering the condemnation we deserve and the bondage you've entangled yourself in by your choices, that is a great deal!

Psalm 119:57-60: "57 Thou art my portion, O Lord: I have said that I would keep thy words.
58 I intreated thy favour with my whole heart: be merciful unto me according to thy word.
59 I thought on my ways, and turned my feet unto thy testimonies. 60 I made haste, and delayed not to keep thy commandments."

Titus 2:11-14: "11 For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, 12 Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world; 13 Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ; 14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works."

Hebrews 5:8-9: "8 Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered; 9 And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him"

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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I think this will help you. It has helped me. My story is much like yours except I have been struggling against sin while in the church for decades. The speaker talks very fast. You may be able to slow it down within your Youtube viewer, if necessary.

Some sins God is pleased to give immediate and virtually permanent victory over. Some people are blessed by a heredity of excellent command of willpower. This can, by the way, actually be dangerous because a new Christian can, in this case, be overcoming many bad habits and yet have experienced no real regeneration of heart. One wise writer said that sanctification (becoming practically holy) is the work of a lifetime.

This video is an outline of the process of sanctification and treasure trove of encouragement in perseverance. May it bless and comfort you as you continue to be an overcomer.

By the way, I'm beginning to suspect that I might be a life-long sufferer of borderline personality disorder. I saw/heard a short description of it recently and it seems to be a fertile ground for a rapid-cycle victory/failure experience, and since I refuse to give up on Jesus (and more importantly, He refuses to give up on me), I have found the instruction in the video I shared invaluable. I hope and pray you will, too.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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My only advice is to persist, to be forceful about your choices. The bible also tells us "Pray that you enter not into temptation, for the Spirit is willing and the flesh weak". That verse essentially tells us that as we spend dedicated time in God's presence he will strengthen us (by his Spirit), the power He gives us will overcome our weakness.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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I feel the same way. I committed so many sins in my life and I'm afraid I may had committed any unforgivable sins. I do and had repented to God but I still feel I'm not saved. My constant sin was lying. I done it ever since I was young. It was a really bad habit that I couldn't control. I asked for forgiveness but I feel I maybe too late. I'm trying to get help on my fear but I'm feeling so negative.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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The fact that you hate sin is a really good sign. Repenting does not mean an instant freedom from bondages. I wish. You will find that your experience is commonplace.

There are two aspect to salvation. The first question is, are you born again? If you are, then you are on the road to freedom, no matter how hard it seems. If you are not, then it's a simple matter to get born again. The Way - Christian Life Frankston That link is to a really helpful article that includes the "Four Spiritual Laws".

Most people pick up evil spirits throughout their lives. You almost certainly have a lust spirit. It's a terrible thing and You need to get delivered. If you do not know anyone who knows their authority in Christ, as the Lord to lead you to someone. It's a tragedy that deliverance ministry is so neglected these days.

Once you have been delivered, stay free. That means avoid anything that might draw you back. If you have any DVD's or magazines, destroy them.

How do you stay free? The great apostle Paul wrestled with sin, not the same but just as frustrating for him. The answer is in not trying. Rather, let the Lord Jesus be your victorious life in all things. Read Romans 7. That describes the problem. Romans 7 ends on a note of triumph! Then Romans 8 shows how to live in victory. Suppressing the natural desires of self is not the answer. Letting Lord Jesus, in the Person of His Holy Spirit, live in you, through you and in place of you is the answer. Will you sin again? Most likely? Does that mean your life is over? Definitely not. Confess your sin, get cleansed by the blood of the Lamb of God and get on with living. Being tempted is not sin. Don't let Satan rob you. It may be good for you to look for a wife. Sex is not evil in itself and marriage is God's usual remedy. The Holy Spirit is our self control if we have to wait.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Hello all, im new here and am trying to get saved. Very briefly, heres my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved. I am now 47 yrs old, never married, no kids, and have been addicted to inappropriate contentography and sex for the last 30 yrs.
In the last couple of years, thanks to youtube, i have discovered such fine folk as ray comfort, todd friel, and john macarthur to name a few. They have really preached about repentance, and i am convinced that i have deceived myself as to whether or not i am saved. In the last few months, i have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust, and failed everytime. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.
One of the things i hear about is when people get saved, their desire to sin was gone. My desire to sin gets worse the longer i try not to sin. I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but i dont know what i need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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It’s only by the Grace of God and Trusting in Christ that we can break the cycle of sin.

Have you spoke to your pastor?


Also highly recommended book which will help is “The Gospel Centered Life” by Thune.

Lifelong_sinner said:

Aussie pete, unfortunately, marriage is out of the question for me. And so the rest of my days in this life will be a constant struggle against lust. Interesting response though, thanks.

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OK. As a divorced man, I know the issue well. It's been 23 years now. I asked the Lord to lower my sex drive. Much to my surprise, it happened immediately! God can do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or even think.

I'm not saved...Hello all, I'm new here & am trying to get saved.

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Thanks for recognizing that you are not saved. You are trying to live a life of a saved person--WITHOUT being saved. You are doomed to fail all the time. You don't have the life & resurrection power of the Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ.

You can't save yourself. You can try to be saved all your life & it still won't save you. You have tried now for 30 years & get are getting the same results. It's call insanity.

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over again, but expecting different results.”

This is what Jesus said in John 8:31-36.

"To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you continue in My teaching, you are really My disciples. Then you will KNOW the truth & the truth will set you FREE.”

33They answered him, “We are Abraham’s descendants & have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say we will be set free?”

34Jesus replied, “Truly, truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a SLAVE TO SIN. Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.

Until you repent & turn from trying to be saved & turn to Christ to save you, crying out to Him & confessing Him as your Lord--asking him for forgiveness & the power to overcome sin--you will remain caught in the binding ropes & cords of sin. (Proverbs 5:22)

My desire to sin gets worse the longer I try not to sin.

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The Apostle Paul described this in his own life. It appears you have a sincere desire to be set free from the slavery of lust & inappropriate content addiction. Yet you don't have Jesus in your life. You have not died to yourself & taken up the cross & followed Jesus. You love inappropriate content more than you love God.

Romans 7:7-24 What shall we say then? Is the Law sin? May it never be! On the contrary, I would not have come to know sin except through the Law; for I would not have known about coveting if the Law had not said, “YOU SHALL NOT COVET.”

8But sin, taking opportunity thru the commandment, produced in me COVETING OF EVERY KIND; for apart from the Law sin is dead.

9I was once alive apart from the Law; but when the commandment came, sin became alive & I died & this commandment, which was to result in life, proved to result in death for me;

11for sin, taking an opportunity through the commandment, DECEIVED ME & through it killed me. So then, the Law is holy & the commandment is holy & righteous & good.

13Therefore did that which is good become a cause of death for me? May it never be! Rather it was sin, in order that it might be shown to be sin by effecting my death through that which is good, so that through the commandment sin would become UTTERLY SINFUL!

14For we know that the Law is spiritual, but I am of flesh, sold into BONDAGE TO SIN. 15For what I am doing, I do not understand; for I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate.

16But if I do the very thing I do not want to do, I agree with the Law, confessing that the Law is good. So now, no longer am I the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me. 18For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh; for the willing is present in me, but the doing of the good is not.

19For the good that I want, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want. 20But if I am doing the very thing I do not want, I am no longer the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me.

21I find then the principle that evil is present in me, the one who wants to do good. For I joyfully concur with the law of God in the inner man, but I see a different law in the members of my body, WAGING WAR against the law of my mind & making me a PRISONER of the law of sin which is in my members.

24WRETCHED MAN that I am! Who will set me FREE from the body of this DEATH? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord! So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey God’s law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.

Matthew 11:25-30 At that time Jesus said, “I praise You, Father, Lord of heaven & earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise & intelligent & have revealed them to children. Yes, Father, for this way was well-pleasing in Your sight."

27“All things have been handed over to Me by My Father & no one knows the Son except the Father; nor does anyone know the Father except the Son & anyone to whom the Son wills to reveal Him.

28“Come TO ME--all who are weary & heavily burdened & I will give you rest. Take My YOKE UPON YOU & LEARN FROM ME, for I am gentle & humble in heart & YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. For My yoke is easy & My burden is light.”

Very briefly, here's my history. I grew up going to church at a very young age. I was baptized at 16, and i had always been taught that as long as i believed in Jesus, the burial, the resurrection, and the Trinity, i was saved.

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I was the same. I believed intellectually THE FACTS OF THE GOSPEL but that doesn't save anyone. Jesus said this in John 5:38-40:

You do not have His word continuing (abiding, remaining) in you, for you do not believe Him whom He sent. You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life. Yet it is these that testify about Me & yet you refuse to come to Me so that you may have life.

They have really preached about repentance & I am convinced that I have deceived myself as to whether or not I am saved. In the last few months, I have desperately tried to break this habitual sin of lust & failed every time. I have done everything i can think of to break this....addiction.

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I agree with you; you have deceived yourself. You have done everything but the one thing that will bring you freedom: deny yourself, of going your own way in life, trying to save your life that you must lose in order to turn to Christ to save you & gain the life of Christ. The martyred missionary, Jim Elliott, said it so well:

"He is no fool who gives up what he cannot keep, in order to gain that which he cannot lose."

Luke 17:32/Mark 8:35 Remember Lot’s wife! For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake & for the gospel will save it.

I cant function some days without inappropriate content, even dreaming about it while i sleep. I want so much to be saved, but I don't know what I need to do at this point. Thanks for any advice.

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Proverbs 5:20-23 For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman & be embraced in the arms of a seductress? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord & He considers all his paths.

22His own iniquities entrap the wicked man & he is caught in the cords of his sin. He shall die for lack of instruction & in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.

915. Sinners Bound with the Cords of Sin

Lifelong_sinner said:

And so the rest of my days in this life will be a constant struggle against lust.

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I wouldn't be too sure of that.

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Some Pharisees wanted to test Jesus. They came up to him and asked, “Is it right for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?”

Jesus answered, “Don't you know in the beginning the Creator made a man and a woman? That's why a man leaves his father and mother and gets married. He becomes like one person with his wife. Then they are no longer two people, but one. And no one should separate a couple God has joined together.”

The Pharisees asked Jesus, “Why did Moses say a man could write out divorce papers and send his wife away?”

Jesus replied, “You are so heartless! That's why Moses allowed you to divorce your wife. But from the beginning God did not intend it to be that way. I say if your wife has not committed some terrible sexual sin,+ you must not divorce her to marry someone else. If you do, you are unfaithful.”

The disciples said, “If that's how it is between a man and a woman, it's better not to get married.”

Jesus told them, “Only those people who have been given the gift of staying single can accept this teaching:

Some people are unable to marry because of birth defects or because of what someone has done to their bodies. Others stay single in order to serve God better.

Anyone who can accept this teaching should do so.”
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(Matthew 19:3-12) (I chose the Contemporary English Version of the Bible to relate this because it best fits what you describe as the help you might need.)


The secret to overcoming temptation is the Word of God. Christ was tempted three times by the devil in the wilderness after His baptism. And although he was in a weaker condition, both physically and mentally than you or I probably have ever been, every single time He was tempted, He overcame by citing Scripture to his tempter. He didn't do this to show off. It wasn't recorded to impress us with some superhuman power that Jesus holds exclusively to Himself. It is the way to overcome temptation at our weakest point.

Listen to how God describes how His Word works:
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“Rain and snow fall from the sky.
But they don't return
without watering the earth
that produces seeds to plant
and grain to eat.
That's how it is with my words.
They don't return to me
without doing everything
I send them to do.”
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(Isaiah 55:10-11)



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Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. And when He had fasted forty days and forty nights, afterward He was hungry. Now when the tempter came to Him, he said, “If You are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.” (This is the temptation by the lust of the flesh.)

But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.’ ”

Then the devil took Him up into the holy city, set Him on the pinnacle of the temple, and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down. For it is written:

‘He shall give His angels charge over you,’ and, ‘In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot against a stone.’ ” (This is the temptation by the pride of life.)

Jesus said to him, “It is written again, ‘You shall not tempt the Lord your God.’ ”

Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.” (This is the temptation by the lust of the eyes.)

Then Jesus said to him, “Away with you, Satan! For it is written, ‘You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.’ ”

Then the devil left Him, and behold, angels came and ministered to Him.
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(Matthew 4:1-11)

This is why Jesus can say:

"...but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”

(John 16:33)

For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world.
(1 John 2:16)

When the enemy comes in like a flood, The Spirit of the LORD will lift up a standard against him.
(Isaiah 59:19)

The Bible is like the finely woven, seamless garment which Christ wore to Calvary, and it is full of unlimited power. God bids us use it to His glory and for our peace and happiness.

Mathetes66 said:

Thanks for recognizing that you are not saved.

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Thanks for being the all-seeing recognizer of the absence of salvation.