I have to ask... since you have indicated that in the course of years, you have moved to many states and still seem to find the wrong people circling you. …. Is there something about you that attracts these type of people? Do you have the big L on your forehead, sucker written across it, are you weak and give in easily, easily manipulated, a target for this kind of treatment, are you inviting this unwittingly?... Are you doing the same things expecting different results? I would prayerfully look at what it is that you say, do, or think that makes you the target for these nasty people to come and take advantage of you. It is time for you to say "no more" "nope" "not going to happen around me" "I have had enough" "I have better things to do" And build yourself a new world where these people are not welcome. It is time to stop being the nice guy and more like Yeshua who called these type of people "vipers" and didn't play into their hands.