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He does correct instruct rebuke and warn all those women as he uses men like myself to do so.

No, I don't buy that. He is more than capable of chastising them directly, AND removing them from their role so they cannot continue to "mislead" others. HE is building HIS church.

I’m sure most of he women who usurp this role over the church have had others speak to them about it and seek to warn and rebuke them.

And I'm sure that many have been confirmed, affirmed, prayed for and appreciated by male clergy - as well as God himself.
 
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No, I don't buy that. He is more than capable of chastising them directly, AND removing them from their role so they cannot continue to "mislead" others. HE is building HIS church.



And I'm sure that many have been confirmed, affirmed, prayed for and appreciated by male clergy - as well as God himself.
This type of reasoning is not sound that you bring here. I’m sure you would agree that there are many many of those who claim to be in ministry over the saints that are not even believers or are in the wrong place. Yet they continue to go on as if they were. I can think of entire groups like this and cults etc.

And even to those who are beloved saints who have struggled with such things I am sure that God has been trying to speak to them. And if they have not read many of the verses about such things in the New Testament yet hopefully they will.

But in my experience, some will do whatever they want regardless of what they read or who speaks to them, many may find a group that accepts them or a book that confirms them or a idea that eases their conscience even if it is against God’s clear word in scripture and his commands.

And I have met many rebellious people in my walk. Many
 
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Read my first post here I showed that women can speak in certain function in the gatherings. But what I show by scripture is that they cannot judge or rule over the man or teach over the man. They can teach younger women and children and prophesy, have a testimony of Jesus witness for Christ, have a spiritual song or prayer as they are led etc.
yes, they can teach other women and children.
 
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He does correct instruct rebuke and warn all those women as he uses men like myself to do so. I’m sure most of he women who usurp this role over the church have had others speak to them about it and seek to warn and rebuke them.

Here's the problem I have with this. You claim to speak for God and rebuke me, and others like me.

But I know God personally. I know what God has said to me. I know what God has done for me. I know how God has been active in and through my life.

Some random on the internet speaking against that, who has never even met me and does not have any authority over me, or even belong to my church, can't possibly outweigh God as I have known God, and God's love, and God's grace, and God's power.

Not for one second do I believe that you speak for God to me. Nor would I ever believe that the message you bring, wanting to see women subjugated and quenched, would ever come from God. Jesus came that we might have life to the full; and what you are proclaiming is life-denying.
 
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Pretty sure most women in positions of authority did not end up there by usurping or said another way, took it by force. Pretty sure they were given their spot because the men recognized that those women had been called to that position.

Which it would not be quenching the spirit. It would be allowing it to flow.
 
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This type of reasoning is not sound that you bring here.

It's a valid question which deserves an answer - unless you don't believe that the Lord cares for us today.

Does/can the Lord lead us in paths of righteousness for his name's sake, Psalms 23:3?
Did Jesus say that his sheep listen to his voice, John 10:27?
Did Jesus say that he would send his Holy Spirit to his followers to live in them, John 14:17?
Does the Spirit convict of sin, John 16:8?
Does the Spirit guide us into all truth, John 16:13?
Is it through the Spirit that we are born again, John 3:3, become God's children, John 1:12, Romans 8:16?
Is the Spirit working in us, Philippians 2:13, transforming us into Jesus' likeness, 2 Corinthians 3:18?
Does the Spirit intercede for us in accordance with God's will when we don't know how to pray, Romans 8:27?
Is it the Spirit who gives us gifts, Romans 12:6-8, 1 Corinthians 12:28, Ephesians 4:11 so that God's church may be built up, Ephesians 4:12?

So if a Christian woman who has been happily serving God as mother, teacher, social worker, nurse etc etc says one day that she believes God is calling her to be ordained - something that did not come "from her" because she had never considered, and didn't particularly want, it - prays about it, (in some cases I have known even begging God NOT to call her to that), and goes to her Minister/Vicar/Bishop for prayer, counsel and to have that calling tested; if a number of people pray about this over many weeks/months, asking for the Spirit's guidance/confirmation/redirection and the outcome is that she is ordained - why would God not have stopped this if, in fact, it it contrary to his will?

I’m sure you would agree that there are many many of those who claim to be in ministry over the saints that are not even believers or are in the wrong place. Yet they continue to go on as if they were. I can think of entire groups like this and cults etc.

I'm not talking about cults, about people who don't even really know Jesus or confess him as Lord; I'm talking about born again, Spirit filled, Christian women who are God's children.
Yes, ok you might get some who say they are called by God and in fact aren't - but that could be just as true of men. Many years ago, men seemed to become clergy in the church simply because their fathers were; with little evidence of calling, suitability, rigorous selection or the Spirit's guidance. I know of someone who went off to Bible college after university and later became ordained. The only church event he ever attended was choir practice; I wouldn't have said that he was even a Christian at that point.

And even to those who are beloved saints who have struggled with such things I am sure that God has been trying to speak to them.

Yes, they testify that he has been speaking, and calling them, to ordination.

And if they have not read many of the verses about such things in the New Testament yet hopefully they will.

Even if they had not read the select verses in the NT that you've presented before, do you really think that someone could spend 3 years at Bible college, studying, reading Scripture without being made aware of them? Or of opposition to their calling, or of their churches debate on the subject of women priests and the arguments for/against?
In a number of places it's still true that if a man says he believes the Lord is calling him to be ordained, there is little protest - but if a woman says the same thing, they are told they are deluded, feminists, have ideas above their station, are disobeying God's will or lying - and simply not allowed to test God's calling to them. In such places, the church says this is love. :(

But in my experience, some will do whatever they want regardless of what they read or who speaks to them,

Some might - but who says that isn't from God?
Gladys Aylward was turned down for missionary work to China because the board didn't believe she was physically strong enough for the task. She was so convinced of God's calling that she went anyway; took the Gospel to the Chinese and founded a church. Was it good that many got to hear the Gospel and the Lord converted many through her, or were their conversions somehow invalid because a woman was involved?

many may find a group that accepts them or a book that confirms them or a idea that eases their conscience even if it is against God’s clear word in scripture and his commands.

You have no idea of the minds and motives of people.

And I have met many rebellious people in my walk. Many

Me too.
I have also met many who are proud and insist that their reading of Scripture is the right one; that the words on the page mean what they say that they mean, that anyone who disobeys them is disobeying God, and that they are his prophets who have been sent to warn people - that's why we have so many cults. Moonies, JWs, Mormons etc are all founded on the "our leader has heard from/met God and been given these teachings; anyone who disagrees is opposing God", principle.
 
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This type of reasoning is not sound that you bring here. I’m sure you would agree that there are many many of those who claim to be in ministry over the saints that are not even believers or are in the wrong place. Yet they continue to go on as if they were. I can think of entire groups like this and cults etc.

And even to those who are beloved saints who have struggled with such things I am sure that God has been trying to speak to them. And if they have not read many of the verses about such things in the New Testament yet hopefully they will.

But in my experience, some will do whatever they want regardless of what they read or who speaks to them, many may find a group that accepts them or a book that confirms them or a idea that eases their conscience even if it is against God’s clear word in scripture and his commands.

And I have met many rebellious people in my walk. Many

Have you looked in a mirror lately?
 
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Not for one second do I believe that you speak for God to me. Nor would I ever believe that the message you bring, wanting to see women subjugated and quenched, would ever come from God.

Personally, I view this sort of life-destroying message as being extremely misleading at best, and coming directly from the mouth of Satan at worst.

Jesus came that we might have life to the full; and what you are proclaiming is life-denying.

Amen. Christianity is about freedom, not bondage.
 
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Here's the problem I have with this. You claim to speak for God and rebuke me, and others like me.

But I know God personally. I know what God has said to me. I know what God has done for me. I know how God has been active in and through my life.

Some random on the internet speaking against that, who has never even met me and does not have any authority over me, or even belong to my church, can't possibly outweigh God as I have known God, and God's love, and God's grace, and God's power.

Not for one second do I believe that you speak for God to me. Nor would I ever believe that the message you bring, wanting to see women subjugated and quenched, would ever come from God. Jesus came that we might have life to the full; and what you are proclaiming is life-denying.
Hello again,

Your argument is not sound here. Just because someone says “God told me this or that” does not make them right. And yes, both sides of this discussion may claim such. Scripture and the testimony of other believers in faith and as recorded in scripture has and will give evidence of what I have shown.

In this particular case I see your words not in line with the witness of the Spirit in me or with the witness of scripture or the body. I have laboured to show this to all who read on in here.

And you and I both know that any person in any group or even cults can say they hear God and know what they do is right. But in the end every person shall give an account and God will bring everything to light.

But for now I have shown many scriptures to correct your words and position and I believe I have done do graciously and in love and truth. It is sad when I have done this that some try to make what I say from scripture a quenching of of women. I have said many times women can speak in certain ways in the Spirit in the meetings and teach younger women and children. I have also shown that women can prophesy, testify of Jesus and the gospel, have s spiritual song or tongues. Have gifts in the Spirit and do many things among them saints. But for some that’s not enough, they want to be over men in position and authority. Well, a woman should not usurp authority over the man. The man is a type of Christ and the woman a type of the church. It is unfitting to have the church over Christ as it is to have women rule over their husbands or other men.
 
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Have you looked in a mirror lately?
If I have written or spoken anything untrue in any part of my discussion here show me where by the Spirit, the scriptures and sound words in Christ with sound reasoning.

Try to avoid a simply carnal or emotional response based on the traditions of men and the corrupt modern world and their rudiments.
 
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Hello again,

Your argument is not sound here. Just because someone says “God told me this or that” does not make them right. And yes, both sides of this discussion may claim such. Scripture and the testimony of other believers in faith and as recorded in scripture has and will give evidence of what I have shown.

In this particular case I see your words not in line with the witness of the Spirit in me or with the witness of scripture or the body. I have laboured to show this to all who read on in here.

And you and I both know that any person in any group or even cults can say they hear God and know what they do is right. But in the end every person shall give an account and God will bring everything to light.

But for now I have shown many scriptures to correct your words and position and I believe I have done do graciously and in love and truth. It is sad when I have done this that some try to make what I say from scripture a quenching of of women. I have said many times women can speak in certain ways in the Spirit in the meetings and teach younger women and children. I have also shown that women can prophesy, testify of Jesus snd the gospel, have s spiritual song or tongues. Have gifts in the Spirit and do many things among them saints. But for done that’s not enough they want to be over men in position and authority. Well, a woman should not usurp authority over the man. The man is a type of Christ and the woman a type of the church. It is unfitting to have the church over Christ as it is to have women rule over their husbands or other men.

Actually, you have done a far better job in addressing this issue than I could have ever done. Thank you. Please do not be discouraged because others disagree with you and reject the clear witness of scripture.
 
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If I have written or spoken anything untrue in any part of my discussion here show me where by the Spirit, the scriptures and sound words in Christ with sound reasoning.

Try to avoid a simply carnal or emotional response based on the traditions of men and the corrupt modern world and their rudiments.

You'll need to open your eyes and do so for yourself by the Spirit and only then might you gain wisdom. It doesn't appear you're quite there yet as you still continue to deny the problem.
 
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Please do not be discouraged because others disagree with you and reject the clear witness of scripture.

If it was the clear witness of Scripture, then no one would reject it.
Or are you seriously saying that some born again Christians, children of God who are serving their heavenly Father, are deliberately ignoring his word for their own benefit?
 
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If it was the clear witness of Scripture, then no one would reject it.
Or are you seriously saying that some born again Christians, children of God who are serving their heavenly Father, are deliberately ignoring his word for their own benefit?

Even amongst strong Christians I have noticed that the "the clear witness of scripture" is not clear at all.
 
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The clear witness of scripture is rejected here, daily.

Scripture is not rejected; it's not clear on this subject.

God does not go against his own word, and not only is he calling women to speak for him, preach his word and lead others today; he always has done so.
Huldah, the Samaritan woman, Mary Magdalen, Phoebe and others spoke for God, took, or gave, his word to others, brought them to Jesus and so on.
Deborah was judge over a whole nation, called by God, settled disputes among people and was a prophetess.

Do you think God would call, and allow, women to do so much to serve him, allow his Son to befriend, restore and elevate women, and then send word that it was not his will for women to speak in church?
 
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If it was the clear witness of Scripture, then no one would reject it.
Or are you seriously saying that some born again Christians, children of God who are serving their heavenly Father, are deliberately ignoring his word for their own benefit?
Consider

1 Corinthians 3:1. And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ.2. I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able.3. For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?”

some believers can be tossed about by every wind of doctrine and deceived and be led astray and cling to the traditions of men etc. As scripture shows in many places.

Ephesians 4:14. That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;”

2 Peter 3:16. As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction.17. Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know these things before, beware lest ye also, being led away with the error of the wicked, fall from your own stedfastness.”

etc etc etc etc
 
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Scripture is not rejected; it's not clear on this subject.

God does not go against his own word, and not only is he calling women to speak for him, preach his word and lead others today; he always has done so.
Huldah, the Samaritan woman, Mary Magdalen, Phoebe and others spoke for God, took, or gave, his word to others, brought them to Jesus and so on.
Deborah was judge over a whole nation, called by God, settled disputes among people and was a prophetess.

Do you think God would call, and allow, women to do so much to serve him, allow his Son to befriend, restore and elevate women, and then send word that it was not his will for women to speak in church?
Women can speak in the spirit and testify in Jesus and evangelize in that testimony. Just as a prophet or prophetess speaks not of themselves but has God speaking in them.
But to dominate or usurping or ruling over their husbands or other men is not allowed in scripture and to some it is clear. Others seem to try to find arguments to eat around the text in the bible. At least that’s how it appears to me.
 
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some believers can be tossed about by every wind of doctrine and deceived and be led astray and cling to the traditions of men etc. As scripture shows in many places.
Yes.
Few are there on earth who are not tossed about, deceived, led astray.....
 
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But to dominate or usurping or ruling over their husbands or other men is not allowed in scripture and to some it is clear.

Leading a church service and preaching the Gospel with the full knowledge and permission of male clergy and the men in the congregation, is not usurping or ruling over them.

Others seem to try to find arguments to eat around the text in the bible. At least that’s how it appears to me.

Sorry, but reading the text in context, understanding who the author was writing to and how his audience would have received, and understood, his words is not "eating around the text in the Bible". It's called exegesis, a proper and legitimate tool to understand Scripture. You're not the first person on here who's said that exegesis is a way for people who don't like a Scripture to explain it away. But it's not true and is, in fact, quite insulting.

It IS important to understand what is being said in Scripture, otherwise we will find there are contradictions. Some people on these forums have said that God obeyed women to be silent in church. Really? Why did Paul then allow women to prophesy and pray? Why did Jesus allow women to proclaim the Good News to men? If we understand 1 Timothy 2:12 to mean that women should be silent, how do you explain what was happening in practice?
Some have the same argument about women "usurping" authority over men, and believe that verse to prove that women can never be leaders. Really? Why did God appoint Deborah to be judge over all Israel then?
And, as I said, if male clergy freely give permission for women to preach/be ordained, how can the women who do so be "usurping authority" - grabbing it by force - from them?
 
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