Fear Of Being Alone

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As some of you know, I lost both my parents at a very young age and they were young as well. I have no other relatives except my sister and grandma. Lately now, I'm starting to feel very sad and worried thinking what will happen if my grandma dies. Or God forbid anything happens to my sister. All I do now is cry and cry. I can't stop thinking about my parents (mostly my mom). I always thought I would live with my mom for a very very long time. Dad didn't live with us since mom and him were divorced. However, I never thought he will leave either. And I miss him regardless. My biggest fear today is that I will end up alone if I lose both my grandma and sister. I pray for a miracle to happen and I would appreciate if everyone here can do the same.
 
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As some of you know, I lost both my parents at a very young age and they were young as well. I have no other relatives except my sister and grandma. Lately now, I'm starting to feel very sad and worried thinking what will happen if my grandma dies. Or God forbid anything happens to my sister. All I do now is cry and cry. I can't stop thinking about my parents (mostly my mom bc I was closer to her). I always thought I would live with my mom for a very very long time. Dad didn't live with us since mom and him were divorced. However, I never thought he will leave either. And I miss him regardless. My biggest fear today is that I will end up alone if I lose both my grandma and sister. I pray for a miracle to happen and I would appreciate if everyone here can do the same.
 
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You need to pray! Listen or read the bible dont forgett about the promise of god Jesus Christ our saviour Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold on to you with my righteous right hand
 
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You need to pray! Listen or read the bible dont forgett about the promise of god Jesus Christ our saviour Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold on to you with my righteous right hand

I do pray but I'm still worried. It not easy with me =(
 
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As some of you know, I lost both my parents at a very young age and they were young as well. I have no other relatives except my sister and grandma. Lately now, I'm starting to feel very sad and worried thinking what will happen if my grandma dies. Or God forbid anything happens to my sister. All I do now is cry and cry. I can't stop thinking about my parents (mostly my mom bc I was closer to her). I always thought I would live with my mom for a very very long time. Dad didn't live with us since mom and him were divorced. However, I never thought he will leave either. And I miss him regardless. My biggest fear today is that I will end up alone if I lose both my grandma and sister. I pray for a miracle to happen and I would appreciate if everyone here can do the same.
If you are in Christ, you are not alone...ever.
 
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I'm a widow. I never wanted to live alone, but I thank God several times a day for helping me survive. Especially in winter I feel like a hermit. The neighbors are all indoors.
 
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I should had explained myself more clearer sorry. I know spiritually I'm not alone as I know Christ is with me. I meant physically I don't want to be alone. It's hard for me to accept the fact that both my parents are gone. Even if it's been over a decade
 
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As some of you know, I lost both my parents at a very young age and they were young as well. I have no other relatives except my sister and grandma. Lately now, I'm starting to feel very sad and worried thinking what will happen if my grandma dies. Or God forbid anything happens to my sister. All I do now is cry and cry. I can't stop thinking about my parents (mostly my mom bc I was closer to her). I always thought I would live with my mom for a very very long time. Dad didn't live with us since mom and him were divorced. However, I never thought he will leave either. And I miss him regardless. My biggest fear today is that I will end up alone if I lose both my grandma and sister. I pray for a miracle to happen and I would appreciate if everyone here can do the same.
God will find a way for us. Esp when we can not figure it out, He can find a solution for us. He has the answer for every question and the solution for every problem we will ever have. I was single for 17 years and then I got married and pretty much just got adopted into her family.
 
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I'm a widow. I never wanted to live alone, but I thank God several times a day for helping me survive. Especially in winter I feel like a hermit. The neighbors are all indoors.

I'm sorry for your loss. You have my prayers
 
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I'm sorry for your loss. You have my prayers

I pray for you to find friends and friendship,
I read a lot of books by Christians and think of them as my friends, sharing their experiences of growing closer to the Lord.
Lord bless and provide all you need ...
 
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I pray for you to find friends and friendship,
I read a lot of books by Christians and think of them as my friends, sharing their experiences of growing closer to the Lord.
Lord bless and provide all you need ...

It's not easy for me to meet friends. Friends come and go in my life. I try to keep contact with them but they either don't respond or say they are going through a tough time themselves.
 
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It seems to me that the underlying problem is that you are being attacked by an evil spirit of fear. If you are very healthy consider doing a 24 hour water only fast to be freed from that. One way or another, pray for freedom from it.

Now the way things so often can work is that you pray earnestly (about fear, a need for peace, a need to not be angry, whatever) and you may not see any results at first. Then later, maybe later that day or maybe the next day you notice that you are feeling way better. Then, maybe the next day the attack will come again and you could feel fearful again. So you must not despair again, but pray again. Life is a battle. "We wrestle not against flesh and blood but against...spiritual wickedness in high places" i.e. the dark side is the real enemy.

You do spiritual warfare by praying as often as you need to do so, because the devil does not give up easily but will always be slinking back to see what harm he can do.
 
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It's not easy for me to meet friends. Friends come and go in my life. I try to keep contact with them but they either don't respond or say they are going through a tough time themselves.
So true, I have a similar problem, which is why I have my forum friends, who are so loyal.
I praise God for his goodness to me, and praise him for the forum.
One thing I do that means a lot is to pray for friends and family near and far. One on every day of the month. Then every month or two, a short phone call to ask them how they are and if appropriate let them know that I pray for them.
I pray for you today, that the Lord will bless you richly with his presence as you seek more of him in Jesus name
 
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I should had explained myself more clearer sorry. I know spiritually I'm not alone as I know Christ is with me. I meant physically I don't want to be alone. It's hard for me to accept the fact that both my parents are gone. Even if it's been over a decade
What is keeping you from volunteering at a food bank or orphanage?
 
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So true, I have a similar problem, which is why I have my forum friends, who are so loyal.
I praise God for his goodness to me, and praise him for the forum.
One thing I do that means a lot is to pray for friends and family near and far. One on every day of the month. Then every month or two, a short phone call to ask them how they are and if appropriate let them know that I pray for them.
I pray for you today, that the Lord will bless you richly with his presence as you seek more of him in Jesus name

Thank you for your prayers and likewise
 
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