- Nov 13, 2019
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Hello I am a 40 year old woman who is severely in love with my 35 year old husband. We have been through alot of things and alot of them we inflicted on each other. We have come to a better understanding in our relationship but there is something he cannot let go. He believes I was physically unfaithful to him weeks before our wedding. Emotionally yes I was and have explained this 100s of times. He's wanting conversation between me and the other party. I regretfully cannot remember the whole conversation and I can't stand it. I wish I had recorded the conversations so we could put an end to this. We were married In May of 2013. I was already done conversating with this person because I wanted to marry my husband and be with him the rest of my life. The last time I talked with this person was April of that year. Like the begining of the month I believe. I have not always been an honest person but this I'm being honest about. I have unfortunately gave in to temptation that it would be better to just say I had intercourse with this person because I didn't see an end to the argument except to admit guilt. I have since went back and forth about I did and didn't sleep with this person. But I have come to an understanding that the truth is best. He will not except the truth and because its been so long since it happend. He sees my forgetfulness and an indication of how I feel about him. Like if he was important to me and I was telling the truth then I would remember what he wants answers to. I don't know what to do I have prayed and prayed about this but he keeps bringing it up. It has caused both of us so much heart ache I wish I had time machine to undo everything I've done. I am stupid because I was actually proud of myself for not physically cheating when I could have. I know that's prideful but I haven't always been the most selfless person and my self control has lacked quite a bit my whole life. Can someone please help me? I just want him to be in love with me as I am with him.