There is an issue here about what we all actually mean by "social control".
I am not clear, for instance, on what the actual role of a church is in relation to it's members. It's hard to imagine a role which doesn't involve some expectation of 'Christian' behaviour (whatever that means) in relation to society as one of a number of ways of meeting God's requirements/expectations. If there is an expectation about how Christians should act then is this not "social control"?
NB I'm seeing 'social control' as non- pejorative as in encouraging people to 'do unto others...' as well as the usual fixation on sin.
OB
But this is where it's interesting, I think. As someone who
does preach and
does lead a church, I've spent a lot of time thinking about how I think what I do is supposed to function; and I've come to the conclusion that what I do is *
not* supposed to be telling others what to do, or setting up expectations for how they should behave.
I see my role as preacher as resourcing the thinking and reflection of others; I have the time, and the resources and the training, to look each week at a piece of Scriptural text and offer my congregations a reflection on that text, its original context, its range of potential meanings, and possible connections with our lives today.
But people are free to take on board some, all, or none of what I say. They're free to disagree completely, and tell me so (and some do!), and still to come back and be completely a part of the church and in good standing. They're not required to agree with what I say, much less to conform to any suggestions I make; but are free to make their own carefully considered response in the light of their own faith (or lack thereof).
And that is proper and healthy.
There are some boundaries - notably to do with areas that also run afoul of secular law, but also a code of conduct that applies to those in leadership roles - that apply. So I guess to the extent that we say that we expect our leaders to pay their taxes on time, not break the law, and generally conduct themselves ethically, that's a sort of social control (although note that even that sort of expectation is the result of a fairly democratic and participatory process).
But in general, certainly in my denomination, church members are free to act as they will; and generally - unless someone's behaviour is damaging to the community - I try to keep my opinion to myself unless asked for it.
But when I talk about the church renouncing ambitions to social control, I don't really mean not having any expectations of their own members; as long as people are free to join and free to leave, and the group is not abusive or manipulative or the like, I think particular faith groups having whatever expectations of the group members is not, in itself, a problem. I am talking more about the idea that a Christian vision or agenda should dictate social or legislative norms more broadly, outside the Church.