- Nov 3, 2019
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Hello all. I am new to the forum and excited to join the community.
I see from the titles of other threads here that there are people in serious need of advice and support, and I would urge you to give them your attention before helping me. I would just like some advice on self-improvement for a personal flaw I've had trouble fixing.
Like the title suggests, I have a nasty habit of judging people, and judging them harshly. I often do this knowing hardly a thing about the person. Since I am a college student, I often have to interact with people who are generally hostile to my faith and my values, and the environment of the campus is not especially friendly to someone who takes their religion seriously.
For example, while walking to class, if I see a parked car with a bumper sticker supporting something that I see as immoral, I almost instinctively start to think about the kind of person the driver must be. "Oh, he/she must be some sort of godless heathen with no concept of morality. Maybe he or she is politically radical. I'll bet they would hate me if they met me, because I am a Christian and they hate people like me."
I know this is not the right way to act, but I can't seem to conquer it; it's a habit that just won't die, and I hate that there is this resentment within me. I know that I need to approach all people with love in my heart for my fellow man, because this is what Christ taught.
The verse that I first think of is usually Matthew 5:44, but are there any other verses that could speak to my situation? Otherwise, how can I think about myself, others, and the world differently so that I can be a more loving person, the way I should be?
For a bit of background, I have only been Christian for about a year now, and I was not raised in a Christian household, so my biblical background is lacking.
I see from the titles of other threads here that there are people in serious need of advice and support, and I would urge you to give them your attention before helping me. I would just like some advice on self-improvement for a personal flaw I've had trouble fixing.
Like the title suggests, I have a nasty habit of judging people, and judging them harshly. I often do this knowing hardly a thing about the person. Since I am a college student, I often have to interact with people who are generally hostile to my faith and my values, and the environment of the campus is not especially friendly to someone who takes their religion seriously.
For example, while walking to class, if I see a parked car with a bumper sticker supporting something that I see as immoral, I almost instinctively start to think about the kind of person the driver must be. "Oh, he/she must be some sort of godless heathen with no concept of morality. Maybe he or she is politically radical. I'll bet they would hate me if they met me, because I am a Christian and they hate people like me."
I know this is not the right way to act, but I can't seem to conquer it; it's a habit that just won't die, and I hate that there is this resentment within me. I know that I need to approach all people with love in my heart for my fellow man, because this is what Christ taught.
The verse that I first think of is usually Matthew 5:44, but are there any other verses that could speak to my situation? Otherwise, how can I think about myself, others, and the world differently so that I can be a more loving person, the way I should be?
For a bit of background, I have only been Christian for about a year now, and I was not raised in a Christian household, so my biblical background is lacking.