In all my life, I have never met a Christian like this one. We went out one time, spent the day together, had a nice time. We had met at a Church singles group (this was a good while ago, just pontificated this).
I mean, I don't want to sound like I'm begrudging her for believing this. But I was like "Really?!"
She reveals to me that she never plans on kissing anyone until her wedding day. I looked at her like she had 2-heads and asked her why, since it's not a sin.
And she said something about wanting to keep that day special.
Anyways, it didn't work out, for obvious reasons, as we did not align in our beliefs in that area. Just like I don't align with Christians that won't date a person that likes to have a beer on occasion, but the no kissing before marriage was a new one.
I shared this with my Christian friends, and they too, were shocked at this. We theorized it was just that she feared intimacy and was using her religion as an excuse to not get physical. Basically, she was just shy and it had nothing to do with God. That something may be a little off about that person if they sincerely believe this.
I mean, I want to meet a Christian woman, but with that, I tend to encounter these kinds of experiences. It's like they want to live a Amish lifestyle or something?
I mean, I don't want to sound like I'm begrudging her for believing this. But I was like "Really?!"
She reveals to me that she never plans on kissing anyone until her wedding day. I looked at her like she had 2-heads and asked her why, since it's not a sin.
And she said something about wanting to keep that day special.
Anyways, it didn't work out, for obvious reasons, as we did not align in our beliefs in that area. Just like I don't align with Christians that won't date a person that likes to have a beer on occasion, but the no kissing before marriage was a new one.
I shared this with my Christian friends, and they too, were shocked at this. We theorized it was just that she feared intimacy and was using her religion as an excuse to not get physical. Basically, she was just shy and it had nothing to do with God. That something may be a little off about that person if they sincerely believe this.
I mean, I want to meet a Christian woman, but with that, I tend to encounter these kinds of experiences. It's like they want to live a Amish lifestyle or something?