i Was wondering how often political differences affect your marriages and what you guys do to reconcile those differences. My wife and I have been married for the past 10 years, and for most of that time our political orientation was for the most part complimentary. I am a small government libertarian, transplant from the US Midwest and my wife has been a life long Torry. Therefore our views have for the most part been the same, we both believe in social and fiscal conservatism, individual responsibility, anti globalism and limited government intervention.
However, lately it seems Canadian politics devolved from everyone respecting that people can cordially disagree to either you are one of us or one of them. This has kind of started entering our home. A little while ago mu wife and I had a huge fight/disagreement over climate change.
What we both agree on is that climate change is a political tool being used by the regressive left as a way to control the people. I believe that the majority of those on the left are misguided and ignorant but they have a right to their opinion as I have a right to mine. I believe that we can respectfully disagree with each other and we should all be free to live according to our conscience within the framework of the law, both God’s and Man’s. My wife believes that those in the left are completely wrong and she hates them with a passion. She is constantly bashing Justin Trudeau, the Green Party and Greta Thurnberg. In addition she gets upset at me for not wanting to jump on the hate train. Although I disagree with those on the left I don’t feel it is right to spew vitriol and hatred towards them. That type of behavior serves only to push people further away and make compromises impossible.
Our argument started when my wife saw on Twitter that Greta Thunberg was coming to Canada, she immediately jumped onto the “stay out of Alberta” bandwagon. I reminded her that she and her Twitter friend said were for lack of better words cyber bullying a minor child and as an adult more she should know better. Now because I did not want to join in and attack an ignorant child I am “against” her.
How do you guys reconcile your political differences?
However, lately it seems Canadian politics devolved from everyone respecting that people can cordially disagree to either you are one of us or one of them. This has kind of started entering our home. A little while ago mu wife and I had a huge fight/disagreement over climate change.
What we both agree on is that climate change is a political tool being used by the regressive left as a way to control the people. I believe that the majority of those on the left are misguided and ignorant but they have a right to their opinion as I have a right to mine. I believe that we can respectfully disagree with each other and we should all be free to live according to our conscience within the framework of the law, both God’s and Man’s. My wife believes that those in the left are completely wrong and she hates them with a passion. She is constantly bashing Justin Trudeau, the Green Party and Greta Thurnberg. In addition she gets upset at me for not wanting to jump on the hate train. Although I disagree with those on the left I don’t feel it is right to spew vitriol and hatred towards them. That type of behavior serves only to push people further away and make compromises impossible.
Our argument started when my wife saw on Twitter that Greta Thunberg was coming to Canada, she immediately jumped onto the “stay out of Alberta” bandwagon. I reminded her that she and her Twitter friend said were for lack of better words cyber bullying a minor child and as an adult more she should know better. Now because I did not want to join in and attack an ignorant child I am “against” her.
How do you guys reconcile your political differences?