Have you considered giving up social media?

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Nah I love my smartphone. I can keep up with science breakthroughs & check out what others think. I’ve eclectic tastes and I like unusual stuff. Loved that flower embroidered satin cape with the pink lining that billy porter wore and wish I had the nerve to wear something like that. I don’t even have a Facebook acct or any other social media as I’d rather do my hobbies and dance
 
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Strictly speaking, no, this is not "social media" social media is generally the networks like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. not internet message boards. That said, it is certainly social and certainly can be worse than Social Media. But we do not allow companies or businesses (in general) to participate, unlike "Social Media".

I don't know what exactly defines "social media" really. Wikipedia says, "Social media are interactive computer-mediated technologies that facilitate the creation and sharing of information, ideas, career interests and other forms of expression via virtual communities and networks."

This site does allow you to create a user-profile that you can follow or interact with. You are able to share information, ideas and other forms of media with others. We can even react to each other posts. What is the difference between a board like this and social media companies like Twitter or Facebook? What makes them stand out as social media platforms other than having their own app?
 
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I no longer use Facebook. All it is anymore is a repository for people with a bone to pick to reach into and find stuff to use against you. That, and Silicon Valley censoring views they don't like.

LinkedIn, I still use. But of course, I post nothing to it but shallow inspirational quotes and academic videos so all the virtue signalers who might want to hire me can see them and think, "Gee, that person looks like no frivolous lawsuits."

I forgot about LinkedIn! I totally use LI. I guess I forget because I think of it as a professional site, and I never post things outside my profile.
 
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I don't know what exactly defines "social media" really. Wikipedia says, "Social media are interactive computer-mediated technologies that facilitate the creation and sharing of information, ideas, career interests and other forms of expression via virtual communities and networks."

This site does allow you to create a user-profile that you can follow or interact with. You are able to share information, ideas and other forms of media with others. We can even react to each other posts. What is the difference between a board like this and social media companies like Twitter or Facebook? What makes them stand out as social media platforms other than having their own app?
Well if you want to get technical - if you speak to someone in person, the air you vibrate is the medium, and you're being social...so every social interaction requires some kind of medium. If you write a letter with a pencil, that's another. Every interaction with other humans takes place using "social media". :)
 
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The only social media platform I use, besides forums, is YouTube. I never post videos or comments anymore because everyone there is looking for a fight. Instead, I use it like television on demand and keep track of my favorite content.

I downgraded my smart phone to a flip phone in recent months because it was proving too much of a distraction for me and also because I got an ad for the Canadian armed forces after having a conversation with a man at a bar about his life in the air force. That freaked me out because I have a habit of talking to myself when I'm alone at home.

The thing is, the internet is becoming less and less fun now. Going on the internet for the first time back in the early 2000s was like entering Willy Wonka's chocolate factory with all of the information, forums, games, cartoons, and easy inappropriate contentography. Nowadays it's like a meth lab in Newfoundland with all sorts of messed up inappropriate contentography, political strife, and people screaming at each other over trivial things.

For the first time in my life, real life is becoming much more fun than the internet. Joining a church, socializing at the bar, and hanging out with real people vastly improved my mental health and if I could do life all over again knowing what I know now, I'd spend much, much more time out in the real world.

Indeed! Question: were you able to buy a flip phone or was it an older phone you had in your possession?

Also, does it connect at all to the internet?
 
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Indeed! Question: were you able to buy a flip phone or was it an older phone you had in your possession?

Also, does it connect at all to the internet?
I was wondering that too. :) I've got several old flip phones lying around that I've considered rebooting.
 
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They still make flip phones because not everyone can afford a smart phone. I bought mine at Wal-Mart for roughly C$75 and changed my monthly phone bill from C$113 down to C$40. Mine does connect to the internet but it's a lot less convenient than a smart phone since it doesn't have a touch screen.

If you're looking for a phone simply to make calls and texts, I'd recommend it. If you want internet, I'd say stick to a smart phone.

Thank you!!!
 
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There is nothing wrong with social media, it's how you use it that matters. I use facebook live daily during the week because my church organization broadcasts an hour long show there between 1 and 2 pm 5 days a week called The Grace Hour . Other than that I might like something a family member posted and that's about it.

I use my smart phone to outline intros I do for my pastor friend, I can copy paste scripture, write prayers into it etc. Then it's my pocket notebook during what I present.
 
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Is Jesus holy? I am not like most. Facebook.. have friends but..never ever use it but to post christian Music Videos. The others ones? yeah.. I ME ME see no God in it and just.... not good. My phone.. my wife never uses it.. she never even wanted on..HELLO? Lol.. so driving a..looking up so store or food..thats IT!
 
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Is Jesus holy? I am not like most. Facebook.. have friends but..never ever use it but to post christian Music Videos. The others ones? yeah.. I ME ME see no God in it and just.... not good. My phone.. my wife never uses it.. she never even wanted on..HELLO? Lol.. so driving a..looking up so store or food..thats IT!

Thanks for sharing! God bless. :)
 
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have a "dumb" phone for $25/mos
plan isn't avail anymore so hoping it keeps working
can only make calls as the text button broke

not on FB, instagram, twitter, etc
if someone needs me, they can call or email

don't feel missing out on anything or is ignorance, bliss

I envy you. I should have gone this route.

One thing I have done is given up TV. And I wish I gave it up years ago...but that's a topic for another time.
 
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I envy you. I should have gone this route.

think it's a privacy thing with me as don't want to put my name out there on FB, instagram, etc
& no one has my cell no. except husband-I won't give it out
people can only call husband to contact me which they do


since giving up landline, it's so nice & quiet
no telemarketers
 
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And maybe even your smartphone?

yes I've considered doing that as a kind of spiritual retreat/Fast (and have done that in the past), but for the record I consider this board a part of social media along with Facebook etc.


I however cant give up my smart phone. I need it for work, and it is my main house phone.
 
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