She does not have, our relationship is almost 3 years.
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By the way guys, the reason why I'm telling this to you, because I love sharing God's Word to those baby Christians and evangelizing..so all female baby Christians I evangelized, I want her to disciple them if ever, but I'm really having difficulty..I think I need to find another leader that will lead these females?
This is one of our conflict...that's my spiritual desire, to make disciples.
but thank you so much guys for advice and encouragement...please pray for me also.
hmmm, Yes, I would agree that you have a problem, but it's not the one that you think you have.
First you need to realize that God already has something planned for her, just as He also has something planned for you.
So even though the two of you will be husband and wife, (an area which you really need to learn about, BTW) it's not your place for you to dictate the place in your marriage that your wife will fill, nor what duties that she will be doing for you.
She is not an employee, she is your wife and you need to take time to learn how a wife is different from an employee.
And yes, I agree with you that you do need to find another leader with the gifting of shepherding, compassion, and teaching to come along side you in your ministry.
Your job is to fill the nets with the fish and haul them in, but it's the job of your partner in ministry to do the cleaning and preparation so that your ministry can prosper.
You entrust that part of the ministry to your partner, that so you have the time to build and establish the foundations for the marriage between you and your wife in the first years of your marriage, when it really counts.
If you neglect that vital time of preparation between you and your wife, you will live to deeply regret it later, and it will be twice as difficult as it would have been had you done so at the beginning.
You don't want to end your life's work as a popular evangelist who failed at his marriage.