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This discussion evolved out of discussion from another thread about lds doctrine. I feel it was becoming too off topic so I would like to continue it here. The focus is Mormon Polygamy, Polyamory and the example of Joseph Smith and Brigham Young.
Discussion begins about page 4 on the original thread.
LDS - Make a list of all your LDS doctrines, you will not find that combo in the Early Church Fathers, Wh
Yet we are told by Mormons that Joseph Smith didn’t sleep with his many wives. Did he then, if I am to take part 2 of your argument seriously? Joseph then would have been justified in breaking the secular law? This is even more shocking when we see that the official public position of the LDS Church was that Polygmy was not practiced, it was even forbidden in the D&C before Brigham Young amended it. It would then seem to be the case that Joseph and the Church institution is guilty of then lying about the actual actions of the Church.
So we’re told. Remember Joseph Smith also lied to the Public. Why should the LDS be trusted on this matter? Maybe you personally don't but whose to say one of your Prophets couldn't be receiving secret revelation and doing exactly what Joseph Smtih said? That would be perfectly acceptable right?
I doubt Jesus wanted or need Joseph Smith to marry 40 or so women and especially women already married in the Mormon way and the secular way. I also doubt Jesus needed these same women being eternally sealed to Brigham Young when Joseph died. Whose wives will these women be in the next life?
We quite obviously believe our marriages are temporary based on Jesus’ words that we will live like angels in the next life. Mormons believe as we do that Angels don’t have sex or are married and thus we won’t be in any such state. This isn’t to suggest the spiritual or unique bond is broken at the moment of death completely. It is even stranger for Mormons to remarry or be sealed to someone else after their first spouse's death because it's not just a temporal arrangement but an eternal arrangement. You need to explain how this works. How do wives in multiple spiritual marriages get distributed?
I do find your argument fascinating that since Joseph was only spiritually married to women already married that it was perfectly acceptable. Mind you Joseph's spiritual cuckoldry would have affected the Mormon husbands of the many women he married in doing this if your rationale is correct. That Joseph Smith married these women to not be with them necessarily on earth but he did it to be united to them for all eternity doesn't seem like a justification at all. These were Mormon men whom we have no reason to doubt were sealed to their wives in proper Mormon fashion either.
Joseph would then have denied the following men their wives: Henry B. Jacobs. Heber C. Kimbal. Windsor Lyon.
Honest question to any Mormon man. How would you feel if you were put in any such position of a man wanting to marry your wife (with whom she will be with forever and can also be with physically temporally)?
Discussion begins about page 4 on the original thread.
LDS - Make a list of all your LDS doctrines, you will not find that combo in the Early Church Fathers, Wh
Here are the reasons it needed to be instituted:
1) the persecution of the church members left many widows, and how were we going to take care of these women and their families?
2) because of the persecution, the Lord instituted plural marriage to increase the population of the church faster than normal increases in population, so that a critical mass could be reached where governments and mobs could not wipe out the church.
Yet we are told by Mormons that Joseph Smith didn’t sleep with his many wives. Did he then, if I am to take part 2 of your argument seriously? Joseph then would have been justified in breaking the secular law? This is even more shocking when we see that the official public position of the LDS Church was that Polygmy was not practiced, it was even forbidden in the D&C before Brigham Young amended it. It would then seem to be the case that Joseph and the Church institution is guilty of then lying about the actual actions of the Church.
By 1890's the problems were solved, and the US was passing laws prohibiting plural marriage and so the Lord made it known that it was time to end the practice. So since the 1890's we have practiced monogamous marriage in the church.
So we’re told. Remember Joseph Smith also lied to the Public. Why should the LDS be trusted on this matter? Maybe you personally don't but whose to say one of your Prophets couldn't be receiving secret revelation and doing exactly what Joseph Smtih said? That would be perfectly acceptable right?
Our prophets only do what the Lord tells them to do. Whether that is going beyond what the ancient apostles did is not relevant, it is what Jesus wants.
I doubt Jesus wanted or need Joseph Smith to marry 40 or so women and especially women already married in the Mormon way and the secular way. I also doubt Jesus needed these same women being eternally sealed to Brigham Young when Joseph died. Whose wives will these women be in the next life?
At least our first 2 prophets did marry women while they were married to other men. But they married them for eternity, after they both died. The women continued to live with their husbands while they lived on earth, but when they died, they then lived with their eternal partner.
Why that would make a difference for you, I don't know, since you believe that at death all marriages are annulled. So to you, what JS and BY did in terms of marriage not for time, but for eternity only was null and void and harmless.
We quite obviously believe our marriages are temporary based on Jesus’ words that we will live like angels in the next life. Mormons believe as we do that Angels don’t have sex or are married and thus we won’t be in any such state. This isn’t to suggest the spiritual or unique bond is broken at the moment of death completely. It is even stranger for Mormons to remarry or be sealed to someone else after their first spouse's death because it's not just a temporal arrangement but an eternal arrangement. You need to explain how this works. How do wives in multiple spiritual marriages get distributed?
I do find your argument fascinating that since Joseph was only spiritually married to women already married that it was perfectly acceptable. Mind you Joseph's spiritual cuckoldry would have affected the Mormon husbands of the many women he married in doing this if your rationale is correct. That Joseph Smith married these women to not be with them necessarily on earth but he did it to be united to them for all eternity doesn't seem like a justification at all. These were Mormon men whom we have no reason to doubt were sealed to their wives in proper Mormon fashion either.
Joseph would then have denied the following men their wives: Henry B. Jacobs. Heber C. Kimbal. Windsor Lyon.
Honest question to any Mormon man. How would you feel if you were put in any such position of a man wanting to marry your wife (with whom she will be with forever and can also be with physically temporally)?