Recently in hospital I was not helped by the attitude of many nurses. They walked around looking very severe and if I called on them for assistance they glared with looks that could kill. Was I being covetous in asking for their attention? Some patients were over demanding, but I withdrew and just prayed.
There are nurses who are not children of God. And they can be feeling the stress and feel used and are wasting away. But God's love makes us stronger and ever more creative.
At first, in dealing with some thorn in the flesh person, we might be reacting negatively, and I certainly can get busy in paranoid imagining of how I can put down a problem person and control him or her. But Jesus then corrects me, by changing me to care for the person and be ready with good example to put in that person's face, and discover how creative God can have me become to love that same person.
There are nurses who simply are mean. Others may be trying to be kind, but someone before you has already abused that nurse, or a supervisor or another nurse has gotten into a problem with her. And if they do not have God's love with almighty power to keep us and increase us in spite of evil . . . they can give in. And we ourselves give in, don't we? But it is clear how
"Love never fails" > in 1 Corinthians 13:8.
So, you do well to care for these troubling nurses. They are in major trouble, very possibly, inside themselves. And we are not here to only use other people, but be there for them, in prayer and caring sharing.
By the way . . . I see you are in Barbados. But humans there are like humans where I am in the armpit of Cape Cod, Massachusetts. Also, before I was here, I was romantic with a nurse who turned out to be not for marriage, to keep it simple. And I heard she was later fired for stealing Valiums which had been prescribed for the special needs and emotionally troubled children where I had worked with her. And now I can see a possible connection > we had one guy who could get to really screaming and acting out; now I see it is possible she had been pilfering his Valiums and then he would go crazy.
You are an ambassador of Jesus who can negotiate their surrender and defection to Jesus. And then they can become family with us. It is like how an enemy soldier can be won to your side >
I was told that when the Americans captured a Nazi soldier, they did not torture him but treated him right so they could show him how the Hitler thing was wrong. And enemy soldiers would then change and help the Allies. Instead of surrendering and only being put in prisoner of war camps, they could surrender and submit, and then they could become family.
Like this, we are not only trying to get people put in prisoner of war camps, like maybe certain churches can be. But we minister people to surrender but also become submissive to God in His own peace (Colossians 3:15), so then also they can become family with us >
"with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)
So, in a hospital, you are not on your own, but you are with Jesus plus you are family with all of us.