I get to know a group of friends when I was pregnant with my child. We hung out a lot and supported one another in our motherhood. However, due to some confrontation and being too direct, I lost a group of them who thought i wa nasty in my comments and not understanding. I did not recall what gave me the courage to do so in the past, but I was misled by one of them who fed me a lot of info, but during the confrontation, she chose to keep quiet and chose to kept mouth.
So i lost that group of friends (being made the scapegoat), while she continued on good terms with a few of them. I had a hard time getting over the event that happened and still hang out with this person who had made me the scapegoat, as I do not think there is a need to ditch the friendship. However, lately I feel so miserable again that I had shouldered all the blame for being the mouthpiece for the event that happened. I felt so silly and used. I do not know if I should continue the friendship with this person who chose to continue happily with the group while I am left out from the group.
Please provide some spiritual advice and encouragement so that I can learn and let this go. This has been going on for 2 years and I still wake up feeling the pinch at times.
Any similar experience out there to share and advice?
So i lost that group of friends (being made the scapegoat), while she continued on good terms with a few of them. I had a hard time getting over the event that happened and still hang out with this person who had made me the scapegoat, as I do not think there is a need to ditch the friendship. However, lately I feel so miserable again that I had shouldered all the blame for being the mouthpiece for the event that happened. I felt so silly and used. I do not know if I should continue the friendship with this person who chose to continue happily with the group while I am left out from the group.
Please provide some spiritual advice and encouragement so that I can learn and let this go. This has been going on for 2 years and I still wake up feeling the pinch at times.
Any similar experience out there to share and advice?