How to bless your enemies?

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What are some ways of blessing one's enemies? Especially when they hate you so much and are violently opposed to you, and use sorcery against you?

Mat 5:44 - But I say unto you... pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
 
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Therefore "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head." -Romans 12.20​

That's probably the best way. The might be closed off normally (see Matthew 7:6 for a warning), but if a need should develop, helping them might make an impression on their conscience.

Other than that you can a) forgive them, and b) pray that they be blessed. Not necessarily blessed in superficial things, but in things pertaining to true life.
 
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What are some ways of blessing one's enemies? Especially when they hate you so much and are violently opposed to you, and use sorcery against you?

1). Pray for their salvation and repentance from a safe distance. 2). Do not seek revenge.
 
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Therefore "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head." -Romans 12.20​
A somewhat literal-minded interpretation would be that if your enemy is doing just fine, you can't bless him.

Which suggests hope for him to fall flat on his face when you're there to pick him up with an air of smug spiritual superiority. But that feels wrong somehow.
 
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A somewhat literal-minded interpretation would be that if your enemy is doing just fine, you can't bless him.

Which suggests hope for him to fall flat on his face when you're there to pick him up with an air of smug spiritual superiority. But that feels wrong somehow.

The wrong feeling is probably due to the smug superiority. Though it doesn't seem to bother all that many.
 
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What are some ways of blessing one's enemies? Especially when they hate you so much and are violently opposed to you, and use sorcery against you?
Sorcery eh? St Paul blinded a sorcerer before I think. but maybe he's allowed to cuz God blinded him before too.

I don't know how to bless my enemies. I think I made a couple of them happy when they beat me up.
 
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every time i pray for my enemies they do something even worse.
David prayed against his enemies. Jesus prayed for his - publicly.

It's a judgment call. Take it on a case-by-case basis. Understand the spirit of what Jesus is saying.
 
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What are some ways of blessing one's enemies? Especially when they hate you so much and are violently opposed to you, and use sorcery against you?
Pray for them.

Pray "Christ have mercy on them, and on me".
 
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You cannot have mercy without truth.
Would you have me to ask God to give you mercy
if you are going to waste it?

How can you know what someone else will waste? God is omniscient not you.
 
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